Try This: Getting Kids Out of Bed in the Morning
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These New York moms agreed, waking teens up in the morning is no easy task. Some use bribery like delicious breakfast to lure their kid out of bed. Others use harsher methods like pulling the covers off and letting them get really cold!
Our resident AdviceMama gives some pointers on how to separate your teen and her pillow in the morning:
"Rather than resorting to threats, bribes and general hysteria to light a fire under that slow-moving youngster of yours, focus on waking her and her groggy brain up without relying on drama and shouting to get her adrenalin pumping. Bring her a protein smoothie or an apple slice to kick-start her system when you wake her up. Turn on energetic music to help your daughter shift out of her foggy state," she says.
For more tips from moms like you, check out the rest of our Try This video series.











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3-28-2011 @ 5:41PM
Shell said...My kids were taught to set an alarm to get up to , they were taught this at 8 and are now 18 and 20 .. That was the last time I had to wake them up .. Its really not that hard to teach responsability let them know they will be late or have to miss school if they don't get up for the alarm ,mine hated missing or showing up late ..It works..
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3-28-2011 @ 7:18PM
Charlotte7224 said...Totally Agree!!!
I do not understand the mind set of the parents that write in whining about how their kids won't do this....or refuse to do that! Who's the adult in their homes?!?!?!
Back to basics folks, teach responsibility at the outset, & then ENFORCE IT!!
Let them get to school late (even miss it) & then have to suffer the consequences, both at home & at school. They'll learn...even if it is the hard way. Parents are so wimpy these days.
3-30-2011 @ 2:11PM
Norkalein1 said...I agree. My daughter did the same thing with her two boys. She bought them each an alarm clock and put the responsibility on them. She never, ever, had a problem with the kids sleeping in.
3-30-2011 @ 2:41PM
Emmet said...My parents woke me up kindly once maybe twice. Then it was a serious tone. If that did not work then it was a spanking. I learned fast to wake up and respect my parents authority. Bribing your kids with food or anything else is not going to work. Use the time and money saving tips at HTtP://Bit.Ly/SavingIdeas they also have a family friendly section on games.
3-30-2011 @ 11:51PM
Steve - Swim Dude said...My xwife was a "Your Daughter Won't Mind me" type of Woman. We had this child together, but by my x-wife's response you would not know that. Our 14 year old Daughter lives with me now. I have no issue with getting my daughter up in the morning. I believe it is a respect thing, I do lots of things for my daughter, I ask very little in return. My Daughter just gets the Job done!
3-30-2011 @ 4:24PM
Mooz said...My folks used the cold wet wash cloth trick. If I didnt get up they would pounce on me in the bed, hold me down and wash my face and body with a cold washcloth. I came out of that bed kicking and screaming but I came out regardless. Years later I "came out" to them again....... but thats another story.
3-30-2011 @ 4:32PM
Craig said...What about my 29yr old wife!?! I have to use "John's" squirt gun method to get her out of bed to take care of our 17mth old. Not all parents care enough as to how their kids will turn out and what they will go through as adults. PARENTS.... please take the time to teach your kids responsability, like Shell just said.
4-18-2011 @ 12:49PM
sam said...you know what..... my mother did the same thing to me. my mom always worked hours where she was out the house long before i had to get up. my dad worked nights... so he was home but usually sleep by the time i had to get up. i was taking public transportation @ 8 yrs old so i had to wake up to be on time. my mother didnt have to wake me up for school. it was only the weekends
3-31-2011 @ 9:41AM
Lips said...My son is now grown. Please understand that there are kids that WILL not do what parents want them to do no matter what the outcome. My son would not get up. I tried the alarm clock. He broke 5 or 6 and still didn't get up. When the alarm went off he would throw it across the room. So he would be punished no movies that week or month, no hanging out with friends after school or on week ends etc.... Even when I managed to get him out of bed and to school he would walk in the front of the school and I guess just keep right on walking out the back . Yes I am the adult and yes he was the child. But I would be bowing to you if you had been around to solve my problem with him. On top of everything else he could literally sleep through being rolled off the bed onto the floor his dad did that a couple of times. THere was a fire one house over in the middle of the night Firetrucks and so forth shoulde dup screaming and yelling were going on. My son slept through every bit of it and his bedroom was at the front of the house. The fire department is a noisey bunch of guys, not to mention they bring out these huge lights that make middle of the day look like high noon. But again I say he slept right through it. Your a better person then I am if you could have done better.
3-30-2011 @ 7:39PM
Lisa said...That all sounds great, but some kids don't care about consequences, I have one out of three children who does not care if he is late or misses school and does not care if he is grounded or suspended or everything is taken away from him. It does not faze him to have to do chores or sit in his room, as long as I let him eat he is fine, and unfortunately I can not take food away from him, and no he's not a fat child, he's almost too skinny.
3-30-2011 @ 2:14PM
John said...Why all the whinning, step 1) go in wake them up. step 2) go in wake them up. (5 min. interval). step 3) go in with a squirt gun, hose them down until they get up. (they will get up in a hurry after that) Some kids might take 2 or 3 times but they will come around.
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3-30-2011 @ 4:16PM
JR said...Too funny!
3-30-2011 @ 2:56PM
Judy W said...I fully agree, hose them down with cold water. Kids are babied too much these days. When you say jump they should JUMP!!
3-30-2011 @ 3:39PM
andy said...Yep. That's what I do. Lying in a cold, wet bed is no fun.
3-30-2011 @ 3:53PM
csi8299 said...Ha ha, too funny. Will be even more so when your kids are the ones who choose your nursing home.
3-30-2011 @ 4:17PM
Bryan said...That does work John...my Dad did the ultimate to me when I was a teen - throw a handful of frozen marbles in the bed...that will chase you straight to the floor! You can't get away from them quick enough. I tried it on my daughter when she refused to get ready for school...guess what - we don't have a problem when we tell her it's time to get up
3-31-2011 @ 1:17AM
Beth said...My daughter's senior year in high school was a nightmare when it came to getting her up in the morning. Nothing worked! By the time her principle called to tell me she had missed 47 days, I decided to get 'Madea' on her butt, and got out the belt!! I didn't have to actually hit her with it, but I came pretty close, whacking the heck outta the covers! Believe me, they move quick when Mom is swinging a leather belt and screaming! I had tried everything else, including escorting her to school in my robe and slippers with pink curlers in my hair, walking her from class to class ( I had to take a day off of work to do this). That lesson was in the fourth grade and lasted until her senior year, so it was worth it. As a mom, you gotta do what you gotta do. The pics all her friends took and posted were hilarious and I had literally at leat 30-40 other moms say that they threatened their kids with the same thing, and it helped them out!!!!
3-30-2011 @ 2:15PM
mrsg said...Something that I have found very helpful as a parent and to my parents of 8th graders... set the alarm clock to an agreed upon time. If the child fails to get up at the agreed time, set their bedtime 15 minutes earlier. If they continue just keep rolling their bedtimes back. Make sure you have their phones/computers.. Trust me, a 7pm bedtime for a week will motivate kids to change.
It's effective and works as long as you stay focused on the behavior. Don't get mad... simply state the facts, and roll the bedtime back.
Kids are smart, they'll turn around.
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3-30-2011 @ 3:48PM
Samuel said...true thats what i did
3-30-2011 @ 2:28PM
kathryn said...i have found that 'hosing them down' makes for a messy bed and room.
may i suggest a bag of marbles left in the freezer over night and dumped under the covers in the morning ? no mess and they Can't Get Away From Them...they roll right along with em.
(it's FUN too :))
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