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Medical Mystery Surrounding Highly-Sensitive Kids ... Solved?
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This book could help in diagnosing your child's sensitivities. Courtesy of Sensory World
You have a gut feeling that something's wrong with your child: He's often cranky, confused, overwhelmed, fatigued. At times you suspect a rare illness -- maybe autism or ADD? But his pediatrician gives him a clean bill of health, and his teacher says those other labels don't quite fit. Neurodevelopment expert Roya Ostovar may have the answer.
Her book, "The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Processing Disorder," introduces the little-known developmental condition. Children with the disorder cannot properly process stimuli received through the senses. Because sensory processing disorder is just now gaining wider recognition outside specialized clinical circles, it can be difficult to diagnose and, therefore, treat. Not only does "The Ultimate Guide" thoroughly explain the condition and offer many real case examples, it lists detailed, situation-specific strategies for children and their families that can produce life-changing results.
ParentDish spoke with Ostovar, a psychiatry instructor at Harvard Medical School and the director of the famous McLean Hospital's Center for Neurodevelopmental Services, to find out more about sensory processing disorder. An edited version of the interview follows.
ParentDish: Let's start by talking about what the sensory processing system is. We're all familiar with the five senses -- sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste -- but there's more to it than that, right?
Roya Ostovar: Yes, there are actually two additional senses: The sense of balance and coordinated movement (the vestibular system), and the positioning sense (the properioceptive system). We're more aware of the vestibular sense when we have an inner ear infection and feel dizzy. The properioceptive system receives its information from our muscles and joints. It lets us know where we are in space and helps us move effortlessly and smoothly.
PD: Sensory processing disorder is a complex condition. Do you have a quickie definition you offer parents who have never heard of it before?
RO: I tell people that SPD distorts and over-exaggerates the way a child receives, registers and reacts to everyday sensory information. Anything that their senses take in from the environment can become misinterpreted by their brain and therefore experienced differently from how you or I would feel it. In a nutshell, it makes the world overwhelming.
PD: Some readers will think, "Oh, here's another diagnosis for problem kids who just need structure and discipline." How do you respond to that?
RO: I totally understand their puzzlement, but SPD is a real disorder. It's equivalent to having chronic stress, something that we all can relate to. As you know, stress can take a big toll on your body. It puts us in fight or flight mode: You feel hyper-vigilant and alert all the time. Which is exhausting!
SPD impacts every area of a child's functioning at home, in school and beyond, such as learning, socializing and being able to fully participate in everyday life. What's at stake here is improving the lives of children so that they can function at their best.
PD: Parents may be impatient with children dealing with sensory processing disorder, feeling that they should just suck it up and deal. Why is that not a good idea?
RO: SPD is a developmental disorder, and it is biologically based. Like any other medical condition, one cannot just try harder to get rid of it. It needs to be treated correctly and effectively by qualified professionals. If a parent puts the responsibility on their child to deal with this condition alone, that child is sure to fail.
The emotional and psychological implications of failing repeatedly and on a daily basis, despite one's best efforts, are devastating. In fact, I recommend the opposite approach. Youngsters must be educated and empowered about their condition, and learn adaptive ways of dealing with the symptoms of SPD.
Roya Ostovar is an expert on Sensory Processing Disorder. Credit: Sensory World
RO: It is more important and helpful to think about the degree to which a child's day-to-day functioning is affected by these symptoms than to count the number of symptoms. It's true that many of the symptoms of SPD are universal, but kids without SPD can live a normal life and go about their day without their sensitivities getting in the way.
The key here is that for little ones with SPD, the symptoms pass a threshold and cause impairment in various areas of functioning. This, by the way, is true of most medical and psychiatric disorders. We have to consider the frequency, the intensity and the level of impairment that the symptoms cause. For example, while we all feel sad from time to time, it isn't considered depression until the symptoms have passed a certain threshold.
PD: In the book, you note that sensory processing disorder can develop after illness. How common is that?
RO: Anything that compromises the nervous system of a child can affect how he/she takes in sensory information. You might see SPD in children with significant prenatal risks, such as:
- A mother's drug/alcohol use during pregnancy
- Major medical complications during pregnancy
- Trauma during birth, such as lack of oxygen
- And/or significant postnatal factors, such as institutionalization for long periods of times. Also, those who have had trauma, injury, surgery or suffer from substantial neglect and/or abuse.
RO: Not really, though it may appear that they do. As children grow, they learn ways of coping with this condition and try to work around it. The main coping mechanism is avoidance, meaning they try to anticipate, based on previous experience, what a given place or event may feel like for their sensory system and avoid those activities, places and events. Adolescents and adults with this condition have figured out how to adapt and have developed strategies to make the world less overwhelming.
PD: The good news is that sensory processing disorder is treatable. What are the success rates you've seen?
