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Our favorite girl's name, the only one we can agree on, is June. We picked it before we got pregnant and now we are due in June! Is it too tacky to name your child after the month she is born in?
- June Mom
I've received questions like this many times ... in reverse. The usual refrain is "Can we name our daughter April even if she's born in September?" Parents worry that a mismatched month is confusing, inappropriate or even false advertising.
Yet, here you sit with the happy coincidence of your baby's birth month matching the name you chose. And instead of high-fiving over your good luck, you're worrying that the month match is "tacky."
I do get where you're coming from. You're afraid the name you chose as a gentle classic will come across as a gimmick, instead. Well, you can rest easy. Ninety-nine percent of the people June meets in her lifetime won't know or care when she was born. The coincidence that looms so large as your due date approaches will quickly fade as your daughter grows up.
The key factor is that June really is a classic name. A girl named October or November can expect to be asked about her name's origins for the rest of her life. June, though, sits so comfortably as a name that it requires no explanation. (When you meet a Faith or a Lily do you ask about her parents' religious beliefs or their gardening skills?)
So, choose your favorite name in comfort. I think you'll find that most people will greet the name June as a very pleasant surprise, any time of year.
What did you worry about when you named your babies? Share your experiences here. And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!
- June Mom
I've received questions like this many times ... in reverse. The usual refrain is "Can we name our daughter April even if she's born in September?" Parents worry that a mismatched month is confusing, inappropriate or even false advertising.
Yet, here you sit with the happy coincidence of your baby's birth month matching the name you chose. And instead of high-fiving over your good luck, you're worrying that the month match is "tacky."
I do get where you're coming from. You're afraid the name you chose as a gentle classic will come across as a gimmick, instead. Well, you can rest easy. Ninety-nine percent of the people June meets in her lifetime won't know or care when she was born. The coincidence that looms so large as your due date approaches will quickly fade as your daughter grows up.
The key factor is that June really is a classic name. A girl named October or November can expect to be asked about her name's origins for the rest of her life. June, though, sits so comfortably as a name that it requires no explanation. (When you meet a Faith or a Lily do you ask about her parents' religious beliefs or their gardening skills?)
So, choose your favorite name in comfort. I think you'll find that most people will greet the name June as a very pleasant surprise, any time of year.
What did you worry about when you named your babies? Share your experiences here. And if you have your own question to Ask the Name Lady, drop her a line!











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 3)
1-06-2011 @ 11:15AM
wlh1923 said...First column in recent memory where parents have chosen a thoughtful AND pretty name for a child as opposed to some bizarre and delusional vanity induced label that will forever haunt the poor kid
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1-10-2011 @ 3:12AM
g said...In 1957, when I was born, my mother named me Gay, as in Happy. By the time I was a teenager my name took on a different meaning which made me very sad. When I became an adult I changed it to Gayle and haven't looked back.
1-09-2011 @ 8:35PM
Ms June said...I dont think it is tackey to name your child after the month she was born in.My name is June and my Birthday is June 22. June is a good name :) Best of Luck! Ms June
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1-09-2011 @ 11:13PM
Holly said...June is a standard name just like April or May. June Allyson, June Lockhart and June Carter Cash come to mind. I've known 2 Junes in my life. Both were nice, well-liked girls and I never thought to ask them when their birthday was let alone if it was in June. I never heard anyone tease them for their name either. If someone is a bully or jerk, they'll find a way to tease your daughter no matter what you name her. There's no reason to speculate about what your child might encounter with her name as long as it's not something totally weird like Water Melon. Should Princess Diana not named her son William because someone might call him Silly Willy or Chilly Willy? You picked June before you conceived and who knows she may come early and be born in May or late and born in July. June is a nice name no matter what month she is born in.
1-09-2011 @ 8:21PM
vargasdee said...My best friend sister-in-laws name is April May. She was born in June.
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1-09-2011 @ 8:32PM
june said...To quote from this article "ninety-nine percent of the people June meets in her lifetime won't know or care when she was born"...I'm going to have to call you out on that. I am named June, was born in June and at the age of 38, people still question my name, was I born in June or do I realize "it's not June, it's January."
Yes, more people than not comment on my name and not in a good way.
June...yes, my real name.
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1-09-2011 @ 9:31PM
Joe Papierz Jr said...Really ?
1-09-2011 @ 8:57PM
peg2584 said...When I was pregnant, my big worry was where the name could be morphed into something nasty. My name is Peggy H and I was called Piggy Hog almost all the way through elementary school. I didn't want that for my child. So I spent months trying to bastardize the boy and girl names we decided on. My daughter, Bronwyn, only once had to content with someone misusing her name.
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1-09-2011 @ 9:44PM
kj said...So.....your daughter goes through life responding to "How do you pronounce that?"
1-09-2011 @ 11:29PM
Hooper said...I love that name - Bronwyn! It's been around many, many centuries and yet has a very "modern" sound. I named one of my daughters Meagan, looking for that old-new sound and a few years later everybody was naming their girls Meagan (or some alternate spelling of that name.) You never know whats going to become popular.
1-17-2011 @ 3:58PM
Kat said...Bronwyn was on my mothers baby name list for me (child of the mid-80's), and not only do I think it is a pretty name ... I'm pretty sure that the majority of English speaking people would / will pronounce it correctly.
1-09-2011 @ 8:48PM
TONY DEE said...MY NEIGHBORS NAME IS JUNE AND I USED TO DATE A LADY NAMED TUESDAY ...SHE HAS A LANLORD NAMED MR MONDAY... NONE OF IT WAS WIERD
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1-09-2011 @ 9:08PM
rex said...Tony: If your friend, Tuesday, married your friend, June (in a couple of states this could happen), then divorced her and married the actor Colin Firth, her name would be Tuesday, June Firth.
Sorry. Toward the end of the weekend I tend to get a little crazed.
1-10-2011 @ 6:05AM
Rooftop Voter said...If Totie Fields married Truman Capote, she could be Mrs. Totie Capote. I was born in July and they call me Mike; to avoid confusion on the whole name/month thing, I go by Skip to make it easier.
1-09-2011 @ 9:09PM
leon said...No worse than naming your daughter "Butch" or "Hank"
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1-10-2011 @ 1:20AM
falkowskic said...Now lets not get silly. Naming a girl Hank is a little weird. But perhaps not as odd as some of the names and spellings I'ver encountered in 30 years of teaching., My bigger concern is for the parent who is so concerned about what others say about a name. What other things will she worry about?. The child is hers and her mates, not the family, friends, and neighbors. The best advice I ever got was when people offered advice, smile sweetly, nod politely, and ignore everything they said. It is the only advice I pass on.
1-09-2011 @ 9:09PM
Januali said...I say that it is your child, your choice and why are you asking and advice column if the name is weird. To me that is weird. We picked names that we liked and wanted for our kids and bedarned to the so called friends and family that did not like it. My advice, stop with the second thoughts and go with your original likes. I have a close friend that has June as her first name, her birthday is in January. Go figure............
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1-09-2011 @ 9:34PM
Rick McDaniel said...June is good. My daughters boyfirend wants to name their baby Skywalker. Still think I should take him and stake him out the swamp.
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1-09-2011 @ 9:36PM
Rick McDaniel said...Sorry. in the swamp.
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1-09-2011 @ 11:36PM
Hooper said...At least you could shorten it to Sky or even Walker, which are two pretty good names! Still Skywalker is pushing it. Maybe you could suggest Luke which is a really good name.