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For the past four years, Santa Claus has visited the children of St. Peter, Minnesota's Head Start Program. Santa, in this case, is a gentleman by the name of Dennis Jackson, who donates his time and the candy he gives out to spread Christmas cheer to the little ones who attend this program for low-income families.
But this year, Mr. Jackson (I mean Santa) was told by Head Start's administrator not to come. Why? Because, according to the regional coordinator for the Minnesota Valley Action Council, Chris Marben, at least one Muslim family complained of his visit.
When asked about banishing Santa, Marben said, "We have Somali families in the program. We're respecting the wishes of families in the program." She added, "Part of our challenge in Head Start is providing an environment where young children from many different cultures can all feel comfortable."
Hogwash! Mrs. Marben's decision has nothing to do with making the children feel comfortable. What child wouldn't be thrilled to see jolly old St. Nick and get some free candy?
This decision was all about the grown ups -- their politics, ideology, their fears of lawsuits and their intolerance.
Instead of taking Santa away from all the other kids, why couldn't objecting parents keep their child home that day, or simply request to have their child removed from the classroom at the time of this (supposedly ghastly) visit? But more importantly, Santa-tizing our schools from any religious symbols or references doesn't teach our children to be tolerant or sensitive to other people's religions or cultures. It does quite the opposite.
Moreover, it does the child of a Somali immigrant no good to shield him or her from a symbol that is so universally beloved by Americans. As the daughter of an immigrant myself, I can assure you that knowledge and understanding of the society the child's family has chosen to live in, is key to the child's success and assimilation.
No, none of this is about the children. It's too bad because Christmas is a time when we all think about ways to bring joy to children -- all children -- including those of the Muslim faith.
But this year, Mr. Jackson (I mean Santa) was told by Head Start's administrator not to come. Why? Because, according to the regional coordinator for the Minnesota Valley Action Council, Chris Marben, at least one Muslim family complained of his visit.
When asked about banishing Santa, Marben said, "We have Somali families in the program. We're respecting the wishes of families in the program." She added, "Part of our challenge in Head Start is providing an environment where young children from many different cultures can all feel comfortable."
Hogwash! Mrs. Marben's decision has nothing to do with making the children feel comfortable. What child wouldn't be thrilled to see jolly old St. Nick and get some free candy?
This decision was all about the grown ups -- their politics, ideology, their fears of lawsuits and their intolerance.
Instead of taking Santa away from all the other kids, why couldn't objecting parents keep their child home that day, or simply request to have their child removed from the classroom at the time of this (supposedly ghastly) visit? But more importantly, Santa-tizing our schools from any religious symbols or references doesn't teach our children to be tolerant or sensitive to other people's religions or cultures. It does quite the opposite.
Moreover, it does the child of a Somali immigrant no good to shield him or her from a symbol that is so universally beloved by Americans. As the daughter of an immigrant myself, I can assure you that knowledge and understanding of the society the child's family has chosen to live in, is key to the child's success and assimilation.
No, none of this is about the children. It's too bad because Christmas is a time when we all think about ways to bring joy to children -- all children -- including those of the Muslim faith.











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 10)
12-30-2010 @ 6:14PM
dougalcandy said...I am Russian Orthodox, as is my mother,sister and brother,. my huband is Jewish. My father is agnostic, one of my grandfathers was Catholic, the other was Moslem., one of my grandmothers was Presbyteria, the other Russian Orthodox.. We have all celebrated Christmas together as a joyous day for family and the exchange of gifts. We have all had trees in our houses and Santa was in all the children's lives. The non Christian members of my family were never offended or refused to participate. People really need to stop being so sensitivel, no one is trying to indoctriniate your children, or turn them away from their religion....why not just enjoy the spirit of the season?
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12-31-2010 @ 4:46AM
Pat said...I wanted my children to have a religious education so I sent them all to private parochial schools, without begging for any vouchers. I don't think there should be any place for any religion in public schools.
12-31-2010 @ 9:16PM
PeopleEye said...This one is actually for Pat. Normally I would agree with yo but at the same time I have to say that the family filing the complaint is now being intolerant of others as they have now forced a tradition, which existed far prior to their arrival, to be extinguished. For what benefit? Was their child singled out in a corner, pointed, and laughed at?
1-01-2011 @ 11:36AM
Tim said...That is because in the Soviet Union, Santa Claus, or as they called him, "Father Snow," was a secular figure. Your family associates Santa Claus with him, but for other people throughout the world, Santa Claus is a religious figure.
1-01-2011 @ 12:37PM
ty said...Muslims say they are tolerant of everything, I guess they meant only what they want to be tolerant of.
1-12-2011 @ 12:34PM
ty said...Muslims say they are tolerant of everything, I guess they meant only what they want to be tolerant of.
