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<p>Divorce is hard on kids, and a new law forcing parents to split custody down the middle would make it even harder. Credit: Getty Images</p>
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<strong>A new bill under consideration by the Tennessee State Legislature would evenly split custody between divorcing parents with exceptions only being made when one parent can prove the other is completely unfit.<br />
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The bill, which is in committee, is drawing standing room-only crowds and appears to be <a target="_blank" href="http://www.tennessean.com/article/20100316/NEWS0201/3160345/TN-bill-on-divorce-would-require-equal-custody-of-children">dividing parents</a> right across gender lines, the Tennessean reports. Mothers are protesting what they see as a law that could force women to stay in abusive relationships, and some fathers are lauding the bill, saying current divorce laws in the state prevent many dads from having meaningful relationships with their children.<br />
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If the bill makes it through the Tennessee House and Senate, that state would become the only one with a so-called gender-neutral custody policy. I'm all for gender-neutral policies and laws -- as long as they aren't crazy, which this one absolutely is.<br />
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Proponents of the bill say it would eliminate nasty custody battles and, in the end, give kids what they need: Equal time with both parents, not a custody arrangement that makes sense for the parents' logistics. In theory, they're right. Divorce is disruptive enough without the added emotional distress of, in some cases, drastically reducing the time children spend with one particular parent.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/opinion-should-divorced-parents-always-get-equal-time-with-kids/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Opinion: Tenn. Legislator Who Wants Divorced Parents to Always Get Equal Parenting Time Has No Idea What He's Talking About</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.tennessean.com/article/20100316/NEWS0201/3160345/1009/NEWS02>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/opinion-should-divorced-parents-always-get-equal-time-with-kids/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19403458/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/opinion-should-divorced-parents-always-get-equal-time-with-kids/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>50-50 custody</category><category>50-50Custody</category><category>divorce</category><category>equal custody</category><category>EqualCustody</category><category>tennesee custody bill</category><category>TenneseeCustodyBill</category><category>tennessee divorce bill</category><category>TennesseeDivorceBill</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Celebrating St. Patrick's Day</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/holidays/" rel="tag">Holidays</a></p><div class="classy">
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St. Patrick's Day, traditionally celebrated on the religious feast day of St. Patrick, isn't just about green beer and parties. It is an Irish holiday that has been observed in that country for more than 1,000 years.<br /> <strong><br /> What is St. Patrick's Day?</strong><br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.history.com/content/stpatricksday" target="_blank">St. Patrick's Day</a> typically falls during the Christian season of Lent, according to History.com, and on this day Irish families would attend church in the morning and celebrate the Irish saint's feast day and the anniversary of his death, which occurred in the fifth century. St. Patrick is the patron saint of Ireland, and legend tells that he banished all the snakes from that country. Lenten traditions prohibiting the consumption of meat were lifted on this day and people would drink, dance and eat a traditional meal of Irish bacon and cabbage.<br /> <strong><br /> When is St. Patrick's Day?</strong><br /> <br /> St. Patrick's Day is celebrated on March 17, the anniversary of the Irish saint's death. It is also his feast day on the Christian religious calendar.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Celebrating St. Patrick's Day</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19297593/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/17/celebrating-st-patricks-day/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>evergreen</category><category>holidays</category><category>irish</category><category>st. patricks day</category><category>St.PatricksDay</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 08:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Opinion: I Had a C-Section - Does That Make Me Less of a Mother?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/babies/" rel="tag">Babies</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/pregnancy-and-birth/" rel="tag">Pregnancy &amp; Birth</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/opinions/" rel="tag">Opinions</a></p><div class="classy">
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<p>A cesarean section can be just as joyful as a vaginal birth. Credit: Getty Images</p>
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<strong>The National Institutes of Health got a </strong><a target="_blank" href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/12/government-panel-questions-vbac-bans/"><strong>bunch of medical bigwigs together last week</strong></a><strong> to talk about cesarean delivery and what they called the "troubling fact" that women who want to try for a vaginal birth after a C-section (VBAC) are often denied that option.<br />
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The panel supports the idea of allowing a woman to pursue a VBAC, and the research seems to bear out the fact that, for many, a vaginal birth after a surgical one is a viable option: According to the NIH press release about the panel, <a target="_blank" href="http://media-newswire.com/release_1114362.html">labor is successful</a> in nearly 75 percent of VBAC cases.<br />
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"About 70 percent of women who have had Cesareans are good candidates for trying for a normal birth, and 60 percent to 80 percent of those who try succeed," Dr. F. Gary Cunningham, the conference chairman and a professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas, tells The Money Times.<br />
