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Earning a spot on the Little League roster is no longer enough. Parents are now investing in personal trainers to make sure their kid becomes the star player, sacrificing savings and sometimes their child's health in the process.
Youth sports training has grown into a $4.5 billion industry, according to IBISWorld, an industry and market research group. And, for trainers who are increasingly marketing themselves to kids and their folks, it can be a bonanza, with some charging $300 an hour for their services.
The number of kids who use health clubs has more than doubled since 1990, and more than half of fitness professionals now offer one-on-one personal training for kids 18 and younger, according to the International Health, Racquet & Sportsclub Association. But, as more kids get additional training, their teammates who don't pay for outside help can see their performance lag and end up riding the bench.
"If they want to be competitive, they don't have a choice," says Michele Stephenson, a Brooklyn, N.Y. mom whose sons, ages 9 and 16, attend BlueStreak, a specialized sports training program at Chelsea Piers in Manhattan. "If they want to eventually play college, which they're hoping for, then they need to do some individualized training."
Stephenson's older son, Idris, made the varsity basketball team at the Dalton School in Manhattan as a freshman. But he was benched for most of his sophomore year as bigger and stronger kids beat him out.
Stephenson tells ParentDish her husband found BlueStreak, which charges about $60 for a two-hour session. He thought the small-group program would help Idris prepare to compete for the starting point guard position his junior year, so they signed him up last March.
"It was a turning point for him," she says. "He really wanted to get to the next level."
Stephenson says her son didn't need much coaxing. He was excited by the prospect of bumping into professional athletes who were also training at Chelsea Piers. And, she says, her 9-year-old son, who started training there in June, also loves it.
But the costs can add up, both financially and physically.
Over the years, some parents fork over the equivalent of a four-year college tuition for trainers, mental coaches and traveling teams in the hopes their kid will win a scholarship.
"What's $50 a session if it saves you $100,000 when he goes to college?" says David Scott, an exercise physiologist and coordinator of the KID-FIT program at Goryeb Children's Hospital in Morristown, N.J. "Parents tell me, 'She better get a scholarship because I paid $50,000 for a travel team.' It's insane."
The chances, however, of actually winning a scholarship are slim, at best. Less than half a percent of boys high school soccer players win a scholarship every year, according to a study by the National High School Federation and the NCAA. Your best chance for a scholarship is in girls' golf, where 1.6 percent of athletes get at least a partial scholarship.
And, while parents are draining their bank accounts, kids are getting hurt.
Of the 3.5 million children under age 15 who are treated for sports injuries every year, half suffer from overuse injuries, according to Safe Kids USA, a child safety organization.
"Every single year it seems that we see more and more kids in our physical therapy centers," says Will Haskell, director of strength and conditioning for Athletico Oak Brook, a physical therapy and fitness center in Chicago.
Haskell says he sees 12-year-olds come into the center recovering from injuries such as Tommy John, an elbow ligament replacement surgery named after the former Yankee pitcher -- injuries typically seen in older professional athletes.
Many of the trainers ParentDish spoke with pointed to parents and team coaches as the problem, not the kids.
"When there's a scholarship on the line, you push your kids. But if you have a sprained ankle, you have a sprained ankle and you have to take the time off," says Maik Wiedenbach, owner of Adler Training in New York City, who offers private sports training to kids and teens for $100 to $120 a session.
But a good personal trainer can improve a child's health. Trainers can tailor a program to fit specific needs, monitoring diet and how many days a week and how hard a kid works out. They can also catch bad habits before they lead to injuries.
Nikolay Solow, 20, a sophomore rugby player at Arizona State University, began training with Wiedenbach when he was playing football in junior high school. Despite protests from school coaches, Solow and many of his teammates skipped team weightlifting sessions to work with personal trainers. They found the coaches weren't able to customize training for each player's needs.
In fact, it was when he was training with high school coaches that Solow tore his meniscus, a cartilage knee injury.
"I don't think it would have happened with Maik," he tells ParentDish.
However, trainers and physiologists say the sports training industry is full of unqualified people who take two-day online certification courses or have no real knowledge of an adolescent's unique physiology.
Athletico's Haskell says trainers feel pressure to give parents their money's worth.
"They run these kids into the ground," he tells ParentDish. "We had a kid who fractured his back in a program."
For some kids, it's not an injury or poor performance that sends them packing. It's burnout. They have no time to rest if they're training seven days a week. By age 13, 70 percent of kids drop out of youth sports, according to Stop Sports Injuries, an American Orthopaedic Society for Sports Medicine campaign. They cite the top three reasons for drop out as: adults, coaches and parents.
Scott, of Goryeb Childen's hospital, says he has seen sports burnout rise during his 17 years coaching youth soccer.
"They show up to practice and they don't want to be there," he says. "What parents need to understand is that even elite athletes have rest days."
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ReaderComments (Page 3 of 3)
9-28-2010 @ 11:00PM
no4turner said...I wonder how many of these training professionals volunteer to coach youth teams, where there are many athletic kids who can't afford their services.
