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Back off bullies, is the message an 11-year-old boy cheerleader is sending bad guys on playgrounds nationwide.
Despite a fight that left his arm broken and lots of name-calling, Tyler Wilson says no bully is going to stop him from being a cheerleader.
"I'm going to keep going. I'm going to make a lifestyle out of it," the Findlay, Ohio, tween tells ABC News.
Meanwhile, Kristy Wilson, the sixth grader's mom, is putting up her dukes, saying she is furious with educators at Glenwood Middle School and its independent cheerleading squad for not stepping in to prevent the bullying.
She tells ABC News she knew her son would take some flak from classmates for joining the Flag City Youth Cheerleading Squad, but she never imagined he would be beaten up so badly.
"The first thing I wanted to make sure of, when he said he was going to join cheerleading, that he understood the possibility was there that he would get teased and made fun of and he was OK dealing with it," Kristy Wilson tells ABC News.
She says Tyler, who is the lone guy on the cheerleading team, loves gymnastics and tumbling and wanted to join the squad despite her warnings that the boys at school might tease him. The trouble started when some of his middle school classmates spotted him cheering the day before school started and the teasing began.
"I knew that some of the kids where teasing him, and we talked about ways to deal with that," Kristy Wilson tells ABC.
Things went from bad to worse recently when Tyler was walking home from school and two of his alleged tormentors approached him and punched him. The incident allegedly included one of the boys picking up Tyler and slamming him on the ground, breaking his arm.
Kristy Wilson filed a police report, but tells ABC News she was shocked at what she heard when she met with Glenwood Middle School officials to discuss the incident.
"I didn't find out until we went to the school that things were starting to get aggressive before this fight occurred," she tells the network. "When I went to the school, about two days after it happened to discuss Tyler's story, the principal said there was an incident Monday and the Friday before that the boy who started the fight had jumped on Tyler's back and tried to start a fight."
Kristy Wilson says if she had known Tyler was being physically targeted she would have stepped in to stop the situation, and would have gone as far as removing him from the school.
"I really wish the school would have let me know a lot sooner, so I could have dealt with it sooner," she says.
Lt. Charles Wilson, of the Findlay Police Department, tells ABC News the other boys involved in the fight have been charged in youth court, one with felonious assault, and the other with a simple assault.
"He is still nervous about everything and what happened and his spirits are down because he can't fully participate in cheerleading, still," Kristy Wilson says. "He's fighting his way through it. Everybody he's talked to, he says he is not giving up."












ReaderComments (Page 3 of 9)
9-29-2010 @ 2:59PM
chckpope said...Thanks to ucan'tbeileve, we get the real story. This is starting to happen way to often. Reporters are so interested in getting their stories out that they don't do their proper due diligence. So now they make the real aggressor look like a saint while the innocent ones look like criminals. I think they should be able to sue the writer and the parents of the kid that lied about how their kid broke his arm. i had a similar situation happen to my nephew who fortunately was proved innocent by a witness. The parent made up the whole attack story so she could try to sue. She didn't realize the DA's own sister witnessed the whole thing blowing this parents lies out of the water.
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9-29-2010 @ 5:13PM
New York said...Are you kidding me. The parent of one of the bullies wrote that BS story. Truth is she is afraid of getting sued. If I were her I would at least try to be a so called parent & beat the crap out of my bully son. This kid is headng for a jail cell
9-29-2010 @ 9:53PM
Debi said...In today's world, when dealing with juveniles, there is so much that can't be made public. Since this person seems to know a lot of the "facts", then this person HAS to be the parent of one of the bullies - probably the one who got charged with felonious assault (a felony assault which means it's mucm more serious than the simple assault). If her precious innocent babe was calling Tyler a sissy, and tyler reacted like she says he reacted, then it would be aggrivated assault which is still not a felony. Her child was one of the children that jumped Tyler before and then they beat Tyler up. The police do not charge kids with felony assault charges for kids that let themselves get beat up. And if the kid was attacked by Tyler, that does not explain why Tyler has a broken arm and other injuries. I'd say her precious isn't going to be in THAT school for a while, and I'd suggest that they get a lawyer cuz that lawsuit is going to come.
9-29-2010 @ 3:00PM
Sandy Sanchez said...I'm proud of that boy. My gosh we had boy cheerleaders when I was growing up and almost everyone respected them. The only ones that said anything cruel would have been the ones that never got involved in school in the first place and they made fun of everyone because of their own insecurities. The guy cheerleaders were the ones that had to do all the lifting and throwing and catching. You people are so insecure, this boy knows exactly who he is and what he wants. He's stronger than most of people, he doesn't bend to the blindsided dummies.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:17PM
patrick said...I say someone should kick the crap out of the boys who beat this kid up.If theyre man enough to gang up on him,they should have to take it! The boys who beat him up are little pansies.Ultimate Cowards! Someone should manup and look after this kid.Parents of vulnerable kids,whether because of race,religion,being perceived as gay,overweight need to take matters into theyre own hands if NOONE else will help.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:14PM
MAGOOS said...As a boy I developed a love of ballet on the knee of my grandfather, a musician of some stature. I undertook ballet lessons with a renowned teacher and soon excelled. The bullying I underwent from classmates and teachers was astonishing; accusations of being gay the favorite. As I matured into teenage I one day lashed out at two obnoxious bullies and gave them the thrashing they deserved. I became instantly respected by the victims of these bullies and avoided by others of their ilk. As a dancer I was superbly fit and extremely strong with a prolonged sense of endurance. I discovered this was an asset when dealing with bullies. This young boy who wishes to be a cheer leader should go ahead; you will become stronger and more than capapble of fending off bullies; they are usually cowards who buckle at the first good punch and sadly that is the only reaction they understand!
