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Turns out parents best not encourage their kid to express herself with hair color -- or at least they need to read the school handbook before heading to the salon with their tween or teen.
When Stephanie Plato showed up to school with the cool new hair color her mom got her as a present for her 12th birthday, it cost her two days of school, according to ABC affiliate KTRK.com.
The Texas sixth-grader's cool new "do" of red and blonde highlights streaked through her naturally light brown hair earned her an in-school suspension.
"I was shocked," Stephanie's mother Jessica Leyer tells KTRK. "They said she had to go to ISS (in-school suspension) or she had to go home, so I took her home because I didn't want her to sit in ISS for her hair color."
Officials at Cobb Elementary in the Channelview, Texas school district say the red highlights violated the student code of conduct. But Stephanie's mom says she never intended to violate the rules.
"I think it is bright, and it is brighter than we intended," Leyer tells KTRK. "But, I don't think it is a distraction or that kids won't be able to sit and concentrate in class because of her hair."
Meanwhile, sixth-grader Plato says the red and blonde streaks were a big hit with her classmates.
"They said they liked it and it was cute," the student tells KTRK. She adds that she wanted the hair streaks for her birthday "because they're cool."
But cute came with a cost. Plato was not allowed back into school until her hair was once again streakless. She had to color it a dark brown to hide the red and blonde, says her mom.
This is not the first time hair coloring caused a stir at school.
Last August, four San Antonio high school students, including honor student Damaris Duarte, received in-school suspensions for hair color, according to WOAI.com.
"There's a girl in my first period who has pink hair and I don't think it's fair I have to change it when I've had it the same way for four years and she has bright pink hair and she gets to keep it," Damaris tells WOIA.
As for Stephanie Plato and her mom Jessica Leyer, they have been schooled when it comes to hair styles. "Read the handbook," Leyer tellsKTRK.
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ReaderComments (Page 2 of 14)
2-22-2011 @ 6:22PM
GreenKelleen said...@Fred, I am appalled at the self-righteous, closed-minded, ignorant attitude so proudly professed by a school teacher. I, too, am a teacher, and I DO agree that there are a disturbing number of students who either drop out completely or graduate High School having learned very little. What I find ridiculous is your implied assertion that hair color, clothing, or other choices of personal expression are what have caused the problems. A dress code prohibiting sexually provocative clothing, hate messages or obscenities, and accessories that may be deemed unhealthy or dangerous to the student or others (spiked arm bands, 6-inch stiletto heels, et cetera) is understandable; it prevents safety issues and disruptions in class (yes, sexy clothes DO cause disruptions and loss of focus in middle and high schools full of adolescent hormones!). Aside from these issues, though, personal choices such as hair color or style of clothing or whether or not a student wears jewelry have nothing to do with how well students behave in class or how much they are capable of -- or interested in -- learning.
I do believe that if the "dress code", including prohibition of hair color, is indeed clearly stated in the student handbook, and that handbook is signed by the student and parent, then they should not be upset when it is enforced. That being said, the streaks that girl had in her hair, while not her natural color, were a natural shade, and I cannot imagine anyone being distracted by a few red streaks. If that were my daughter and I knew the rules at the school, I would probably not be worried about those streaks getting her in trouble, and would be very surprised that she was singled out and punished for them.
In addition, I was actually rendered momentarily speechless when I read that last statement of yours ("Some of those people have foreign value systems that conflict with our foundational ideals and it is dangerous to have them here"). It disgusts me to think that that kind of uninformed reactionary prejudice is being spread to any of America's children by their teacher.
2-17-2011 @ 11:05AM
dougalcandy said...Totally agree--I don't see anything wrong with it. It's a little funky, but as a teacher, I don't see anything disruptive about it. But then again, I had purple hair in HS...
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2-17-2011 @ 2:08PM
hank said...Sure hope there is a law suit in the schools future. Texass has gotten out of control.
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2-17-2011 @ 3:41PM
mike hylton said...A lawsuit? based on what? people like you who say file a lawsuit over every trivial thing that may happen are idiots, what harm came to the girl? none!! she learned that maybe it's best to follow rules, even if you think they are to strict,, lifes tough she learned a lesson as did her mom who is the guilty one here,, lawsuit yea find a lawyer toi take that one on ,,,aint gonna happen
2-17-2011 @ 6:25PM
cl said...I hope they sue them too. Discriminating against people for expressing themselves is simply wrong. How would you like it if you were banned from someplace you wanted to go simply ebcause someone didn't like your hair or clothes.
