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Phoebe Prince's Bullies Apologize, Are Sentenced to 1 Year Probation, Community Service
Filed under: In The News, Bullying
On Jan. 14, 2010, teenager Phoebe Prince hung herself in her home, and, soon after her death, details of the bullying and harassment she faced at school began to unravel.
Six alleged bullies faced felony charges in their hometown of Hadley, Mass.
Court reports indicate Prince was called a "whore" and that one bully suggested she kill herself, "Today" reports.
Today, more than a year later, two of the teens, Sean Mulveyhill and Kayla Narey, plead guilty to misdemeanor criminal harassment. They were sentenced to one year probation and 100 hours of community service. It is likely the others charged will strike similar deals to avoid jail time.
Narey rose in court to read an emotional apology addressed to Prince in which she apologized for her unkindness, and for laughing when others tormented the girl. She also apologized to the Prince family for the suffering they have endured.
Prince's mom agreed to the deal to avoid a trial. "Today" reports there was not a dry eye in the room as she addressed her daughter's bullies for the first time in court, reflecting on the pain of saying goodbye to her daughter.
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ReaderComments (Page 2 of 6)
5-05-2011 @ 2:06PM
Julia said...I think they got what was fair. I've known several people that committed suicide, and there's always something deeper. Kids get bullied all the time, and few ever committ suicide. Ms. Prince probably had some deeper issue at hand and the bullying simply pushed her over the edge.
I'm not saying what these kids did was right, because it's not. I'm just saying they got what they deserved. They don't deserve murder charges, as some have suggested.
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5-05-2011 @ 2:19PM
Tasha said...Well, you don't know these kids. Quite a group they are. Hopefully the new principal at that school will clean it up of such behaviour.
This was not just school behaviour but happened outside of school. The lawyers didn't want trials as they know their punishment would be harsher, as it should be.
5-05-2011 @ 3:06PM
Alden said...Not are all bullied the same amount. In middle school had my lunch and my stuff stolen and destroyed regularly, was in most cases didn't know who did it. I was beat up, and mocked and teased regularly but no one seemed to care to do anything about it. I was very close to killing my self a few times, to this day I suffer from horrible depression from the experience and still flirt with suicide.
Their punishment was fair? Please, all of them should be in jail for at least a year, if not several. 100 hours community service? Please. That's nothing. If they are going to stay out of jail I want to see them spend the entire summer doing community service Mon-Sat.
5-05-2011 @ 2:08PM
TiredoftheBS said...I believe its very unfortunate that this young lady took her life...but these new generation of kids are just weak! Seriously, I grew up with bullies in my school and no ever resulted in killing themselves. I think its the parents fault for not equipping their kids with copping skills and the confidence to stay up for themselves. If they can't handle a bully then how the heck are they going handle life in general?
At some point, we all have to stand up to something or somebody in life and the earlier you have to do so, the better off you'll be. All of these anti-bullying campaigns are as useless as campaigns to end homelessness or obesity. There will ALWAYS be bullies as long as there are weak people for them to prey on.
You don't try to punish every bully to solve the problem, but you raise mentally and emotionally stronger children who are equipped to deal with life.
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5-05-2011 @ 3:17PM
alden said...Bullying has gotten far worse over the years. Parents seem to have taught their kids that being a total and complete d*ckhole is ok.
5-05-2011 @ 3:34PM
TiredoftheBS said...Bully has gotten worst because people have gotten weaker or parents have failed to raise their children properly (victims and bullies alike). Like I said, the folly falls on the shoulders of the parents not the children.
5-05-2011 @ 5:11PM
Jaguar8450 said...Quit calling it "Bullying" It is criminal harrassement, stalking and in cases also physical assault. And the only reason this one was crying was because she got caught harrassing and stalking this poor girl to her death., It's time for jail for this entire crew because they have been bought up to believe that this can happen as they behave this way, that they can do this and nothing will happen to them for their crimes against society.
10-26-2011 @ 8:18AM
Chris Miller said...Typical rose-colored cruelty. Kids killed themselves ALL THE TIME from bullying, you simply didn't HEAR about it being caused by bulling; it was simply labelled a "tragedy" and blamed on mental illness; meanwhile those who refused to go to school, were labelled "truant" and sent to prison or mental hospitals to be bullied there even worse. Suicide was simply an ESCAPE from this type of medieval TORTURE.
Ever hear of laws against defamation, assault, battery, undue influence, intentional infliction of emotional abuse, false imprisonment? DIdn't think so. Because you're arrogant and cruel, and you are infested with the hatred of the incubator in which you were cultured... like any virulent social virus.
