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Mom Allegedly Threatens Little League Official Because Her Son Didn't Make the Team
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Talk about a parent totally striking out.
Janet Chiauzzi, an East Meadow, N.Y. mom, has been arrested and charged with stalking, falsely reporting an incident, endangering the welfare of a child and aggravated harassment, allegedly because her son did not make a summer baseball travel team, "Today" reports.
Chiauzzi allegedly threatened the Little League official she deemed responsible, sending letters to his kids' school that accused him of physical and verbal abuse, according to the news show, and even addressed the official's own young son.
"If something happens to your dad or mom, or your sister, you can blame your dad for not taking these threats seriously," she allegedly wrote.
The charges of abuse against the man were investigated and dismissed, "Today" reports.
In a letter to the official, Chiauzzi allegedly threatens the man's family, the news show adds.
"I know where your wife works ... I know where your daughter goes to school and your son's normal every day routine. ... Just tell your wife and kids to watch themselves, especially at night. I don't care what it takes, I'm going to make your life and your family's life a living hell. These are not just words and empty threats," she allegedly wrote.
"Today" reports Chiauzzi's attorney calls the allegations "shocking" and he states the woman is a "PTA mom" and that she is not guilty.
"This is a very thought-through, premeditated, elongated process that went on, and, in a way, I find that to be more disturbing," psychologist Gail Saltz tells "Today."
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ReaderComments (Page 4 of 6)
6-21-2011 @ 3:56PM
js said...my kids were all in little league, they played because they wanted to, they were not superstars, just kids playing baseball. You learn teamwork, rules, fair play, and have fun too.
Parent's need to learn the rules when it's the kids who are playing, whether it's baseball, or other such things as dance, pageants whatever you put your child in. I would hope that the comments would stay on the bad conduct of the parent, not the child.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:01PM
Sal said...My cousin coached soft ball in Long island and after 2 yrs he had enough due to the parents.
Most parents are normal but some want to fight and very abusive.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:00PM
Rob said...My German Shepherd just saw her picture and ran cowering in the corner.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:16PM
Mary said......bet you haven't looked in the mirror lately.
6-22-2011 @ 3:19AM
The TODD said...You know it just sad that a man who is a Little League Official does this, I am not condoning what the Mom did but it's people like the OFFICIAL who are killing kids hopes and so forth, if your a Parent you want the best for your kids. I think we should be looking into the Little League Official ethics and code of conduct; maybe will find a pattern or whatnot but I hope the Mom gets some help and I wish everyone would see the foot on both sides.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:50PM
cindy said...Boy how come ths doesn't surprise it's always "those" kind of people who go off the deep end over their child's cheerleading or
beauty pagents activities....never other kind of people.
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6-21-2011 @ 5:03PM
JH said...When will people FINALLY get it through their thick skulls that you cannot judge a book by it's cover! Yeah, you know what, TED BUNDY seemed like an upstanding citizen to everyone, as did the BTK killer. For this horrendous woman's attorney to defend her with the planket statement "she's a PTA Mom" is absolutely absurd. Yeah, OK, she's in the PTA, then that OBVIOUSLY mean she can't have a screw loose in her head. Are you KIDDING ME?!
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6-21-2011 @ 4:16PM
susanneg903 said...Is it me or does this lady look like a leather handbag??? Well, maybe being in prison will save her from skin cancer...Geez!!!!
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6-21-2011 @ 4:09PM
wtf said...What does being a PTA mom have to do with anything? The woman is a lunatic and needs to suffer the consequences for her actions.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:11PM
hank said...the insane reaction to parents never letting kids be kids, whatever happened to a pick up game in a sand lot.no parents, make up some rules, have fun ? why dont these psycho parents get a life and let the kids have their own?
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6-21-2011 @ 4:23PM
Jane said...I would be inclined to ask local officials to look into the home life of the kid (and any siblings). A mom this nuts is likely to have a very 'different' style of parenting - emotionally if not actually physically abusive. Crazy moms are out there, we all know. Why don't we notice them so often? Well, she's a PTA mom. What - so that makes her a great parent? Her child/children may well be either quite brainwashed (a cult of two or three) - or too frightened of their mother's wrath to ever say anything. I say check it out officially.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:15PM
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6-21-2011 @ 4:17PM
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6-21-2011 @ 4:21PM
Kathy said...What a psycho...this woman is obviously demented
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6-21-2011 @ 4:22PM
Doc said...This woman who harassed people over her son's failure to get on the team is a "Baba Booey." People are just nutz...this is one more example.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:28PM
connie and lonnie said...I KNOW THIS FAMILY!! THEY ORIGINALLY AND STILL!!! --LIVE IN ELMONT!!!..I JUST THOUGHT THE YOUNGER SISTER NANCY WAS A NUT-JOB!!!..UGLY, SKINNY TROUBLEMAKER!!!...BUT NOW THE OTHER SISTER!!! OMG!!! FATHER WAS A NICE GUY..IT IS A SHAME!!!!
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6-21-2011 @ 4:31PM
melissa said...Come on now lady, Where does this come from. Your own problems while growing up. Could it be you were not fit for some sport or other and not allowed to play. Yeesh, some parents are just so competitive that they will do anything to get their kids on a team when they did not make the cut. What you gonna do. Are you going to stand by them 24/7 when they are adults and did not get the job, because they did not meet the qualifications. I would hate to be your son or daughter. What an embarrassment.
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6-21-2011 @ 4:48PM
mjsjr52 said...THis woman needs psychiatric attention immediately and punished to the full extent of the law as soon as practical.
30 days in the cooler with other psycho women should be appropriate.
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6-21-2011 @ 5:38PM
Brad said...Maybe the kid deserved to play on the team, but when all the assnt. coaches have their kids make the team, and they S%&K...and start...Then this mother goes berzerk to make a point....Maybe she was just crazy, but too much favortism goes on in this world, and until we are on the loosing end, do we see it...
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6-21-2011 @ 4:55PM
shannonckd said...What the...? You have to be gay to sew well? The kid can't do both?
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