Boy, 13, Invited Out for Free Drinks and Strippers

Geez, it was clearly an accident. People, spend your time over more important things like taking time out of your busy work day to have lunch with your child at his school or sit at the dinner table and communicate so that things like these can be discussed and explained appropriately.

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Well, if it is one of those family plan phones for the cheaper rates, it was probably in his fathers name, and the Co thought they were sending it to dear old Dad.

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Perhaps a 13 year old doesn't need a cell phone. That will be the day! Until there are codes or blocks for messages to underage people, this type of advertising will happen. No one asked the kid to join them for a drive-by shooting. Dad needs to lighten up a little. This is hardly newsworthy for NBC or the Internet. Let's hope the kid has a really good spam blocker on his computer because the vulgar advertisements on the Internet exceed those received by cell phone.

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If I was that kids parent I wouldn't have given him a cell phone at this age.

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Teen drinking was widespread during the 1950s.

Accidentally inviting a thirteen-year-old male for free drinks and strippers is "shocking" because secular American society understands these things are restricted to adults.

Similarly, according to a 2003 Zogby poll, two of every five Americans say “the government should treat marijuana the same way it treats alcohol: It should regulate it, control it, tax it, and only make it illegal for children.”

Close to 100 million Americans, including over half of those between the ages of 18 and 50, have tried marijuana at least once. Military and police recruiters often have no alternative but to ignore past marijuana use by job seekers.

In 1996, California voters passed a law to regulate medical marijuana within the state. In 2000, voters in California approved an initiative allowing people who are arrested for simple possession of drugs to go through a rehabilitation program rather than through the court process that would result in prison. Since the program began, most agree it has been very successful. It results in less recidivism and is considered cheaper than imprisonment.

Richard Posner, Chicago's chief judge of the 7th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals and one of the nation's leading legal scholars, says marijuana use should be legalized as a way of reducing crime. Posner, a Reagan administration appointee once described by American Lawyer magazine as “the most brilliant judge in the country,” explained his views on marijuana in The Times Literary Supplement, a British publication, and in later interview:

“It is nonsense that we should be devoting so many law enforcement resources to marijuana," says Posner. "I am skeptical that a society that is so tolerant of alcohol and cigarettes should come down so hard on marijuana use and send people to prison for life without parole.”

Posner is the highest-ranking judge to publicly favor the repeal of marijuana laws. Several judges of the federal district court, a level lower than the appeals court, have made similar calls, including Robert Sweet of New York and James Paine of Florida, both Carter Administration appointees.

New York University law professor Burt Neuborne said it's significant that “one of the leading intellectuals in the judicial system recognizes that the laws don't seem to be working well.”

Posner and other federal judges have complained that sentencing guidelines force them to give unjustly severe prison sentences to relatively minor drug offenders.

Says Posner: “Prison terms in America have become appallingly long, especially for conduct that, arguably, should not be criminal at all. Only decriminalization is a sure route to a lower crime rate. It is sad that it appears so far below the horizon of political feasibility.”

Rufus King, a Washington, DC lawyer who has served on the President's Commission on Law Enforcement and the Administration of Justice, calls the drug war, “A worthless crusade.”

According to King, drug use is a social problem, not a law enforcement problem. He observes:

“Cigarette use is declining through changes in cultural values in the population. Like most smokers and alcoholics, most users of illegal drugs poison themselves because they want to be intoxicated. No human force can do them much good until they want help.”

King is optimistic that the current anti-drug hysteria will subside, and responsible and reasonable drug law policies will be adopted.

Let's put things in perspective, people!

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Can someone explain to me why the 13-year-old is on the call/ext list for the strip club? He didn't just magically appear there, someone had to give them his information, and I bet that someone is him.

So why is the club catching grief for this?

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Maybe it was a "mis-dialed" number from a data bank or pehaps a newly recycled phone number.......or just maybe this kid isn't as innocent as he sounds.....how did his number get in the wrong channels?

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It was an accident and this happens. Sometimes we cannot forget them but this is something that must be gotten over and forgiven for those who sent it. Just forget it and go on with your life DAD> The kid was not hurt from this text.

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As a father of teenagers, I wouldn't get upset at the club for sending the text. I would get upset at my son for being on their email or text list. "What were you doing on their list anyway? When did you visit that club?"

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i wonder how they got that kids number to send the text to.

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Lucky !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I'm single and childless, but this situation struck me because I'm only about 10 years older than Jack. While it is inappropriate for a strip club to text a 13 year old, accidents happen. (In fact, I once got a voicemail about getting an accident liability warranty for my car. I don't even drive.) What grabbed my attention the most is Jack's reaction to it. He very calmly said it confused him, whereas his dad is raising hell. In my opinion, this shows how well-adjusted Jack is-and I do think his dad is overreacting a bit. I also hope Mr. Warta appreciates his son's easygoing nature.

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the poor kid has a wimp for a father, feel for him

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What the story fails to report is how the club got the boys cell phone number to begin with. They sent out an advertisment to phone numbers from some list. How did the boys name get on the list. i am sure the club itself did not put it there. Be reasonable.

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I bet that the dad is on a firstname basis with every pole dancer/stripper and bartender in the joint.

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I don't even see how this makes it to the news, sometimes people have to be a little realistic...

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