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Give Me 10 ... Thousand: Parents Shell Out Small Fortunes for Kids' Personal Trainers
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Kid serious about soccer? Better get her a trainer now. Credit: Getty
Earning a spot on the Little League roster is no longer enough. Parents are now investing in personal trainers to make sure their kid becomes the star player, sacrificing savings and sometimes their child's health in the process.
Youth sports training has grown into a $4.5 billion industry, according to IBISWorld, an industry and market research group. And, for trainers who are increasingly marketing themselves to kids and their folks, it can be a bonanza, with some charging $300 an hour for their services.
The number of kids who use health clubs has more than doubled since 1990, and more than half of fitness professionals now offer one-on-one personal training for kids 18 and younger, according to the International Health, Racquet & Sportsclub Association. But, as more kids get additional training, their teammates who don't pay for outside help can see their performance lag and end up riding the bench.
"If they want to be competitive, they don't have a choice," says Michele Stephenson, a Brooklyn, N.Y. mom whose sons, ages 9 and 16, attend BlueStreak, a specialized sports training program at Chelsea Piers in Manhattan. "If they want to eventually play college, which they're hoping for, then they need to do some individualized training."
Stephenson's older son, Idris, made the varsity basketball team at the Dalton School in Manhattan as a freshman. But he was benched for most of his sophomore year as bigger and stronger kids beat him out.
Stephenson tells ParentDish her husband found BlueStreak, which charges about $60 for a two-hour session. He thought the small-group program would help Idris prepare to compete for the starting point guard position his junior year, so they signed him up last March.
"It was a turning point for him," she says. "He really wanted to get to the next level."
Stephenson says her son didn't need much coaxing. He was excited by the prospect of bumping into professional athletes who were also training at Chelsea Piers. And, she says, her 9-year-old son, who started training there in June, also loves it.
But the costs can add up, both financially and physically.
Over the years, some parents fork over the equivalent of a four-year college tuition for trainers, mental coaches and traveling teams in the hopes their kid will win a scholarship.
"What's $50 a session if it saves you $100,000 when he goes to college?" says David Scott, an exercise physiologist and coordinator of the KID-FIT program at Goryeb Children's Hospital in Morristown, N.J. "Parents tell me, 'She better get a scholarship because I paid $50,000 for a travel team.' It's insane."
The chances, however, of actually winning a scholarship are slim, at best. Less than half a percent of boys high school soccer players win a scholarship every year, according to a study by the National High School Federation and the NCAA. Your best chance for a scholarship is in girls' golf, where 1.6 percent of athletes get at least a partial scholarship.
And, while parents are draining their bank accounts, kids are getting hurt.
Of the 3.5 million children under age 15 who are treated for sports injuries every year, half suffer from overuse injuries, according to Safe Kids USA, a child safety organization.
"Every single year it seems that we see more and more kids in our physical therapy centers," says Will Haskell, director of strength and conditioning for Athletico Oak Brook, a physical therapy and fitness center in Chicago.
Haskell says he sees 12-year-olds come into the center recovering from injuries such as Tommy John, an elbow ligament replacement surgery named after the former Yankee pitcher -- injuries typically seen in older professional athletes.
Many of the trainers ParentDish spoke with pointed to parents and team coaches as the problem, not the kids.
"When there's a scholarship on the line, you push your kids. But if you have a sprained ankle, you have a sprained ankle and you have to take the time off," says Maik Wiedenbach, owner of Adler Training in New York City, who offers private sports training to kids and teens for $100 to $120 a session.
But a good personal trainer can improve a child's health. Trainers can tailor a program to fit specific needs, monitoring diet and how many days a week and how hard a kid works out. They can also catch bad habits before they lead to injuries.
Nikolay Solow, 20, a sophomore rugby player at Arizona State University, began training with Wiedenbach when he was playing football in junior high school. Despite protests from school coaches, Solow and many of his teammates skipped team weightlifting sessions to work with personal trainers. They found the coaches weren't able to customize training for each player's needs.
In fact, it was when he was training with high school coaches that Solow tore his meniscus, a cartilage knee injury.