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What's troubling to me is not the fact that Cunningham wants more women to have access to VBACs. No, what's troubling to me is how he called the way I birthed my children abnormal. I had two C-sections -- the first one because my daughter was breech, and the second an elective repeat C-section. The assertion that my birth experiences were less than normal is totally insulting.</div><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Opinion: I Had a C-Section - Does That Make Me Less of a Mother?</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19398723/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/15/opinion-i-had-a-c-section-does-that-make-me-less-of-a-mother/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>birth</category><category>c-sections</category><category>NIH</category><category>panel on VBAC</category><category>PanelOnVbac</category><category>surgery</category><category>vaginal birth</category><category>vaginal birth after caesarean</category><category>VaginalBirth</category><category>VaginalBirthAfterCaesarean</category><category>VBAC</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Opinion: Is Tweeting Our Family Tragedies the New Normal?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/opinion-is-tweeting-our-family-tragedies-the-new-normal/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/opinion-is-tweeting-our-family-tragedies-the-new-normal/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/opinion-is-tweeting-our-family-tragedies-the-new-normal/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/media/" rel="tag">Media</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/opinions/" rel="tag">Opinions</a></p><strong><br />
There is a little girl named Layla Grace who died yesterday. She had cancer, and I followed this 2-year-old's downward spiral from the time she was diagnosed with neuroblastoma 10 months ago.</strong><br />
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Layla Grace was not my neighbor. She was not my child's nursery-school classmate nor the daughter of a friend. She was not a member of my church or even a resident of my community. I do not know Layla Grace -- or her parents -- but her passing weighs on my mind nonetheless.<br />
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I know <a target="_blank" href="http://twitter.com/laylagrace">Layla Grace through Twitter</a>. The child's parents were tweeting and continue to tweet about their loss, and blog about it as well. Some say using social media to reach out to other moms and dads during times of tragedy is a way to connect us all, across the usual dividing lines of race, class, gender, sexual orientation and geography. <br />
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I used to think so, too.<br />
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In fact, I wrote a piece on the topic last year, after a California couple shared their grief at the passing of their 17-month-old daughter and Twitter mobilized around them. They had been raising money for the March of Dimes at the time of the child's death -- she was born 11 weeks premature -- and by the time #Maddie was trending, which is the way you find a topic on Twitter, they raised more than $100,000 through donations from, literally, virtual strangers.  <br />
At the time, I called Twitter the modern version of a back porch, where friends and community members gathered with casseroles and comfort when tragedy struck. I believed that then, and in Maddie's case, it is still an accurate metaphor.<br />
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Now I wonder just how much tragedy we can absorb before we are immune to it. Layla Grace's journey to death, and her parents' overwhelming grief, is almost unreal. It feels like a play, or a TV movie of the week. My fear is that we will cross the line from compassion to consumption.<br />
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Layla Grace's dire condition attracted the attention of celebrities like Ryan Seacrest, Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian, all of whom helped the 2-year-old's mom in her effort to raise awareness of the child's condition -- stage four neuroblastoma, a cancer that is common in infancy and childhood. Their involvement in the story made it ever more surreal, and more and more like the plight of a fictional character.<br />
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I fear we are in danger of grief and loss becoming so abstract that it seems more like entertainment than tragedy. While there's no doubt that most people who reach out to families in need are genuine in their empathy and compassion, there is another side to that coin. In a sickening way, it feels almost trendy to glom on to what were once the intimate moments of tragedy borne only by families and their closest friends.That is one trend I will let pass me by.<br />
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I can't judge the parents of these children for needing to share their sadness. I cannot and will not pretend to understand the heart and mind of someone whose child has died or is dying. That is not my right. <br />
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Maybe I'm crazy. Maybe tweeting our family tragedies is the new normal, the Web 2.0 version of gathering around those who are suffering. What I do know is that I need to turn away from the screen when I see this kind of pain and agony scrolling by. Not because my heart is hardened, but because I fear it may become so.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/opinion-is-tweeting-our-family-tragedies-the-new-normal/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19391133/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/opinion-is-tweeting-our-family-tragedies-the-new-normal/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>facebook</category><category>social media</category><category>SocialMedia</category><category>SocialNetworking</category><category>society</category><category>trailer</category><category>twitter</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:07:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>When Your Child Is the Bully</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/playground-bureau/" rel="tag">Playground Bureau</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/bullying/" rel="tag">Bullying</a></p><div class="classy">
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<strong>Heidi's oldest child was just 15 months old when she started exhibiting aggressive behavior. She hit, she bit, she pulled other kids' hair -- and Heidi was at a loss as to how to cope.</strong><br />
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"My daughter was mean," recalls the New Jersey mom of three. <br />