2-17-2011 @ 2:14PM
bugaloosnana said...Ridiculous, kids get into school with knives and guns, but they're going to raise a fuss over some reddish streaks in a girls hair? It appears their priorties are way off kilter.
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2-17-2011 @ 3:44PM
Marilyn DeBrase said...I think the issue is -- she's probably only 12 years old, if that -- and she's coloring her hair, and mom thinks it's just fine -- it's the action not the result -- frankly, I think it's just stupid to color the hair at that age -- but then again, I don't think everything kids do is wonderful and fine -- and back them up, even when they're wrong -- where is the discipline nowadays.
2-17-2011 @ 6:31PM
Kathy said...I completely agree that their priorities are way off kilter. My son wanted the tips of his hair highlighted when he was 12 because that the style then and I allowed it because it didn't hurt anyone and he went to a school with a uniform policy. Save the space in In-School Suspension for the 12 year olds that are smoking and drinking and beating up other kids and make their parents attend too!
2-17-2011 @ 2:13PM
Ashley said...We want our childern to be creative, and express themselves... Yet we say no to highlights??? Lame... She could be doing many worse things..
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2-18-2011 @ 2:15PM
Lynda said...True true...this girl seems like a nice girl who doesnt do drugs or drink..I believe that if she had come to school with a mohawk..or spikes..etc..then the school would have a say..we are from texas and when my niece was going to middle school she wore her hair with purple streaks in it..never got kicked out..they should define what is not accepted..her hair looks nice..
2-17-2011 @ 2:26PM
chris said...Right. Let's suspend a kid for trying to express herself with hair color but keep inept and unqualified teachers in the classroom. Maybe kids should unionize.
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2-17-2011 @ 2:29PM
Tight Scotswoman said...An complete waste of time on the part of the school district and their STUPID rules. There was nothing disruptive about her hair. It was done by a professional hairstylist and the school officials should be more concerned about the grades for the school, students who are bullies and have an attitude.
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2-17-2011 @ 5:02PM
fred said...What would you expect from a state that wants to rewrite their history books.
2-17-2011 @ 2:27PM
4me2knw said...When I was in high school they expelled 2 boys because their hair was past their collars. We had a sit in. That was in 1969. Gad, you'd think the schools would have realized by now that this only stiffles this child's creativity and self expression! This school board is dumb, dumb, dumb! Let the children express themselves, let them grow! Stop with the stupid rules!!
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2-17-2011 @ 5:06PM
GJSly said...Kids are in school to learn . . .not to show off their so called creativity!
2-17-2011 @ 6:56PM
Tamara said...Um sure the kids are in school for part of the day during part of the week to learn but in dictating what students can and cannot do with their own hair crosses into their life outside of school. It's not like expressing yourself with clothing and accessories which can be changed once your out the school doors. You can't switch your hairstyle back and forth so they are basically dictating what students can do outside of school as well. This is beyond ridiculous I dyed my hair bright red when I was in grade 8 (actually it's been bright red since then day I'm now 26)
Just another reason I'm glad ny kids won't have to subjected to the ridiculous rules of school!
2-17-2011 @ 2:28PM
Dan said...I think that the people on here that are being nasty about this and the school staff, need to chill out. This girl wasn't acting like some slut or anything like that. It's a little color! Try worrying about kids bringing guns and drugs to school. We have two teenage girls at home and the stories they tell about the drugs, alcohol and weapons in the school would scare the hell out of you. And they have police officers in the school! Anyone on the Orange County School board, needs to take a close look at Dr. Phillips High School!
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2-17-2011 @ 2:42PM
Carol Yorks said...I know a group of sixth graders who all had red streaks in their hair to support a friend who was going through chemo for cancer. The school had no problem with it. Let's concentrate more on what they are learning, and how they are being taught, not their hair. Pick your battles, and this is not a major one.
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2-17-2011 @ 4:38PM
David said...just waiting for the time when schools make it where you need shaved heads and jumpsuits in order to go to school
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2-17-2011 @ 2:37PM
Mary said...The brightness of the red will fade somewhat after a few washings. Are they suspending anyone else for their haircoloring or streaking? Like the teachers? Any blonde streaking, perms, etc, should have the teachers tossed out as well, because the same standards should apply. I mean, you don't need the teachers hair to be a distraction, do you?
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