"I don't think it would have happened with Maik," he tells ParentDish.
However, trainers and physiologists say the sports training industry is full of unqualified people who take two-day online certification courses or have no real knowledge of an adolescent's unique physiology.
Athletico's Haskell says trainers feel pressure to give parents their money's worth.
"They run these kids into the ground," he tells ParentDish. "We had a kid who fractured his back in a program."
For some kids, it's not an injury or poor performance that sends them packing. It's burnout. They have no time to rest if they're training seven days a week. By age 13, 70 percent of kids drop out of youth sports, according to Stop Sports Injuries, an American Orthopaedic Society for Sports Medicine campaign. They cite the top three reasons for drop out as: adults, coaches and parents.
Scott, of Goryeb Childen's hospital, says he has seen sports burnout rise during his 17 years coaching youth soccer.
"They show up to practice and they don't want to be there," he says. "What parents need to understand is that even elite athletes have rest days."
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ReaderComments (Page 2 of 3)
9-08-2010 @ 10:24PM
charles condon said...Whose the kid here? My parents bought shoes that fit, not look good.These clubs are all trying to make money off of these kids and their parents look the other way. Don't bother me, are they shoes like what the other kids have? Feet dr's aught to have a ball with this trend. Thank god I can't have any more kids
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9-08-2010 @ 10:31PM
fymayawf said...The stretch the girl in the photo is doing at the beginning of this article has the potential to increase the likelihood of knee injury and is NOT recommended for youth soccer players....just sayin'...
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9-08-2010 @ 10:44PM
jen said...Question: are these kids really going to the trainers and camps because THEY want to play at the next level? Or are their parents living vicariuosly through their childre? I'd bet 9 times out of 10 it's the latter.
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9-08-2010 @ 10:44PM
tron said...This is a fantastic idea and every parent should hire a trainer for their kids. That way when my kids get older and have been playing the sport for the pure love of the game, they'll mop the floor with your stressed out, burned out, controlled freaked parents, personal training no money for college, working at a gas station,,, kids.
I say go for it. Better for me.
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9-09-2010 @ 2:26PM
Becky said...I am a certified personal trainer...and my son plays travel baseball. He now trains with a trainer other than me( my kids do better with someone other than their parent) once a week. We feel it is beneficial to him. If he didn't want to do it he wouldn't. We do not force him to do anything he does not want to do. Same with our daughter. My son is 16...and he didn't lift weights until after he was 14...and we used the child protocol on him initially and broke him in to it. My daughter is 11...and will not be lifting til she is also 14. My kids both still ride bikes and swim and play..and enjoy being kids. I know that strength training is beneficial to the human body for many reasons..and not just to help earn a scholarship. I want my children to know that also...so they can lead healthy lives. Working out isn't just for adults. Pushing to the point of injury...isn't for anyone.
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9-08-2010 @ 10:58PM
anniewheelr said...I find it so weird that parents that don't want their darlings to lose in elementary school...not keeping score, everyone gets a certificate, no winners or losers....and then suddenly when the parents see a potential payoff when the kids show some natural talent (or the parents think they have talent) it's compete, compete, compete.
Let kids be kids....and sports should be fun...if it isn't fun then take the competitive sports out of the schools and put back a general recess period or intermurals back into the school.
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9-08-2010 @ 11:05PM
Tim Hanks said...In motocross having a personal trainer at 8 & 7 yrs is usually normal
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9-08-2010 @ 11:02PM
bgs said...This is plain wrong on so many levels. Let kids be kids. My daughters were competitive gymnasts and they loved it. But when they grew tired of it they wanted to do competitive cheerleading. One of them is cheering in college but it's because she still LOVES it. I saw A LOT of parents spend thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars in gymnastics so that their daughters would be "olympic" gymnasts. Really? Really? NONE of them are olympic gymnasts and now a lot of them have bodies in a lot of pain. It was very stressful on their bones and joints. Parents get too involved in making "olympians" out of their kids or thinking they are GREAT enough to get college scholarships. The money spent on training and competitions would more than pay for college!