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9-09-2010 @ 3:11AM
Manga's Next Kitsune said...Ahh just because poor little Johnny didn't win first place, we have to make sure everyone is on the same wavelength therefore everybody wins! Seriously, are you going to ruin yours, or your child's, health over who wins and comes in first and or last? Get a life!!!!
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9-09-2010 @ 3:13AM
Kourtney said...I have 13 neices and nephews and many of them have had this problem because of my brothers. Around the age of 10 most of my brothers would start having their children get personal training so they would be above other kids. Eventually my brothers realize how badly it affect their kids. Finally they listened to me about a good solution, I am in my final year for pediatric medical school. Having your child working with a trainer all year round is horrible on their body but during summer camp is fine. The people at the camps know how to train the kids properly plus the kids have fun and there are many other kids to enjoy the activities with.
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9-09-2010 @ 3:22AM
jennifer stewart said...i have an ex friend she told me if she ever has a daughter she will work extra hard too make her an actress or succesful writer i told her you should let your kid be a kid not worry about special tutor's and stage mom's your going too live this whole experience through your future child yes she told me that way i can meet famous people with her and live through her achivement's if my kid's or kid wanted too do that fine i'll support them if not hey they can be a plumber teacher lawyer doctor or even a noaa scientist live for yourself not for the obsessive export of your child so many child hood actor's including young girl's ie daktoa fanning sherry curry and many more suffer with being both and adult and actual child don't force your child too do this for later on she will stone your grave someday let a child be a child in my mind's eye bye
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9-09-2010 @ 3:21AM
nicole said...Child abuse. No other explanation. Pathetic really.
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9-09-2010 @ 3:51AM
Jonah said...Typical American parents wanting their kids to turn out like Tiger Woods so they can have a comfortable life because of their inability to have a pension or decent salary. If anything coach your own kids and invest in them on a parental level. Real talent comes natural and in the end its the child that decides to practice more and take it to the next level. How many personal trainers did Michael Jordon have as a kid growing up? Zero.
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9-09-2010 @ 3:54AM
ElaineB. said...My youngest brother played little league as a kid. What an arm he had. My friends were amazed how well he can throw a ball. Apparently that little league agreed. They wanted to put him on an All Star team. My father declined stating he didn't want other players feel like they were lesser than my youngest brother. Oh so we throw his talents out the window? I fought my father tooth and nail but it fell on deaf ears. That could have been a scholarship, a great discipline and worth while character. My youngest brother is now overweight, smokes, dropped out of high school, started having 2 kids at the age of 19, married the piece of worthless garbage mother of the 2 kids, had 2 more kids and can't keep a job to save his life. In addition they all live with my parents. He is 30 years old. Though I do disagree that children shouldn't be pushed to the point of where there is bodily harm, I agree 110% that all children should get involved in at least ONE sport even if it is friggin' golf. It keeps them focused and willing to accept the next challenge.
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9-09-2010 @ 4:08AM
fkurtin said...GEEZE ,let a kid be a kid AND how about you all start acting like parents wiil ya??? Stop being so tied up in your own personal lives, or don't have any kids, I'm a highschool drop out and my kids turned out fantastic because I included them in all my hobbies when I wasn't at work
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9-09-2010 @ 4:13AM
Bonnie said...To Fkurtin,
You have a real set of marbles to dictate parents on how to be parents. YOU ARE A HIGH SCHOOL DROP OUT. What kind of example is that to set for your children? It doesn't feel so good when your parental skills are attacked, does it now?
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9-09-2010 @ 4:19AM
Carole said...This is just ludicrous. How about working toward an academic goal? Oh wait, if little johnny want's to play and can't play, let's spend the bank on a personal trainer so he can play and then he'll never learn what it's like to get rejected and have his little feeling's hurt. So he'll grow up believing the world is his oyster and nobody is ever going to tell him no. So the first person that tell's him no is going to get blown away with the big bad gun he bought from joe the dopeman down the street while mommy and daddy thought he was with the personal trainer they paid the big bucks for so they could achieve their goals for this kid. WAKE UP PEOPLE.... SPORT'S ARE AN EXTRA-CURRICULAR ACTIVITY.... IF YOUR KID DOESN'T GET THE TOP SPOT THEY WILL LIVE.
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9-09-2010 @ 4:24AM
Carole said...Hey Bonnie............. what does education level have to do with being a good parent? Not A Thing. You totally missed Fkurtin's point. It's not about education, or money it's about QUALITY TIME with your kids. And teaching them life values and that life can be hard. You don't always get everything you want, but you get what you can achieve. It takes a lot of common sense to be a good parent, and lot's of personal time. Not personal trainer's. If I was an athletic director of any high school team in the United States, and I found out your kid had a personal trainer give them some special edge, they'd be sitten' the bench.
