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Connecticut parents are outraged when offensive words appear on their kids' homework. Credit: Getty Images
You might say a parent in Greenwich, Conn., is (bleep)ing mad and thinks local school officials ought to get their (bleep) together and tell a teacher to take his homework assignment and shove up right up his (bleep).
You might say that, but you don't want to go around swearing like a sailor. That's how this whole (bleep) storm started.
A teacher at Greewich's Central Middle School wanted to observe the American Library Association's Banned Books Week Sept. 25 to Oct. 5 by showing kids why certain books get censored.
The teacher compiled a list of "offensive" passages from frequently banned books.
Guess what? A parent got offended.
The quotes included the N-word that refers to African Americans, as well as the dreaded F-bomb. Parent Gary Cella tells the Greenwich Citizen that goes too far.
"I feel as a parent of a seventh grader that words that start with the letter 'F' and are four letters in duration and that words that start with letter 'N' and are six letters in duration are inappropriate," Cella tells the newspaper. "Like many parents, I said, 'Let's go over your homework.' When I saw this, I literally stopped in my tracks and did the classic double-take. It's not something you expect from any school."
The quotes come from from such literary classics as "Sounder," "To Kill a Mockingbird" and "The Pearl."
In "Sounder," the story about the struggles of a black sharecropper family, a character makes the following statement: " 'There are two things I can smell a mile,' the first man said in a loud voice. 'One's a ham cookin' and the other's a thievin' individual of (African-American) descent.' "
Well, he doesn't exactly use those last five words. He substitutes one word. That's because racist (bleep)heads don't always use polite language.
Nonetheless, Cella's outrage soon spread. Sam Romeo, a radio host on local station WGCH, picked up the cause.
Romeo tells the Greenwich Citizen many people in his industry have lost their jobs over the use of such language. Free expression doesn't justify students reading everything, he says.
"Can they also get a copy of Playboy and Penthouse magazine under free speech?" he asks.
School Superintendent Sidney Freund defends the assignment.
"They're all books that are in our library that any child can read," Freund tells the newspaper. "The quotes are being read by kids out of context on purpose. What we try to do always in school is we present things with opposing viewpoints."
Freund tells the newspaper the handout was part of a broader assignment. Students were expected to read from one of the works on the American Library Association's banned book list and write a persuasive essay or create a PowerPoint presentation on the subject of censorship.
He tells the Citizen the assignment has been part of the school's accelerated learning curriculum for a number of years and that this is the first complaint.
"My caution would be in the future, if we're doing this and prior to doing it, is a letter to parents letting them know what we're doing and explaining the lessons since there was some obvious concern related to this," he adds. "Some tempering of the quotes could be made and we would not lose the essence of the message that we're trying to deliver to the kids about censorship. But overall, the lesson in the unit is a good one."
Cella tells the newspaper he and other parents remain unmoved.
"My goodness, they grow up so fast to begin with," he tells the Citizen. "Do you have to expose them to these words? When your teacher is using the F-word and the N-word, it kind of OKs their usage outside that particular assignment. You can't have it both ways."
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ReaderComments (Page 1 of 7)
11-13-2010 @ 11:19PM
hrsngaround1 said...The books that these words are in are classics. I find it hard to believe the parent didn't read all or some of these when they were in school. I did and I am 50 yo. I think you should be happy your child is reading good literature. You may need to throw out a cavuot that some of the words are not appropriate to repeat at his age or in this day and age. But truth be told...your child has already heard all these words already!
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11-13-2010 @ 9:48PM
Coop said...Ditto. But, now we see the mentality that resulted in these books being banned at one point in history. . .
11-13-2010 @ 9:51PM
No Prez Palin said...People like you contribute to the negative society we have. How many generations will it take to rid ourselves of these bad words? Racist rude people will continue to have children and teach them how to be rude and rasict. It's always the N word, never the Honk word, Peck.... word, Red.... word, Pale .... word or White ..... word.
I try my best to never swear around my children and would never used negative words to discribe a different race.
11-14-2010 @ 12:03AM
BTDT said...What the #$&@?
11-14-2010 @ 12:21AM
ed said...holy crap get over it, bad words do not contribute to a negative society at all and its not like teachers are going around telling kids to say the words they are reading they are just showing examples of why the books have been banned and most of the books should not be banned most of them are classic books that i think everyone should read
11-14-2010 @ 12:53AM
Pard said...(Bleeped-off) Dad. And have you listened to the rap lyrics that your kid listens to happily, 23 hours of the day on his CD player? You might consider bringing your battle a little closer to to home.
11-14-2010 @ 1:48AM
John said...All words are important and the ones the cause the most offence are often that way because they move us to great emotion. Once the emotion is brought to the surface we have the choice to talk about it or fight about it. Talking about them brings resolution, fighting about them brings more emotion but hiding the words from our youth only prevents them from learning the lessons of our past and neuters the effectiveness of the teaching profession.
11-14-2010 @ 2:07AM
Ginger Babin said...I do think that grade seven is a bit too young for a teacher to explicitly point out all the expletives in famous books, though I should expect this at the high school level.
Having said that, I must admit that as a child I always had a book in my hand and was an inveterate reader of all my mother's Book of the Month Club books. By the time I was twelve I had read every racey novel by every famous author known. I was about ten when I read "Ship of Fools" and "Leave Her to Heaven," for instance. Yes, I did understand them, but they never affected my morals. In fact, I learned lesssons of how NOT to act or to think from reading those novels. They also taught me how to distinguish between fabulously good writing from cheap trash.
