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What to Buy Teachers for an End of the Year School Gift
Here's our unofficial guide to teacher-gift giving:
Follow the rules. Does your kid's school have a policy limiting the amount that can be spent on gifts? If so, honor it. It's also smart to check with other parents in your school to find out what they're doing; this helps you avoid feeling sheepish if your gift is out of step with everyone else's. And don't forget to recognize teacher aides with a small token, too.
Consider a group gift. Ask for a small donation ($5 to $10 per family) towards something larger (a massage! a Kindle!) It's an easy, budget-friendly way to gift a nice present while taking the burden off individual parents. If you're coordinating the gift, remember that not everyone can -- or will -- participate. Regardless, include every student's name on the card. It's just classier.
Gift cards are always appreciated. Yes, it's a little impersonal, but you know it's going to get used! Consider a gift certificate towards something the teacher may not splurge on herself -- a manicure, a restaurant, a class, that kind of thing.
"Things" are great -- if you know your teacher's taste. Imagine getting 15 gifts from well-meaning pseudo-strangers. Some you'll love, but most will likely miss the mark. By all means, buy your teacher a monogramed tote bag, an umbrella or a pretty scarf if you're confident you know her taste. But if you don't, stick to the gift certificate or the group gift.
Make the packaging personal. Whatever you gift, include drawings or handwritten notes from the kids! Consider using the drawings as the gift wrap itself.
Finally, remember that no teacher needs a mug/pen/frame with the words No. 1 Teacher on it -- no matter how cute it looks in the store.
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