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9-09-2010 @ 4:33AM
Adriana said...Carole, Are you serious with that comment???? What does education level have to do with being a good parent? It means EVERYTHING and when parents are involved in their education that is QUALITY time well spent. What the hell is wrong with you to say something like that???? Being a high school drop out shows their kids that the parents are quitters when it counts, especially education. If people who dropped out of high school really want to be an ideal parent, they would AT LEAST get their GED. Hobbies are just a tenth of quality time. Anyone can have a hobby. I have heard many people wished they finished high school. They have the heart breaking task of getting a decent job. Now with this job market, it is 1,000 times worse because now they are looking for people with degrees.
9-09-2010 @ 4:38AM
Bryan said...Yeah. Parents are important in a child's development for stamina in a task. One parent becomes a high school drop out and have a higher chance of their children being a drop out. I would never marry a woman who dropped out of high school. My wife is a teacher and tries her best in preventing children from dropping out. Time and time again these kids want to drop out because their parents dropped out and think if they can do it, I can do it. Oh on a side note, if a parent finds out you have their children on the side lines for any reason be prepared for a "discussion."
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9-09-2010 @ 5:04AM
Jeff S. said...I agree Bryan. My wife is also a teacher. My father was a high school drop out and two of my brothers were right behind him. My father begged them not to quit. They spend so much quality time together. At the end of the day, they still cannot find a decent job. One of my brothers has an extraordinary talent with fixing plumbing, all on his own. He went to join the union program and was denied because he didn't have a high school diploma. It is very important for our children to finish the basic education requirements because no matter what talent they have if you don't finish high school you are losing out on many opportunities.
9-09-2010 @ 5:11AM
William Moser said...Gee, I wonder if these same parents pay that much to be sure their students excel in academics; you know, the things that actually matter, instead of playing games. Despite what coaches will tell you, any given student has less than a 1% chance of ever playing professional sports. Certainly there are student athletes who have balance, and do well in their academics, But as a teacher for 30 years, I can tell you those students are in the minority. And out of all the students I had over those years, only one became a professional athlete. I wish parents would remember what athletics are called in school: EXTRA-curricular activities. They are extra, not what the student is in school to do. The argument that sports teaches students leadership and teamwork is propaganda which only tells half the story -- many activities, from serving on student council to participating in a research group teach these same skills, and in ways more easily transferrable to the adult professional world. Finally, I'm not even sure that it's true that sports teaches these values. While there certainly are student athletes who have learned leadership and teamwork from their sports, I have to say that the worst leaders and team players I have ever worked with have all been former or current athletes.
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9-09-2010 @ 5:40AM
Go Joy said...I agree with many of the comments - what happened to academics? And what about travel - the time to do it is when you're young, energetic and have the time! Europeans send their kids on trips around the world to experience other countries, learn other languages and have a blast. While our kids are doing pushups, their kids are backpacking across Switzerland or something. Do you know what 50K can buy for a kid besides running shoes? A lot. I notice this article doesn't mention steroids or other "supplements" rampant in sports. The kids are forced to do that too to compete, right? Where's the mention of that?
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9-09-2010 @ 5:53AM
Go Joy said...You have a point. In my corporation the most hard headed managers with poor people skills are the ones with military and sports backgrounds. The ones with backgrounds in education degrees and so forth, are great managers and understand the psychology of motivating employees. When I turn on the tv and see shows about kids creating, inventing, and competing in groups against other kids where they have to use their minds and use teamwork to beat the other kids on a deadline...I think, wow that's really good for these kids, it's a good foundation for success later in life.
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9-09-2010 @ 6:22AM
kjtberry said...As a college coach I find this article (and topic for that matter) both amusing and disturbing. In regards to the scholarship awards, there are other options besides NCAA Division I. The problem with parents who pay for such specialized personal training is the expectations that their child will be offered a full-ride to the best schools in the nation, which is a very small percentage compared to the number of high school athletes. However, if both parents and the athlete can take a realistic view of their abilities, there is PLENTY of money in athletic scholarships available on MULTIPLE levels. I know of several small programs on different levels (NJCAA, NAIA, NCCAA) that struggle to find athletes each year. If a parent wants to invest in their childs future, they need to invest time in researching what program (college) would be a good fit for their child athletically and can offer the best education.
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9-09-2010 @ 7:28AM
Sara said...My husband was offered full rides to 3 ACC golf teams. This was back in the mid 1970's. The only thing he did was play everyday, and on weekends until dark. He was not a rich kid, just a member at the local club. You have to want it to get it, and when he was 12 it never crossed his mind about beating himself into the ground for a scholorship. He choose one ACC team, enjoyed it and still works in the golf industry today. He was lucky to have natural talent. We see the kids who have parents that come to the lessons, and question every move my husband makes. If they are such an expert whay aren't they teaching their kids. It is so sad when a parent tries to relive his childhood through his own child. If they truely love it great, if not hit the books for a scholorship.
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9-09-2010 @ 2:09PM
Mrs. T. said...This is part of a sad trend. Childhood is being taken over by competitive activities whether it's a physical trainer, a speech coach, a voice coach, playing on several sports teams at the same time, college entrance exam prep starting in elementary school etc. etc. etc.
The fallout is that kids are not learning how to be friends. How can you be friends with someone when you are in direct competition with them????
There are parts of childhood that are essential. One of them is learning how to be a friend!
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