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And with that realization came with a flood of emotions -- confusion, embarrassment, and even shame. <br />
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"I was a teacher and a nanny before I had kids, so I thought I had it all figured out. I was ... embarrassed of my daughter, and I definitely felt shame. Here I was this teacher, this nanny with years of experience, and I couldn't even control my 15-month-old."<br />
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We hear so often about the victims of bullies, the kids who suffer at the hands of tiny tyrants or teen queens. The media covers the sensational cases, like that of <a target="_blank" href="http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,587340,00.html">Phoebe Prince</a>, the 15-year-old South Hadley, Mass. student who took her own life after she was taunted mercilessly on Facebook.<br />
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But what about your average, garden-variety bully? And what about their parents? For Heidi, living with the knowledge that her child took pleasure in victimizing others was incredibly stressful.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>When Your Child Is the Bully</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19383774/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/10/my-kid-is-a-bully-fear-shame-and-sometimes-pride/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>bullies</category><category>kids who bully</category><category>KidsWhoBully</category><category>parents bully</category><category>parents bullying parents</category><category>ParentsBully</category><category>ParentsBullyingParents</category><category>raising a bully</category><category>RaisingABully</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 10:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Court Grants Parents Permission to Sterilize 11-Year-Old</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/medical-conditions/" rel="tag">Medical Conditions</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/special-needs/" rel="tag">Special Needs</a></p><br /> <strong>A couple won permission from the Australian courts to go ahead with a planned </strong><a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2010/03/09/2840565.htm" target="_blank"><strong>hysterectomy for their 11-year-old</strong></a><strong> daughter, whose medical condition causes her to have epileptic seizures when she menstruates. The ruling has sparked a nationwide debate there over the rights of children with disabilities.</strong><br /> <br /> The child, known only as Angela, has a condition called Rett Syndrome, according to ABC News Online. The disease is profoundly disabling and has left her without the ability to communicate; she is also unable to feed herself or walk without assistance. <br /> <br /> While Angela's seizures are controlled by medication, they worsen when the girl has a heavy menstrual period, which, for her, began at the age of 9. Experts recommended to her parents in March 2009 that the girl undergo a hysterectomy, but the health provider would not perform the surgery without a court order because of the irreversible nature of the procedure.<br />
<p> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Court Grants Parents Permission to Sterilize 11-Year-Old</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2010/03/09/2840565.htm>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19389740/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/court-grants-parents-permission-to-sterilize-11-year-old/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>11-year-old</category><category>australia</category><category>Disabilities</category><category>hysterectomy</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 15:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Judge to Mom on Jury Duty: No Babysitter? You're Going to Jail!</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/judge-to-mom-on-jury-duty-no-baby-sitter-youre-going-to-jail/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/judge-to-mom-on-jury-duty-no-baby-sitter-youre-going-to-jail/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/judge-to-mom-on-jury-duty-no-baby-sitter-youre-going-to-jail/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/weird-but-true/" rel="tag">Weird But True</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/childcare/" rel="tag">Childcare</a></p><br /> It was a very bad day, indeed, for Carmela Khury when she was called for jury duty in a Michigan murder case: Her mother, who was watching her two kids, had to have emergency oral surgery. Then, her backup child care fell through.<br /> <br /> Khury called the office of Oakland County Circuit Court Judge Leo Bowman, according to The New York Times, and explained her predicament. Still, she was ordered to show up for jury selection at 9 a.m. and was warned that if she didn't, <a href="http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/03/08/jailed-for-bringing-kids-to-jury-duty/" target="_blank">she could be arrested</a>. So Khury gathered up her 8-month-old son and 3-year-old daughter and took them with her.<br /> <br /> She showed up at 9:25 a.m. with her children in tow, and she was excused from her duties. But things didn't end there: Bowman ordered her to sit through every day of the trial as an observer. Additionally, Bowman sentenced her to 24 hours in jail for contempt of court after the trial ended.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/09/judge-to-mom-on-jury-duty-no-baby-sitter-youre-going-to-jail/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Judge to Mom on Jury Duty: No Babysitter? 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<br /> Nujood Ali walked into a Yemeni courtroom and asked to see a judge, because she wanted a divorce. This may seem like a common tale of marital dissolution, but <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2009/02/05/worlds-youngest-divorcee-takes-on-paris/" target="_blank">Nujood Ali was just 10 years old</a> when she defied the cultural traditions and walked out on the husband who was more than 20 years her senior.<br /> <br /> Nujood, now 12, chronicles her journey from child bride to celebrated hero in her new autobiography, "<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Am-Nujood-Age-10-Divorced/dp/0307589676/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267724847&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">I Am Nujood, Age 10 and Divorced</a>." Ghostwritten by French newspaper reporter Delphine Minoui, the book details how the young girl shocked citizens of her native Yemen after <a href="http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1876652,00.html" target="_blank">she walked out on her arranged marriage</a> to a motorcycle delivery man. Nujood's father married her off to the man for a dowry of $250, and for two months she begged her husband every day to return her to her family.