5-05-2011 @ 2:30PM
denise said...the girl who got bullied and killed herself was a weakling .bullying should not be condoned but at a certain point in ones life you have to have some backbone
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5-05-2011 @ 2:48PM
Laurie said...That is a pretty judgemental statement to make- she was a weakling? What would you have done?
5-05-2011 @ 3:06PM
Lynda said...Yea, you need to have some backbone and you need to be packing some heat. I don't have school-age kids any more, but if one of mine were being attacked to the extent she was, I would have sent them out the door with a concealed weapon, and a few lessons on how murder your abusers, and get away with it (like they did).
5-05-2011 @ 5:35PM
christine browning said...I certainly hope you don't have children, it's people like you whose raise the type of kids that do this!!! Shame on you, maybe one day, you will have to deal with a situation like this and you will personally feel the pain and anger!!
5-06-2011 @ 7:40AM
Hilda said...A weakling? This young lady came from Ireland expecgting a better life.Instead she was torn apart by a bunch of animals,one of them she trusted to help her adjust. You are adding insult to this family's injury.
10-25-2011 @ 2:12PM
Michelle said...Bullying has gotten worse because parenting has fallen down. Parents leave their kids to be raised by nannies/childcare and then they spoil them when they are home from work out of guilt. Kids are being raised in undisciplined ways, meaning they don't respect others, they don't use manners and they allow themselves to flop around by every new whim without having an internal compass for guidance. I would bet that the parents of these bullies are themselves, bullies. That they bully their children or neglect them. That is the way to raise a bully. Bully-moms are the worst! I have had to personally endure injurious times and watch my child be emotionally tormented and when the moms are confronted, they will deny, lie and squirm their way out of saying the truth. They cannot face their own choices to allow their children to grow up without boundaries, without guidance, without proper care. Bullies suck! And Bully-moms are to blame. They got off WAY too easy. Should have had 1,000 hours of Community Service and JAILTIME.
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5-05-2011 @ 2:26PM
babette said...One year probation? That's not nearly enough. They should have received at least five years' imprisonment. They'll shrug it off and get on with their lives, but poor Phoebe is gone forever.
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5-05-2011 @ 2:33PM
Keith J. Mohrhoff said...A vast improvement over when I was a kid. Back then, bullies could beat you up with impugnity because nobody would ever come forward as a witness for you. Other kids were so afraid of being the next victim, they gladly laughed along with everyone else. And, if a kid ever committed suicide, the authorities would say that it was "proof" of the child's instability and that the violence was all in his head! Case closed. Now, at least we have a system that is willing to admit when something is wrong. It took five years of martial arts training before I could escape the hell that was my childhood. Now, I am trained in Tae Kwon Do, Ju Jitsu and Goshin Ryu. Additionally, I am trained in PRT and CDT (Take-down and restraint techniques) Anyone from my childhood want a rematch? Let me know. :-)
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5-05-2011 @ 2:30PM
Yon said...Community service for bullies? The bullies will have a great time, with oodles of victims to hit.
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5-05-2011 @ 2:32PM
Dan said...Not nearly strong enough. It
dosen't matter how long bullying has gone on. It is time to put a stop to it. And that means it will not be tolerated in any way,shape,or form.
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10-26-2011 @ 8:24AM
Chris Miller said...Bullying is the inevitable result of ANYONE being above the law. But this is what schools do: i.e. it strips victims of their normal legal rights and protections, by allowing bullies to get away with things that they would not elsewhere.
If someone shoves you on the street, it's an assault, and you can call police; and if someone calls you names or publicly says false or private things about you, there are also disorderly conduct, defamation and privacy-laws. But in the school, these laws don't exist-- nor is the protection by the child's family, neighborhood or home-environment etc; and on top of that, the child is forced to attend under penalty of law, essentially kidnapped by the state to a hostile environment where normal laws and protections simply don't exist.
And it wonders why bullying occurs....could it be because all the laws, developed over hundreds of years for people's protection, are suddenly crushed flat?
People are too close to the situation in order to see the forest for the trees, and they think their own problems too significant to care about those of children-- just like free people didn't care about slavery; i.e. they take their own rights for granted, and will simply trivialize whatever happens to "kids" as "kidstuff."
But the time to end it is NOW. Nobody, but NOBODY, is above the law.
5-05-2011 @ 2:44PM
Lee said...I find the actions of these monster disgusting. It is apparant to me that there was little or no parenting in their home. It is unbelievable that the parents have not taught their own children just common curtisies. I am going thorough a similiar situation with my neghbors around the same ages of those mentioned, who claim to be "good christians" allow ther family and friends to visit them and say nothing to them when they block the driveways of senior citizens who live on the same street.
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