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9-08-2010 @ 11:14PM
p said...@ nagy22 How about not generalizing like you did in your statement, thanks. I am an American parent, and I do not necessarily agree with this practice of personal trainers. Like any other subject, there are pros and cons to everything. How about having intelligent debate instead of putting others down?
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9-08-2010 @ 11:23PM
lindsey said...OMW, that's ridiculous! My son is 7 yrs old. He takes gymnastics at The Little Gym. It's non-competitive. He enjoys it. He's always loved doing handstands, flips, etc. But I would never push him to make it a career. He's 7. He has fun. Isn't that what sports is supposed to be about, having fun? I let my son decide what he thinks he'll like and I let him try it. Sometimes he decides it's not the right sport for him, and other times he finds he loves the sport. Let kids be kids, not hardcore trained athletes. They'll have time for that when they get older, if that's what they chose to do.
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9-09-2010 @ 12:07AM
Sarah said...I played volleyball until recently when I got injured (an injury not related in any way to volleyball). Volleyball is a very competitive sport where I live. I started traveling club teams when I was in fifth grade. My family realized that I would need a personal trainer to continue and got me one. I trained hard because I wanted it so bad, not because it was pushed upon me. I was as careful as I could about it, but I did neglect my body. My trainer though helped keep my body in shape instead of what I did which was to overwork it. I don't think it's a bad thing to have this competitive of sports at all. It sets a fast track for kids who want to excel in their sport like I did. It's just when they get hurt how crushed everything is for them and how hard it is to adjust to not playing everyday. And if you're worried about kids not being able to play for fun. Well those kids have a place too, trust me. It's called the local reccenter where they have "just for fun" teams. Practice is usually once a week and one game a week with no traveling at all. The cost is usually under $100. I tried those for a while, but couldn't go with the mellow pace of it all. So theres two sides to every story and I think it shouldn't be frowned upon for children to have personal trainers.
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9-09-2010 @ 12:16AM
tisha said...My husband has been coaching soccer for 13 years now, traveling rec. and competetive. The polotics involved is rediculous. He has one of the highest winning records out there and it all comes down to teaching the kids to love the sport. If you teach a child to love the sport and allow them to develop appropriately with age, you will have a child that stays with it and many times goes on to be a great athlete. You do not have to be a superstar at age 6 or even 12. My 17 year old was , to say the least, not the greatest until she hit about 14 and then the natural competiveness just kicked in and she took off. She is a senior now and has had several small colleges talking to her and now is buckling down to try and get that one step higher, of which I am sure she will because she has the desire and loves to play, which is so important. Too many of what could of been a great athlete got burned out because of all the competiveness at too early of an age .My husband has children age 5 to 18 come to him all the time because they have had a bad experience and were ready to quit and now love the sport.It can be done when you truly care about the children. He has had many a coach and team leave the game mad and show poor sportsmanship after losing and I fine that so sad. He tells the kids you are a winner depending on how you walk off the field, win or lose. If you gained something from the game, even in a loss, than you ultimately won.Anyway I could go on forever on this , but parents, don't live through your kids let them have some fun and ultimately it will pay off, if not through a college scholarship , through a childhood of great experiences, which will make them more successful, overall, in the long run.
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9-09-2010 @ 12:25AM
wolfdog said...A very wise man once said STUPID is as STUPID does.
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9-09-2010 @ 5:03PM
SavvyShopper said...The author of this article doesn't come across as professional when he or she uses "site" instead of "cite." You don't "site" someone when you quote them, you "cite" them. Even if this person used spell check, they failed and their proofreaders & editors failed.
