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James Willie Jones, left, with his wife Deborah McFadden Jones, spoke about the events that transpired on a public school bus involving his disabled daughter. Credit: Reinhold Matay
James Willie Jones said in a statement to The Associated Press on Monday that he is sorry for his "inappropriate use of language and for the way I handled the situation." But he says his daughter suffers from cerebral palsy and he "could not stand by and helplessly watch her suffer."
"As a dad, my No. 1 priority is providing for and protecting my children," he said in a statement released to the AP. "Since the school year started, my wife and I noticed that our daughter had become increasingly distraught about school and riding the school bus, but she wouldn't tell us exactly why.
"As the involved parent of a child who suffers from cerebral palsy, it broke my heart. When I walked my daughter to the bus that morning, she broke down in tears and finally told me about the bullies who had tormented her on the school bus. She was afraid.
"In the heat of the moment, I wanted to confront the individuals who had bullied my daughter and the authority figure who failed to protect her. I sincerely apologize for my inappropriate use of language and for the way I handled the situation. As the protector of my daughter I could not stand by and helplessly watch her suffer."
Jones plans to hold a news conference with his attorney Tuesday to answer questions related to his arrest.
He was charged last week with disorderly conduct and disturbing a school function for the Sept. 3 incident in Sanford, just north of Orlando. He later posted $2,000 bail and was ordered to stay away from the driver and county school buses.
The girl had to be hospitalized because of stress from the confrontation, Jones' attorney, Natalie Jackson, said last week. She said Jones told deputies he complained to Seminole County school administrators in the past but nothing had been done to help the girl.
School spokeswoman Regina Murray Klaers said in an e-mail that Jones did not express his concerns to school administrators. He did report an incident involving another girl, not his daughter, Klaers said. That incident was fully investigated, and appropriate action was taken, Klaers said.
Jones boarded the school bus because several boys were allegedly bullying his daughter, according to the sheriff's office report. He told deputies the boys placed an open condom on his daughter's head, smacked her on the back of her head, twisted her ear and shouted rude comments at her, the report said.
Video surveillance from the bus - which fueled fodder on national talk shows - displays Jones asking his daughter to point out the students accused of harassing her. Jones is heard on the video threatening those who bully his daughter, and he also threatens the bus driver.
Jones said in the statement that he plans to advocate and raise awareness against bullying.
"Bullying has become an epidemic in our country," he said. "Even though some schools are adopting 'zero tolerance' anti-bullying policies, it hasn't eliminated the problem. Parents need to work with their children to let them know this kind of behavior is unacceptable and we all need to be aware of what's happening with our kids.
"I hope that there are lessons we can all learn from this situation. I know I have," he added. "It is my prayer that your children, whether disabled or not, will never have to endure anything like what my daughter went through."
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10-04-2010 @ 7:02PM
D. S. Walker said...I have nothing but sympathy for this father. My child who has the sensory gifts of Asperger's was bullied in fifth grade. I have since learned that many victims of bullying have some type of disability. I am on mission to change our schools and to this end I wrote a book to teach tolerance of differences. I think we have to forgive ignorance and educate people as to how harmful bullying truly can be. I am hopeful we can one day elimate the power bullies currently have in our schools and in our society.
D. S. Walker
dswalkerauthor.blogspot.com
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10-04-2010 @ 7:04PM
D. S. Walker said...Ooops! I meant eliminate.
10-04-2010 @ 9:06PM
Keith Earnest said...This father should be given the civilian version of the Silver Star
for taking the time, initiative, and guts to stand up for his daughter.
Calling the school principal and the teachers to report someone is a bully to weaker kids is a waste of time, and once the bully finds out you reported him, the bully may become worse. A boy who engages in bullying behavior often has a father who encourages bullyng behavior in his son. This is the reason I highly encourage
young boys, and girls in particular, to learn karate and self defense.
Once you have learned these skills, challenge the bully or just plan to attack him, and beat the crap out of him. Nothing stops bullying behavior like a targeted offensive. Wait for the bully to start bullying
then attack him, which is a self defense on the part of your son or daughter. Beware that a bully is usually carrying out the bullying behavior at the desire of a bigger bully, and the bully who attacks you may only do it when the bigger bully is present. Moral of the story: Teach your children karate and self defense as early as possible. Boys and girls: Forget about what they teach you in Sunday School, since turning the other cheek WILL NOT stop bullying.
10-04-2010 @ 6:53PM
Deborah Curry said...More parents need to get involved because schools and school officials turn their heads until something terrible happens. All schools need bully patrols committees, there is always some child that wants to pick on others. We all need to get involved. It is a shame this incident with the father's concern was taken out of context, any loving parent would have done the same. This society is totally ignorant on how children bully others,as a substitute teacher I see it everyday.
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10-08-2010 @ 10:50PM
Jack Mickle Jr said...He owes NO ONE an apology! He should've kicked butt on that school bus & sent a message to America's out-of-control punk teenagers. Sign me Fed Up & Had Enough of baggy pants, rap music, foul mouth, lower degenerate, low-life punks!
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11-07-2010 @ 8:19PM
Muamera said...I totally agree, these days kids are out of freaking control! An eye for an eye!!!
11-07-2010 @ 8:18PM
muamera said...This man is my hero!!!! Obviously these kids are not raised in homes where they are to treat people with respect, I can not even say how much disgust I have towards parents of bullies, not the children themselves. I can only say that this is the exact thing I would have done for my baby, and I applaud him for taking initiative, and I hope the justice system takes it easy on him!!!
My prayers go out to his family!!!
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