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Filed under: Healthy Families Challenge
Michelle and David. Now we're chilling. Credit: Elizabeth Roman
Up until now, despite having to get a crazy schedule down, the Healthy Families Challenge has been like freefalling. But this week, we needed a parachute.
On Tuesday, Aaron, my 16-year-old, called from school, saying that he wasn't feeling well. He sounded horribly congested. I picked him up and took him home to rest. That night, I stayed with him while David took the rest of the brood to American Top Team Doral for their classes.
Around 8 p.m., David called. After surviving weeks of successful training at ATT, he said, he'd thrown his back out. He joked that he'd have liked to say, "You should see the other guy," but couldn't. David hadn't hurt himself doing an arm bar or a kimora with a classmate -- his gym bag had taken him out. When he bent over to pick it up after class, he'd used his back, not his legs.
When David arrived at the house with the children, he was hunched over. I insisted on driving him to the urgent care center. The doctor there determined that the injury was muscular and said there was not much to do except rest. David came home with an anti-inflammatory prescription and orders to wait it out.
So, by hump day, Wednesday, we had two men down. And I felt the extra load.
David and I both work full-time jobs by day, and the evenings are now booked out as well. Monday night, for me, is devoted to yoga. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, we go as a family to American Top Team, where David and the kids are training in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Wednesdays, David and Christian go back to ATT for mixed martial arts and Muay Thai classes. And on Saturdays, Chloe has gymnastics at The Little Gym. All of which we pull off as a one-car family.
Oh, and in between? There's cooking, laundry and cleaning. Typically, David, the children and I all pull together to keep our family moving at a smooth pace.
Last week was different. It all seemed to fall -- hard -- on me.
My eating habits, I've discovered, have always been tied to my emotions. If I'm sad, food is not so appealing. If I'm stressed out, don't put your finger too close to my mouth. I will bite it off.
My chaos cravings had an upside: They gave me the opportunity to apply the teachings of our nutritionist, Su-Nui Escobar, who has explained to me that I need to think before I eat. I shouldn't put anything in my mouth, she said, until I have mentally measured, on a 1-to-10 scale, how hungry I am. Below a 5 and I should hold out, but hunger between 5 and 10 merits a snack or meal. She strongly advised me never to let myself hit a 10 state of hunger; once I reach a 10 on the scale, it means my body (and its metabolism) has slowed down. To avoid the dangerous 10 zone, I should consume small snacks between meals.
It works. I found that, as I weighed my hunger, I often got distracted and forgot I was going to eat in the first place. This helped me realize that sometimes I eat out of pure boredom, madness, stress, or a combination of the three.
Good to know! But still, by Thursday, I was crabby, feisty and just generally not pleasant.
On a positive note, I've lost 5 pounds just by applying this technique and a few others Su-Nui has shared. David has lost 12 pounds, thanks to the nutritional teaching and the incredible training he's had over the last four weeks. His back is better and, needless to say, he no longer has a morning cereal party in a mixing bowl.
Aaron is feeling better, too.
Best news of all: I got through my crazy week. And everybody still has all their fingers.
Who's the rest of the competition? Check out all the challengers' latest updates here.
How is the Quintana family doing? Check in on their progress!
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11-13-2010 @ 8:18PM
Danielle said...Big Deal, sounds like every week at my house.
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11-13-2010 @ 8:31PM
John said...Your a good writer, smooth, nice style. I am curious tho, what is Brazilian Jim Jots? I assume it is a variant of BJJ?
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11-13-2010 @ 8:49PM
Stephanie said...Nice, good to know, although that can't apply to me. And man I would trade that kind of stress any day haha. Its kinda sad when you can feel your heart strain and face muscles sag when your only 19. *sigh*...or should I say *wheeze* haha.
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11-13-2010 @ 8:56PM
meme said...A teenager with a cold and a husband with a hurt back is THAT stressful??? Geez, what's the big deal about that? LOL sounds like a normal family....
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11-13-2010 @ 10:24PM
Yikes said...The spammers are breeding again!
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11-13-2010 @ 11:53PM
Amy said...I am a stress eater too!! I found this info very helpful, I will definately give this a try.
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11-14-2010 @ 3:25AM
Mary said...I have 3 kids, most days are like that and then some. I have to constantly make lists to help me through the week. Just to remind me of where I need to be. My calendar looks like a rainbow-pink for special days, yellow for school events, green for Girl Scouts, blue for sports, black for doctor appts. My husband cannot fathom what I do everyday. He 'just' goes to work. I take care of everything else, plus...
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11-14-2010 @ 4:06AM
Jim said...Why is he wearing the stupid hat, T=shirt, sunglasses, and the goatee? What style and what century does this get-up connect?
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11-14-2010 @ 6:05AM
Aliat said...I've been struggling with sugar binge cravings for years. I know when I'm upset I reach for "Mother's milk" level sweets, binging on dried fruits, tropical fruits and ice cream etc. Knowing this, when I'm upset I phone my Mom, who thank goodness, is still around to chat with, and my family generally. Helps me alot to calm down and centre myself back to emotional health.
This week I connected something about sugar cravings- I want sugar after proteins. I don't want sugars after I eat vegetables. Consuming vegetable turns off my sugar cravings. So I snack on vegetables, cooked and raw. Hope this helps someone out there!
The very best to you all!
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3-13-2011 @ 3:13PM
yvonne said...I'll definitely try this as I have the sugar and sweet cravings too! I have found drinking green tea esp. Arizon Green Tea w/Ginseng has helped my energy and less cravings too! Good luck!
3-13-2011 @ 3:23PM
yvonne said...Your comments on snacks and cravings is useful! I'll try the more often healthy snacks -- green tea - Arizona Green Tea w/Ginseng has helped me w/energy and weight too! Thanks -- good luck to you all!
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