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9-09-2010 @ 12:47AM
basketpam said...Parents, it's things like this that are breeding generations of spoiled, selfish, self-serving, narcissist brats that the rest of us have to deal with in society. Unless a child is training for something as competetive as the Olympics or World Figure Skating or something on that level, there is NO reason for ANY child to have a personal trainer. One woman writes that it's necessary because the world of little leagues and middle school sports and activities such like this have become SO competetive. Well who's fault is that? I can tell you in one word - PARENTS! Have you watched a children's sports event lately? It's the parents that are going completely and totally spastic out there. Screaming and yelling and going absolutely bonkers. The kids are only competetive because their parents are pushing it on them. Usually the kids don't care that much about it, it's the false pride of the parents about who's kid is the best and who wins that's being shoved down the throats of our children out there. Too many parents are reliving their childhoods through their kids again. Trying to relive what they didn't get to do by making their child the best at everything. When I was a kid back in the 60s and 70s parents actually didn't even show up that much at games. Oh sure there were some, but it wasn't necessary to attend all the games. That was normal and no kid thought they were being neglected. In fact, most kids didn't WANT their parent there. And then, ALL OF A SUDDEN, someone, somewhere started laying super mega guilt trips on parents. The so-called experts started saying that all the behavioral problems of children was caused by parents not getting involved enough in their child's life. They weren't praising their children enough. All of a sudden this is the reason for teenage pregnacy and drug abuse. And guess what happened, the trend flew to the complete opposite end of the scale. Now we have helicopter parents who can't leave their child's side for 2 minutes. For a time I worked at a facility that dealt with addiction and kids. I saw both types of parents, the helicopter parent and the neglectful parent. I honestly can't say which one does the most harm. They're both awful. So when is it going to settle down into a nice normal balance? Normally in life that's the way things work. But it's been a long time now and so far I see very few signs of parents being NORMAL. And you all know what I mean by being normal. Try the characters on TV of Mike and Carol Brady, Ward and June Clever, Howard and Marion Cunningham (he was a VERY good father), John and Olivia Walton. The Waltons are actually a very normal family role model for today's time. In today's society you're seeing more and more families because of money all living together. They have their problems (although I hope not nearly as many as John Boy and Mary Ellen always had) and things weren't always perfect. But they worked through them by sticking together. In fact, the Walton role models in parents and grandparents are just about how you SHOULD be doing your job as a parent. You SHOULD expect work and responsibility from your child. You DO NOT wait on them hand and foot. Children SHOULD work for at least some of what they have. Parents do NOT smother the children. They all have time to live their own lives and take care of their own activities and problems. Parents step in when they can't work it out themselves. Siblings help each other out. They should share meal time and other quiet time each day. Did the kids have chores and homework every day? Yes! Did you see anyone buy the kids everything they wanted? NO! Did you see the children be disclipined if they did wrong? YES, and it was more than just a 5 minute time out. There were SPANKINGS. Yes, that terrible word, spankings. I'm not talking beatings here. Did the kids survive and learn from it? YES! Did you see John and Olivia running off to EVERY thing all of their children did each day? No! Did the children show respect for their elders and others around them? YES! Did they swear and use vulgar language? NO! Were the kids all told every day all day how wonderful and beautiful and how incredible they were? NO! Child psychologists are now saying we are raising generations of narcistict children. Know what that means? Probably not although you should, your current president is one. Narcistict people think they are the greatest thing on the earth. They love themselves more than anyone else or anything else. It's the type of children who think they need a personal trainer because they deserve it, it's OWED to them. As a parent, if you ever need to stop and think if you're doing it the right way or leading your child down the right path, think about what John Walton or Howard Cunningham would do. If you don't think either of those two men would do it your way, then rethink what you're doing. Now I know these parents are "make believe", but you'd be surprised at how close they are to good, decent REAL families that ARE doing it right out there. After all, these older generations have actually saved the world a few times so they must be doing something right. When was the world a better place? Now, with everything going to hell in a handbag or 50 years ago when we didn't spoil and baby our children so much. I hate to say it, but if someone like Hitler invaded Europe right now and we had to depend on the current generation of 20 and 30 year olds to save the world, I'd be EXTREMELY worried. How many of them would complain it wasn't their job, it wasn't their problem. They couldn't make any money out of it. OR, they are too strung out on crack or booze or some other sort of substance to be able to do it. Or they couldn't even read a map because it's not on a computer or they can't hike the 5 miles to the next battle line because they're too fat and out of shape or all the other NUMEROUS problems our youth aren't able to handle. I honestly hope that in the next 50 years the current generation of young people aren't called on to save the world, to be honest, I don't think they're capable of doing it.
