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Penny Jarvis is freezing her eggs for her daughter, Mackenzie, to use. Credit: Caters News/310pix.com
That's a question that may be asked in the case of an English woman who is freezing her eggs so that, when her 2-year-old daughter grows up, she can have kids of her own.
Translation: If, one day, the girl chooses, she could give birth to her own half-sibling. The future baby's father? He would be fertilizing his mother-in-law's egg. And the baby's aunts and uncles? They'd be half-brothers and sisters, too.
Welcome to the complicated world of fertility science.
Mackenzie Stephens, 2, was born without ovaries, but her mom, Penny Jarvis, 25, plans to donate her own eggs to help her daughter have children of her own, London's Daily Mail reports.
Mackenzie was born with Turner Syndrome, a potentially devastating chromosomal abnormality affecting about one in every 2,000 female births, that, in addition to ovarian failure, can cause neck, skin and heart abnormalities, along with mild hearing loss, according to the Turner Syndrome Society of the United States website.
Mackenzie, who needs a daily growth hormone, suffers severe mood swings and sees a psychologist. She is partially deaf and uses sign language, the Daily Mail reports.
Jarvis, of Sheffield, England, is "mum" to four other young kids, as well: Morgan, 6, twins William and Abigail, 3, and 5-month-old Jaymie-Leigh. She and her partner, Karl Stephens, 42, care for the children, according to the newspaper.
Jarvis tells the Daily Mail she will do anything to give her daughter the chance to have kids of her own one day.
"You could look at it as her giving birth to her own brother or sister, but I choose not to see it like that," she tells the Daily Mail. "You do the best for your children and Mackenzie's daughter or son would be her own. "
This is not the first case of a mother trying to ensure the chances of her child having a family.
In an unrelated story, in 2007, a Montreal mom froze her eggs so they could be used by her then 7-year-old daughter who could not have children because of a genetic condition, according to Reuters. If the girl chooses to become pregnant using her mother's eggs, she will be giving birth to her biological half-sister.
Jarvis says she hopes her other three daughters will donate eggs for their sister, as well.
"It's a comfort to know that if she did have a child they would still have part of her own genetic make-up as well, so it would still be a part of her," Jarvis tells the Daily Mail. "Hopefully, it won't just be me doing it. I'd like to think her three sisters would offer their eggs, too. But if they didn't, at least the option would be there for her."
But medical ethicists warn that Mackenzie's potential children could face psychological problems stemming from their relationships with their mother, who will also be their sister, and with their grandmother, who will also be their biological mother.
"It is important that account has been taken of the welfare of any child who may be born as a result of the treatment and of any other child who may be affected by the birth," a spokesman for the Human Fertilization and Embryology Authority tells the Daily Mail.











ReaderComments (Page 1 of 1)
1-12-2011 @ 4:49PM
jess said...WOW This is going to far. "to give birth to her half sibling?" because that's really necessary and important to manage.... while existing children starve to death. Ridiculous. Care for you child who happens to have an unfortunate illness and accept that not everyone gets everything they want.
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1-12-2011 @ 8:36PM
Megan said...I disagree with Jess. This is an intensely personal decision and the mother of this 2-year-old is making the one she thinks best. She's trying to keep all options open for MacKenzie, which is something not all mothers do. So kudos to her!
In regards to the statement that psychological issues may ensue with the baby-to-be if the eggs are used... well I suppose we can speculate, but again, this could go many different ways and it all depends on the attitudes of the child. No one knows how this would turn out and there's no need to paint a negative light on something which could indeed turn out very well.
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1-13-2011 @ 12:35AM
Alicia said...What this mother is doing for her daughter is very thoughtful, however this article makes it way creepier than it ever needs to be. If it were presented as "mommy is also your sister!" then yes, the child would be incredibly confused and probably a little messed up. Explained with some more finesse, I really doubt it'll prevent the child being happy, healthy and successful.
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1-14-2011 @ 6:36AM
cchsu.md said...If "Mom's" genetic makeup has the potential for Turner's Syndrome, then isn't genetic health trump having offspring with similar genetic makeup? Perhaps find an egg donor who doesn't have a history of genetic diseases.
Besides, it sounds like this little girl will have plenty to deal with before she even gets to child rearing age.
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1-14-2011 @ 7:25AM
sarah said...Turner syndrome is not a problem with a womans genetic make up, having 1 child with the condition does not mean you are at risk of it happening again, Plus the missing X chromosome could have came from the father. Turner syndrome is sporadic, no known reason for it happening and no reason for it to happen twice in any family. As it is the mother is only thinking of freezing eggs just now, and there is no pressure on the little girl to ever use the eggs.
1-26-2011 @ 11:23AM
julie said...I think what this mother is doing is very thoughtful and full of heart because she doesn't want her daughter going thru life and not feeling like a mother which is the best feeling in the world. If were me in this situation I would think of this child as a biological child to me not my mom or sister because this child would have the same genes as myself and family and would be fertilized by the man I loved. I would carry the child as if I conceived him or her on my own. Good thinking to these mothers who thought of their child and not of themselves so they can be happy later in their life as a mother
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2-09-2011 @ 10:19PM
midge said...As a mother with a child with Turners I completely understand where this mother is coming from. People are way over thinking the mother, sister, grandma part of this. There may be kids out there needing adopting....not for everyone. Easy for someone to say that can have there own biological child. I see nothing wrong with this at all. The child never has to know who it's real biological mother was. To be given a chance at a life where other wise you wouldn't have. This will outway the fact of who gave birth to you.
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