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Curfew-Breaking Teen Sentenced to Hard Time - Babysitting for Free
Filed under: In The News, Weird But True, Chores, Social & Emotional Growth: Teens, Activities: Teens
Credit: Adrian McCandless, The Fort Worth Star-Telegram
What we had here was a failure to communicate.
Kristin Rausch should have known better. You do not want to break the law in Texas, a state known for its strict treatment of criminals.
So when the 16-year-old violated curfew, the hammer came down and her parents sentenced her to hard labor.
Make that really hard labor: She has to take care of small children.
Rausch might have been better off with bread and water in solitary confinement, but no, the Star-Telegram in Fort Worth reports, she must donate 30 hours of free babysitting.
Her father and stepmother took out an ad in the Southlake Journal, complete with Rauch's photo, offering her services.
This is Rausch's first experience doing hard time, according to the Star-Telegram. She belongs to the National Honor Society at Carroll Senior High School in Southlake, a suburban community just 10 miles west of the Dallas/Fort Worth International Airport.
Yet, curfew is a big deal in the Rausch home, and violating it brings swift and certain retribution.
The Star-Telegram reports Rausch actually got off light. Originally, her parents were going to offer her services to a community service project. But when that fell through, they went with babysitting.
Even so, the newspaper reports, she lucked out, and ended up watching children ages 6 to 10 instead of rowdier babies and toddlers.
The humiliation factor of seeing the ad may have been the worst part of the punishment.
"I was embarrassed," Rausch tells the Star-Telegram. "I had no idea they had done that."
The ad is worded to sound as if Rausch wrote it herself. "My pain is your gain," it states.
"We wanted her to make it up with community service," her stepmother Wendy Rausch tells the Star-Telegram. "My husband got the idea from a situation he encountered at work that people like free labor."
Of course, taking out an ad with a picture of a pretty teenage girl who is available to go to people's homes could be dangerous. The Rausches know that, the Star-Telegram reports, which is why they carefully screened all babysitting requests.
By last weekend, the newspaper reports, Rausch had completed nearly half of her sentence.
Joanne Reding, a neighbor of the Rausch family, tells the Star-Telegram Rausch's pain was definitely her gain. Reding says she was able to attend a weekend meeting that she probably would have missed with no one to watch her 11-year-old son.
"I think this is a great idea," Reding tells the paper. "What she did was very serious, and I admire her parents for calling her on it."
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 4)
8-24-2010 @ 2:18PM
basketpam said...Hey, I've always been an advocate of let the punishment fit the crime. I think this was a pretty good idea. It didn't harm the daughter in any way, someone benefited from it and I bet she learned her lesson. Not a bad idea. More parents need to crack down on their teens. We'd have less of these "divas" that we all deal with right now in our society. Trust me, owning a toy store for 7 years I could tell you stories that would turn your hair gray, but I won't take the time to tell you all about the bad parenting that's happening in this world today. Just learn from this good example.
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8-24-2010 @ 4:18PM
William said...Do you really want some ticked off teenager, who doesn't want to be there, watching your children? I don't.
8-24-2010 @ 5:12PM
pasthecrablegs said...Yeah just what I want. A pissed teen who is forced to watch my kids. Just thinking of the abuse my little ones will have to endure. No thanks.
8-24-2010 @ 6:19PM
Katherine said...William & pasthecrablegs, get a camera you idiots. If the teen does anything inappropriate then charge them and they'll get jail time. I probably have to spell this out for you two, don't tell the teen you have cameras and don't let them see it.
8-24-2010 @ 7:01PM
colleen said...I think community service is a great idea but I don't think public humiliation is something that a teenager needs to endure at the hands of the step-mother and father. They could have just as easily had her volunteer at the church, the hospital or elderly care center without raising her up for others to judge. You see what people are writing about her? Why would you ever do that? She is a good girl and an honor student and that part of who she is, is being lost here. Your parents are where you go for safety.
8-24-2010 @ 7:07PM
scoobe2 said...so stupid. how about being a parent and grounding her curfew breaking behind until forever? as a kid my parents made me babysit my neighbors 3 kids for free and i hated it. they were brats and i resented the fact i had to do this because my parents felt bad for her because she had no husband. these people sound like a bunch of morons.