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9-09-2010 @ 4:10AM
Elaine said...First of all, DROP THE TV REMOTE. The Waltons were TV LAND. You are watching way too much TV. I am not a big fan of Millenium babies either but not all of them are irresponsible and spoiled brats. Just for the record, we do have soldiers 18 years and older over in the Middle East fighting for our country whether you agree to this war or not. So to sit here and say they moan, groan and belly ache is far from the truth. Next, for you to get your point across was painful to read. That was some lengthy bitchfest you opined. Try being a little less critical on today's kids and more embracing. You may even want to bring some solid values to the future of tomorrow instead of coming off as a siren.
9-09-2010 @ 12:57AM
frank said...if your kids a pussy he'll be a pussy vis versa personal trainers is for these want to be non athletic yuppie parents that don't make time to throw, or catch with their own child. call it another extended play date
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9-09-2010 @ 1:12AM
Karen said...My son is a Division One Athlete in the NCAA. From a very young age he excelled in just about every sport he played. He just had it. I never made him do anything. He had an unexplainable passion for sports and as he got older basketball. He worked out hard all on his own. At the young age of 7 years old, he would shoot baskets before school just about every day. He loved it and it was fun for him.
Sure, I cheered him on, built him up and told him I was proud. But I never made him do anything. His sport, basketball is his choice. He would tell me of the kids in national basketball camps whose parents made them go...one child in particular loved skate boarding and couldn't even dribble a basketball. His Dad had dreams and visions of his son becoming the next, "Michael Jordan." Yet, sorry to say, this parent couldn't even see the desires of their own child's heart. He sat in his bed at camped and was completely miserable with a broken heart.
The best parents are the ones who teach their children to live their own lives, help them make their own decisions, help them discover their talents and gifts, and most of all love them unconditionally.
When all is said and done, if you love something you set it free. And the beauty of it is, it will come back like a butterfly and sit softly on your shoulder. Never make your child play any sport, as it will only bring harm to your child's soul and heart.
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9-09-2010 @ 2:07AM
Coop said...This is a waste - I don't care what the very few posters who say otherwise think. If your kid has the ability, they'll make the team. If they don't have the talent or the drive to practice on their own, they won't. You can't buy talent or drive for yourself or your kids. Nice gesture, but it can't be done. Knew a kid in high school who took drum lessons pretty much all his life - he was still a mediocre drummer when he finished high school. Same applies to sports. My son's baseball team had a kid on it last year who plays "travel ball" (also a waste of money); he was the most over-rated little snot at the park. Which brings up another issue. Spending a ton of money on your wanna-be star athlete kid is very likely going to make them think that they are the cat's pajamas, an opinion which is unlikely to be shared by anyone but their parents. This is the same attitude that leads people to spend money for expensive SAT test prep courses. Look, if your kid is truly smart, they'll score high on the SAT with nothing more than a good read-through of the directions. If your kid is just average (or less), buying them a high SAT score will be counterproductive in the end; sure, they'll get into college, but once there it'll become apparent that they never really had the scholastic aptitude that you let them think they had. It's just another tick downward for the instant gratification culture.
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9-09-2010 @ 1:36AM
Kay said...this is ridiculous.
sports should be fun and should teach kids lessons and get exercise not train to be the next Michael Jordan or Peyton Manning as chances of getting to pro are extremely slim to none.
I used to run cross country BECAUSE I ENJOYED IT and held strong throughout middle school. Then my freshmen year of high school came around and i began hating running. I wanted to improve but my coach(es) demanded more of me than what i could give. They wanted me to do some extra practice so i did. I pretty much wasted my Saturday mornings for months to try and improve and get up to my coach's standard. My legs became overworked and mentally i couldn't take it anymore. What used to be fun felt like torture to me.
It also hurt that because i wasn't 'good' enough for today's standards i was pretty much ignored by my coach and even the top runners. I was always shoved aside and i only mattered when a few varsity girls became sick and i had to be the back up because that's all that i was - a back up. Whatever happened to the concept of sports being fun anymore? It's always about popularity, scholarships, money, or something else related.
Something was learned i suppose: I'd rather play some tag outside than go through all that again.
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