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9-29-2010 @ 4:02PM
nick said...Did George Dubya have to go through this when he became a cheerleader or was this another case of his family's $ and political connections insulating him from that whch the other kids have to go through?????????????/
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9-29-2010 @ 3:12PM
Harry Hurt said...Parents, I recommend that you prepare your kids as follows:
1. Tell them at the start, there are mean kids out there. They will say hurtful things, and hit, spit, and throw things at you.
2. Have your kids find out where the principals office is, and the offices of the athletic coaches are, and their names. Do this with school maintenance, also.
3. Locate all pay phones, and remember where they are. 911 is a free call. Find the locations of fire alarms. If someone threatens you, press the button. In the fire evacuation, get to the principals office immediately. If he doesn't help, you can go to the police car that accompanies the fire department. If the police are not there, tell a fireman.
4. If threatened away from home or school, flag a police car, and if none are available, flag a taxi, postal truck, delivery service (UPS and FEDEX have radios and can call police), or anyone who will stop. Run into a store and tell store personel. Be loud, and a customer may hear, and then help.
5. If no help appears to be around, go to someone's house.
6. If someone in a vehicle refuses to help, get their license number and give it to your parents, that is, if you can memorize it. You probably won't have time to write it. Your parents should report the incident to the police.
As a last resort, slug the s.o.b., right in the face. Don't be afraid you'll hurt him. In fact, do just that. Remember what they did to Tyler.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:15PM
cliff said...tyler,don't give up.
you have the right to pursue anything you want.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:18PM
What? said...I believe people are playing a double-standard. It's okay for a woman to drive a race car, construction, and anything else a "man" can do, but let a man do something a woman can do, then they are labled as "queers" and "sissy's." Grow up, America. At least the boy has guts to stand up for something he believes in. I guess some people are jealous that they do not have the guts to stand up for something!
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9-29-2010 @ 3:17PM
Heidi said...Actually, cheerleading requires a great deal of strength and athletic ability, especially at the competitive level. You'll notice that any school that competes at the national level has boys on the squad. Don't worry Tyler, if you are still cheering when you get to high school you won't have to put up with much of this kind of crap. Sure, there will still be a few that call you "cheer queer" but the majority of your peers will respect you as the athlete you are.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:18PM
lisa said...PARENTS YOU ARE DOING A TERRIBLE JOB RAISING YOUR KIDS!!!!!
TRUTH YOU MUST HAVE HAD HORRIBLE PARENTS AND SHOULD BE PUT TO SLEEP.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:19PM
Judy said...America must start to take bullying serious and stop it now both at school and at the workplace. God bless America.
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9-29-2010 @ 5:22PM
NY said...A bully in the workplace started out bullying at school. Put a stop to it. Hopefully they will pass an Anti-Bullyin Law.
9-29-2010 @ 3:24PM
Tah said...GO TYLER GO!!! IF GIRLS CAN PLAY FOOTBALL BOYS CAN CHEERLEAD!!!!
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9-29-2010 @ 3:24PM
The Maury Show said...And where's the father? Is he standing up 4 his kid as well? Waiting 4 that interview......
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9-29-2010 @ 3:25PM
Ron in NY said...This bullying nonsense is getting ridiculous.
I was bullied almost every day when I was in grammar school and it made my life miserable. My grades suffered because of it.
If teachers, principals and school boards can't put an end to this mischief, then they are not doing their jobs and should be replaced. A child should feel as safe at school as he or she is at home.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:36PM
m2cute4jerks said...Tyler -- follow your dreams!!! When you are famous and are making $$$ the people who picked on you and beat you up will be in JAIL. Keep your chin up and keep taking the high road.....You can do it!!!
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9-29-2010 @ 3:45PM
KC said...alright. here's the "TRUTH". I'm a bit put off by homosexuality and always have been. I don't wish any harm to folks (gay, jewish, or any other sect). I graduated in 1990 from a down to earth, blue collar town where this sort of thing isn't exactly endorsed (not by most family or friends either). That being said, I was a touch of an anarchist. So, one of the best things I ever did was to enter cheerleading at the conclusion of my football season each year!! The town didn't exactly embrace the idea of an all- league fullback/ linebacker flippingn and dancing around in a "girl's sport". Until I was selected to cheer for the Aloha bowl in '91'. 1 week in Hawaii with over 800 cheerleaders. Oh, did I mention only 3 were guys. Even you Homo-Phobes should be able to appreciate those odds! He'll be getting more action in year than most get in a decade with their computer, lotion, and both hands!! Brilliant I say! I, my wife, and my well adjusted kids, wish this young man good luck.
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9-29-2010 @ 3:43PM
Gunnzzz said...I was buying it ... perhaps he's just a straight horn dog kid just wanting to be around good looking, athletic poon ... right up until he said he wanted to "make a lifestyle out of it!" Sorry ... that screams gay ... not that there's anything wrong with that.
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