8-24-2010 @ 7:32PM
Tina said...I think it is a great idea too! I just wonder how many of us can actually afford to put an ad in the newspaper though since that is part of what made it a punishment.
8-25-2010 @ 1:07PM
Gail said...I actually had a similar situation. My son was invited to a party & the parents stepped out(without our knowledge). The kids stared drinking and he and a friend left. He got picked up for a curfew violation. We refused to pay his fine b/c he and his friend decided to take the long way home, just to wander around town a bit. He knew that what he did was wrong. We did not ground him b/c he refused to drink (there was a breat-a-lizer done b/c the drinkers were caught too,so we're not naive parents) But, his community service was in the form of 40 hours working at VBS. It's kinda funny b/c he got the most pesty group with a little girl that had a voice like a hatchet! (devine retrobution) BTW, my son and his friend are also honor students. In short, we could have paid the fine to reward the good choice...but he needed to learn from his mistake. Bottom line: good kids make mistakes....great parents let them pick up after their own mistakes.
8-24-2010 @ 2:39PM
american said...Ricky, I've seen your posts before on other articles...Ihaven't decided yet whether you are in the 5-9 age group or the 9-13 group. Let us know, will ya'?
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8-24-2010 @ 2:39PM
L Baker said...It must be nice to live in Texas where you can actually punish your teens and not be in trouble with the law. If we did this in California we would be charged with child abuse and have CPS come to our house.
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8-24-2010 @ 3:04PM
Lisa said...Oh please I live in California and the only parents that lose their kids to CPS are the parents that deserve to lose them. You must be one of them.
8-24-2010 @ 3:25PM
junior said...Lisa, Oh please, California doesn't have any money to protect their kids. Look how long Jaycee Dugard was right under their noses and they still couldn't find her. And octomom still has her 16 kids just to make my point.
8-24-2010 @ 3:52PM
lynnvt2000 said...Amen. I live in NY and its the same. a shame. parents cannot parent.
8-24-2010 @ 5:40PM
Shanon said...Junior, oh please yourself. I was born and raised in California and now reside in Texas. This state is no better. According to your ignorant claim that CA doesn't have enough money to take care of it's kids, explain to me why there have been multiple reports DAILY of mothers killing their children in horrific ways, right here in TX.
I understand this happens everywhere, which negates your silly little theory. Please do not post anymore until you educate yourself. People like you are the reason we are labeled "dumb Americans."
8-24-2010 @ 2:45PM
Connie said...My only concern in this case is what would the "volunteered babysitter's" attitude be? If she were truly mad about the idea, would you want her babysitting your child? Hopefully, that was not the case here. Perhaps she learned her lesson and had a good attitude while paying her "fine". I think I'd have opted for loss of priviledges at home or family car washes for a while.
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8-24-2010 @ 3:41PM
Georgia Gullixson said...I agree with Connie's take on the subject. I would be a bit worried about the kids the 'bad girl' is sitting.
8-24-2010 @ 5:41PM
juicy said...Hello??!! She is an Honor Student. She came home late, not drunk. I think your children are safe and I think the parents are brilliant.
8-24-2010 @ 7:40PM
Ore N. Mavro said...I agree. Kids are bad enough when people are watching them, to people their own age, nowadays. I'm only in my mid 20's and I notice clearly how ill-behaved my friends younger siblings, cousins and kids period act around me. Its scary, and yes it is a parenting issue as well as, what environments and media they are frequently exposed too:
oversexed and violent.
@Katherine
I'm sorry but you're the idiot. A camera may solve the problem of evidence as to why your child is acting like a war veteran and is afraid of people, but it wont change the fact that they were daunted at a very precarious stage of the development of their minds and how they view other humans. As a victim of multiple types of abuse I can tell you, even if you think they shrug it off. Kids really don't know how to deal, they will be a bit maladaptive in some manner when they get older.
And if you think that gamble is worth it to have a free baby-sitter, I really hope you don't have kids. Cheapskate.
8-24-2010 @ 8:41PM
Drpooseygirl said...I agree. I would not want someone watching my kids, or now my grandchild, that was having to do it for punishment. I dont want my littlle one being taken care of by soneone who might take their anger out on her.
8-24-2010 @ 2:47PM
jen said...Hell yeah, this is a good idea!
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