I feel fortunate that I had a Mom who let me read those books for myself. She never said a word or criticized me for reading any of her "infamous" novels.
11-14-2010 @ 2:57AM
Crimsonrayne said...Quote from daddy~"words that start with the letter 'F' and are four letters in duration and that words that start with letter 'N' and are six letters in duration are inappropriate," Cella tells the newspaper.
so..Four, Flop, Free, Fear,Fine,Navajo, Nuance, Nipple, Nanny, Notice...better stop me, apparently I know a LOT of inappropriate words :/ I have cursed in front of my kids. The sky is not falling!! I have taught my children that these words are adult language, not for children to repeat. I am not so dense as to think that even if I never cursed in front of my children, that they would not be exposed to these words outside my home, even repeat them. The best that I can do is to teach them to be good people and give them the tools to deal with these things. Hold the school responsible when they actually do something wrong, this is just silly.
11-14-2010 @ 3:57AM
Holly said..."Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." Guess I shouldn't have read Gone With the Wind when I was in 7th grade; it really corrupted me. If these outraged parents don't want their children to hear bad words, then they'd better go live in a cave and never come out. These parents may not use certain words in their home but their kids have all heard the words before. One of my son's was in 1st grade and he can home from school with a new word added to his vocabulary that blew me away "c---s--k-r". 7th graders are far from innocent, especially these days. I don't see why using passages from great literature to examine censorship would upset anyone. On censorship, in 7th grade my mom caught me reading Marjorie Morningstar by Herman Wouk (author also of The Winds of War and The Caine Mutiny). It was on the Legion of Decency's banned book list at the time. I'd checked it out of the library and only had about 25 pages left to read when she confiscated it.One time when home from college, I saw my mother watching the movie made from the book on TV and turned off the set. She made me turn it back on as she didn't appreciate my protecting her morals as she protected mine years ago.
11-16-2010 @ 1:22PM
ManicD said...Although a seventh grader has already heard these words used by fellow students and doesn't have to be shown WHY these passages get books banned.(his experience has ALREADY shown whats a good word and more importantly what is a BAD WORD) It should be up to his/her parent to teach this sort of lesson. School is where he is taught Academic lessons. Moral instruction is a parents job.
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11-13-2010 @ 8:19PM
carrie said...The books that these words are in are classics. I find it hard to
believe the parent didn't read all or some of these when they were in
school. I did and I am 50 yo. I think you should be happy your child
is reading good literature. You may need to throw out a cavuot that
some of the words are not appropriate to repeat at his age or in this
day and age. But truth be told...your child has already heard all
these words already!
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11-13-2010 @ 10:14PM
No Prez Palin said...People like you contribute to the negative society we have. How many generations will it take to rid ourselves of these bad words? Racist rude people will continue to have children and teach them how to be rude and rasict. It's always the N word, never the Honk word, Peck.... word, Red.... word, Pale .... word or White ..... word.
I try my best to never swear around my children and would never used negative words to discribe a different race.
11-13-2010 @ 11:36PM
Karen said...Exactly. I'm 48 and one of my favorite lines from Benny and Joon is " Having a Boo Radley moment, are we?" I can only imagine that most have no clue that it refers to To Kill a Mockingbird. We as parents will always have to decide whether to hide our heads in the sand and tell our children that life is perfect and people are perfect, or we can allow them to learn that there are reasons we do not use certain words and allow them to read the books and see the class of people the characters using those words portray. They have heard the words, they need to hear why we disapprove of them and why they should strive to be better. What better, healthier way to do it than through good literature that portrays segments of our past and different lifestyles. And personally I think there is more to be learned from some of the old literature than there is from books that deal only with pop culture.
11-13-2010 @ 8:22PM
momma said...if you think your 7th grader has not been exsposed to the f-bomb and the N word then you are in denial. Better to learn why not to use these words then to pretend they don't exsist
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11-13-2010 @ 8:24PM
guenhwyvar said...-.- SERIOUSLY??? I can almost gaurentee you that these kids are swearing on a regular basis school, just not when your around. Middle school kids have foul mouths, for the most part. Its not like they are handing out disgusting rap lyrics, these are parts of classic novels. I've read both to kill a mockingbird and the pearl. To kill a mocking bird was an absolutley beautiful book, and did not cause me or any other of my ninth grade classmates to start saying the N word. Really? I'd be more concerned about still holding my child's hand through their homework in seventh grade than the occasional bad word in a classic book.
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11-14-2010 @ 6:24PM
TL Hall said...I went to school in the 60's I think if i had a teache who showed me this and then put one of those books on my reading list each time it came out I would have run not walked to their class. People are to politicaly correct .
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11-13-2010 @ 8:35PM
Jerry6 said...Much ado about nothing,
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11-15-2010 @ 8:47AM
Alicia said...Speaking of....these are the same parents who want their kids reading Shakespeare in elementary school because none of them understand he's a bawdy old pervert. Love his plays, but I still can't believe no one gets up in arms with their kids reading about sex.
Not that they'd ever realize because what parent actually takes the time to read the books they want banned or, for that matter, any other books on their kid's reading list?
11-13-2010 @ 8:39PM
bug said...I can't believe that these books were removed from schools, they are all great works, and they do have to do with our history, if parents are mad about the books, then they don't understand our history and the truth, we cannot change the past and our children should know what happened weather or not it was pleasent it happened!! I read To Kill a Mockingbird in 6th grade and not one parent got upset, and it showed up so sides of the past.
Again I cannot believe these books have been BANNED! what a shame =(
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