1-02-2011 @ 12:52PM
Ruby said...why should one person rule the wishes of the entire class? Couldnt that child be sent to another class during the SANTA VISIT ? SO all the other children didnt have to suffer , Santa isnt a RELIGION after all
1-03-2011 @ 5:42PM
Roberta said...What ever has happened to our country? This sort of pandering to each person and ignoring the desires of many is ridiculous. It infuriates me past words.
1-03-2011 @ 6:20PM
Catherine said...It's great that no one in your family took offense at Santa. And it's great that Santa is all over, in ads, at malls, etc. But it is also ok for a Muslim, Jewish, Mormon, Jehovah's Witness etc. to object to Santa at a public program their child is attending. My kids had many Jehovah's Witnesses, and their kindergarten teacher made a point of humiliating those children who could not participate in birthday or holiday celebrations. Don't panic. We are a Christian nation and Santa is here to stay. They did the right thing in respecting feelings here.
1-04-2011 @ 8:21PM
brnwaves said...If they are so opposed to what the majority of this country believes in they should go back where they came from. Home school their little towel head if they object to the status quo and not spoil our holidays for American children.
1-05-2011 @ 2:08PM
mominCO said...I thought that the majority was supposed to rule in a democratic society. Apparently, that is no longer true. How extremely sad for all of us.
1-24-2011 @ 2:26PM
Hjaz43 said...Go live in the country where Ur parents came from DO NOT TRY to take America's freedon and JOYS away. YOu don't like it than get out of this country. Americans and America love our country and ways. U need to complain to the dead man HUSSIAN
12-30-2010 @ 6:16PM
AB said...You really have no concept of what it is like to be a child that doesn't celebrate Christmas. I can tell you, from my perspective, that Santa was the last thing I wanted to see in my school environment, because it was yet another reminder that I was different - the last thing every school child wants to be. (And removing the minority child from the classroom doesn't exactly make that any better.)
To ask that a secular school program remain just that, secular, is the best way to keep the season joyful, and fair.
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12-31-2010 @ 11:29PM
Heather said...So are you saying If I go to Iran or another Islamic country I can complain about them celebrating Eid and they will stop? I highly doubt it. They should not be bending to the minorty vote, if more then 50% had complained then yes ban it but I doubt it was 10% that complained.
1-01-2011 @ 4:20PM
talking rain said...Heather,
Replace Iran with all Islamic Countries. Forget about non-muslims, even muslims who object to any of Islamic tradition will be severely punished. And for non-muslims, that will be their last day in life. How condescending. Before asking the US, why don't ask your 'ISLAMIC' States(Saudi) to allow atleast practice other religions freely.
For the record I am a non-christian and immigrant. I have nothing against any religion, but if people are behaving this way, I don't know what to say.
1-01-2011 @ 2:40PM
Evan said...I'm Jewish and remember celebrating christmas in school. I also remember having days when every kid made a presentation of a holiday from their culture and shared stories and food and art and traditions. Celebrating is about sharing and joy and culture - why wouldn't kids want more of it rather than less? Sure I didn't believe in Santa, and other kids couldn't understand why a bunch of candles were special either, but explaining it (you know, learning), did us all far more good than had we hid from our differences.
1-03-2011 @ 12:18AM
Coop said...Go cry in another room while listening to Adam Sandler's album.
1-03-2011 @ 8:10PM
David said...I think the muslimnation should be sent out of the U.S anyway they have no business here after all that is happening and with their lies of tolerance. They only tolerate each other and even have our so-called president believing in them he needs to go run their country not ours. There has always been a Santa Clause for children here and to take it away is a joke and allowing muslims to be here just makes this country worse
1-04-2011 @ 2:10PM
Candice said...Why is it that we are the only country that panders to non americans if this were Britan France or any other country it would be to to bad you live in our country now and these are our customs.
1-04-2011 @ 1:30PM
Laurie said...I agree with Evan. I went to middle school in NY. My class had children of three different religions; Protestants, Jews and Catholics. Here's an example of what happened: On Ash Wednesday morning, the Catholic kids were at Mass and 1/3 of the class was gone. They came back with ash on their foreheads. It was interesting and they shared the tradition with the rest of us. Likewise with Jewish and Protestant holidays. We learned to appreciate our different family and religious celebrations. How can there be tolerance if we hide who we are and what we celebrate from eachother? I say, celebrate all traditions publically and even in schools. It's not a conversion opportunity. It's learning to accept, honor and even appreciate the beliefs of others.
For those who believe Head Start was protecting the feelings of a child whose family didn't engage in the Santa tradition (the spirit of giving gifts at Christmas, without revealing who the real giver is), consider how the other 25 or so children now feel about this child and his family. The actions of Head Start divided the child from the rest of the class by depriving it of their tradition, instead of encouraging the child to share in the celebration. How dumb is that?