RO: Yes, SPD is highly treatable. Clinical research shows that occupational therapy, and specifically sensory integration therapy, is very effective. It's surprisingly inexpensive, as well. Children and adolescents who have undergone treatment have seen great improvements in their learning abilities, socialization skills, attention and concentration.
PD: Your book provides detailed "cheat sheets" on how to manage children's stress in various situations like the grocery store, a sporting event or a birthday party. Can some families handle a child's mild sensory processing disorder without the help of an official diagnosis or expert intervention?
RO: The book does provide a wealth of practical solutions to sensory challenges. But an official diagnosis is helpful in many ways. It provides validation for the individual and the family -- that what they've been experiencing is real, has a name and can be treated.
Getting an assessment and diagnosis also links the family to a professional, typically an occupational therapist. The OT develops an individualized treatment plan for the child, known as a "sensory diet." The idea is similar to a nutritional diet, but this program recommends toys and activities that benefit the child in specific ways. Lastly, with an official diagnosis, a child can receive OT services through their school district and receive special accommodations in the classroom.
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 1)
8-25-2010 @ 4:13PM
Michelle said...My daughter was born with an underdeveloped cerebellum. The cerebellum controls balance and coordination, one of the additional senses, according to the book's author. My little girl does have a lot of sensory issues. She gets very anxious and overwhelmed in areas of wide open space, or in crowds of people. This makes her very emotional at times. She often will go sit by herself and put her face down on a table, a pillow or on the couch, just to get her bearings when things get to be too much for her brain to process. She does much better in a simple, organized and quiet environment. This book would be an interesting read for my husband and I to better understand our daughter. Thanks.
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8-27-2010 @ 12:10AM
Liz said...It's great to see a new book out on SPD and to see it getting more attention.
One comment on the answer saying OT is "surprisingly inexpensive". I think most parents would agree it can be pretty expensive, and that many insurance companies either don't cover it, or cover a very limited amount. And when they do, it is often very hard to get the approval. I realize it is because SPD does not have a medical code, but you can quickly be spending thousands of dollars.
Other than that, this interview has some great information and good explantions of what SPD is.
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8-28-2010 @ 3:29PM
Diana said...Where in this article does it specify symptoms by which this condition can be identified? I read it over again and still could not define just how this "condition" shows outwardly to a parent, other than it's being described by terms that every child experiences in their lives. Obviously we are supposed to rush out and buy this book so as to place typical childhood behaviors under yet another "umbrella" label.
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8-28-2010 @ 4:58PM
Mom of 2 SPD kids said...I describe SPD as when the brain magnifies, or diminishes, signals it gets from touch, taste, hearing, sight and smell. Whether to be concerned is how your kid is in relation to others his/her age. If your child consistently freaks out when others don't, Google SPD. There are many books on the subject, and SI Focus magazine, which is online, is a great source. Also, if your child can't seem to feel hot/cold, pee running down his leg, sharp objects, or can't seem to hear what you say, even when looking at you, or will eat foods other kids won't eat, etc. your child may be hyposensitive. This is also SPD, and is worth treating. I have one of each-hyper, hypersensitive, and hyposensitive. OT was a life-saver for my hyper child.
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8-28-2010 @ 5:09PM
Lois Mang said...I had been a Visual Motor Perception teacher and therapist in a school system for 14 years. The school systen was set up to proviede Visual Motor Perception to children (K thru 2nd) who were identified through testing and was very succussful.
I then opened an office with a well known optometrist for a total of 28 years. My patients ranged from 4 years to seventeen years.old.
It was also very successful and the schools would send the children to my office for therapy..
Visual Motor Perception is another avenue for children with these problems to help cope with learning and everyday activities.
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8-28-2010 @ 5:11PM
cqdeed said...Psychobabble is still babble no matter what fancy name you want to use. I took some psyc classes in college and everything was some Doctor's opinion. In my opinion, Psychology is another name for con or scam.
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8-28-2010 @ 6:18PM
Irish Mist said...cqdeed...I guess that your post could be called psychobabble as well and just your opinion. Perhaps you are a victim as well since you don't seem to be able to process what was written on the condition.
8-29-2010 @ 12:47PM
Carol Ott said...My grandson is so sensitive to touch like combing his hair. Also washing his face and the spashing of water sets him into a frenzy.
I keep telling his therapist about this but they dont want to recognize his sense of discomfort. I have to wash his face for him or it will never get done and he will be late for school !!
Why dont more people in the psychiatric field recognize this disorder??
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8-28-2010 @ 7:30PM
amanda said...I currently work in Pediatric Psychology in a hospital, and I see a lot of kids who have this problem. It is hard to diagnose and understand, but I think it is a completely valid diagnosis. Hopefully with more attention and research, it can become less of a mystery. Also, to the person who stated that OT is expensive and hard to get insurance to cover, I am not sure what state you are from, but often the school district has an OT that can come in and work with the child. This is paid for by the school, so costs nothing to the parents. But again, it likely depends on what state you live in whether or not it is included in the school.
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8-28-2010 @ 8:33PM
Momof6girls said...Melody, come spend a day yes just one day adn I think you might have a different feeling on this. I have 6 daughters so I know a bit about what it is like to have kids, My 3 year old was just diagnosised with SPD alnong with some other medical problems. Having raised 4 girls before her who all had thier little preferences or idiosyncrasies as you call them is nothing compaired to what I have to do on a daily bases, it is not as simple as I can not eat spagetti or wear my sweater, that may be just a couple of things on the LONG list of things that my daughter has issues with EVERYDAY. For you to say that is crap makes me kind of upset. Until you have lived a day or even 2 hours in my shoes you might be quick to change your mind. Just because my daughter has SPD does not mean she is never going to be college-educated and live quite well with careers and well-adjusted families of her own. You are just ignorant
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8-28-2010 @ 10:29PM
Boston Blackie said...Melody, Must be nice to know it all and be so perfect. Perhaps you should look further into things. Frankly, I hope to heaven that you don't have children and never do as they might have this problem and you would ignore it and the child would suffer endlessly.
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8-28-2010 @ 11:18PM
Texas Mom 2 said...Melody- you are very fortunate to have raised 4 healthy children. I'm a mom to 2 children with REAL disorders. It's odd to me that you have such passion about something you know nothing about. Good luck to you and I hope your life continues to be perfect, but the rest of us have children that need help and people to stand up for them.
I also agree that OT is expensive as I currently spend around $400/mth for one child and will spend double in 2 months when my 2 year old ages out of ECI care.
Also, the school system (at least in Texas) does not recognize Sensory Processing Disorder and will not provide services for these children, they have a "Melody" attitude toward these kids. I'm very interested in the book and look forward to reading it. I hope I'll find some new ways to help my children succeed in life. Every day is a challenge, but we make it through and manage to have a good time! :)...MOST days anyway!
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8-29-2010 @ 12:25AM
Michelle said...Melody,
It's easy to feel the way you do when you have been fortunate enough to raise all healthy kids. But just because all of your kids were born healthy, doesn't mean that other kids don't experience this disorder. Yes, the behaviors you describe about your kids sound like normal kid stuff. Kids act crazy and dramatic a lot of the time.
I posted the first response to this article, and as I said, my daughter was born with an underdeveloped (nearly absent) cerebellum. We expected lots of gross motor issues, but little did I know how sensitive she would be to sound, touch, and visual stimulation. I raised three daughters before her, and her sensory issues are very evident. And being that I knew before birth that she was missing a big chunk of her brain, it's obviously true that this disorder exists for her, due to the brain diagnosis.
I would bet that for many kids with this disorder, an MRI of the brain would show some abnormalities as well. Unfortunately, this type of testing isn't always offered for what is thought of as a purely behavioral problem. There is often a more specific underlying medical or genetic problem that is either not diagnosed or hasn't been discovered yet.
Spend a few minutes with my daughter, alongside several other kids her age, and you would see a huge difference in the way she acts, reacts, and socializes.
Sensory disorder is not just something that is made up. It is not just a kid who is a "little behind' in development or a kid who is "more sensitive" than other kids. This is a real problem that affects our lives and our families, and it breaks my heart to read such a judgmental post as yours. One would think a grandmother and mother of four kids would have a little more compassion. So enjoy your children, don't take them for granted, and pray that your grandchildren are born just as healthy. Five years ago when I became pregnant with my daughter I never imagined I would have a daughter born with a brain problem, but here I am.
You should feel blessed and lucky you never had to raise a special needs child. Then again God probably knew you wouldn't be the right fit for such selfless job.
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7-08-2011 @ 12:18PM
Jen said...I am growing an ultra sensitive plant called the “Pet” TickleMe Plant. It may even tell you how sensitive you are. With some only the leaves close when Tickled. With other the leaves close and even the branches droop.
The TickleMe Plant is the worlds most interactive Plant. Now it can easily be grown in the TickleMe Plant Greenhouse It even produces tiny breathtaking pink flowers. See how sensitive you and your friends are. It also may teach kids to be more sensitive to plants
and each other.
See the Video...This is real plant
Http://Ticklemeplant.com
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9-29-2011 @ 9:30AM
LJ Gray said...Have you looked into Elaine Aron's book "the Highly Sensitive Child"? Sensitivity is not a disorder. It sounds very much like you are talking about the same traits that she is, but you are choosing to put a pejorative spin on something that isn't a negative and that concerns me. Not everyone needs to be "fixed".
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