<br /> <br /> He refused, and so Nujood decided to take action. One afternoon, when her mother sent her on an errand, Nujood took a bus into the crowded capital city of Sanaa. She then hailed a taxi to the courthouse. Not knowing what else to do, she sat on a bench outside a courtroom all day, until a judge noticed her lingering in the empty hallway. He asked what she needed, and the girl said simply, "I came for a divorce."<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/05/divorced-before-puberty-former-child-bride-details-marriage-at/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Divorced Before Puberty: Former Child Bride Details Marriage at Age 10 in New Book</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/04/opinion/04kristof.html?ref=opinion>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/05/divorced-before-puberty-former-child-bride-details-marriage-at/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19383180/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/05/divorced-before-puberty-former-child-bride-details-marriage-at/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>ArrangedMarriage</category><category>books</category><category>child bride</category><category>ChildBride</category><category>divorced</category><category>Nujood Ali</category><category>NujoodAli</category><category>tween</category><category>Yemen</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 10:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Parents of Dying Children Consider Euthanasia, Study Shows</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/medical-conditions/" rel="tag">Medical Conditions</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a></p><br /> <strong>There may be no greater pain than watching your child struggle with an agonizing, terminal illness. And that's why some parents of dying children may consider asking their doctors to hasten the end of their child's life.</strong><br /> <br /> According to Time magazine, a new study out of the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston reveals that of 141 parents whose children died from pediatric cancer, 34 percent of parents said that in hindsight, <a href="http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1968978,00.html?xid=rss-topstories" target="_blank">they would have contemplated hastening the end of their child's life</a>. However, only 13 parents admitted to having the conversation with a physician.<br /> <br /> The results are an indication that caregivers and parents are at a loss when it comes to developing a palliative care plan for children who suffer from terminal illnesses. Parents are naturally inclined to believe their kids still have a chance to fight their diseases, and many childhood cancers still have an uncertain prognosis. Those two factors can combine to create an environment in which end-of-life care is delayed.<br /> <br /> A 2008 study conducted at the University of California, San Francisco, Children's Hospital states that many are hesitant to have these hard conversations, Time reports. <br /><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Parents of Dying Children Consider Euthanasia, Study Shows</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1968978,00.html?xid=rss-topstories>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19381636/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/04/parents-of-dying-children-consider-euthanasia-study-shows/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>children terminal illness</category><category>ChildrenTerminalIllness</category><category>euthanasia</category><category>palliative care</category><category>PalliativeCare</category><category>pediatric cancer</category><category>PediatricCancer</category><category>research</category><category>study</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Build a Wiccan Altar? Not in My Shop Class, Teacher Says</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/03/build-a-wiccan-altar-not-in-my-shop-class-teacher-says/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/03/build-a-wiccan-altar-not-in-my-shop-class-teacher-says/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/03/build-a-wiccan-altar-not-in-my-shop-class-teacher-says/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/religion-and-spirituality/" rel="tag">Religion &amp; Spirituality</a></p><br />
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An Iowa shop teacher who refused to allow a student to build a Wiccan altar in class has been placed on leave in a flap over religious freedom of expression.</strong><br />
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Dale Halferty, who has taught industrial arts at Guthrie Center High School in Guthrie, Iowa, for three years, admits he forbade the student to construct <a href="http://www.desmoinesregister.com/article/20100302/NEWS02/3020372/Wiccan-altar-puts-teacher-officials-at-odds" target="_blank">an altar dedicated to the religion</a> as part of a class assignment, The Des Moines Register reports.<br />
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<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicca" target="_blank">Wicca</a> is known as the modern form of witchcraft and typically involves the worship of multiple gods. <br />
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A 20-year veteran of the classroom, Halferty asserts that he was well within his rights to prevent the teen from building the structure, which he says poses a threat to the separation of church and state. He previously prevented another student from building a cross in the class.<br />
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"... This kid was practicing his religion during class time, and I don't agree," Halferty tells the Register. "I don't want any religious symbols in the shop. We as Christians don't get to have our say during school time, so why should he?"<br />
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<div class="captioncenter">Hey, all you 25-year-olds: A British teenager is trying to avoid looking as "haggard" as you do by getting Botox injections, some of which are administered by her mom, the so-called "Human Barbie." <br />
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Hannah Burge, now 16, was just <a target="_blank" href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1254889/Why-Human-Barbie-injecting-16-year-old-daughter-Botox.html">15 years old when she got her first injection</a> of Botox in a Spanish clinic with approval from her mom, Sarah, according to London's Daily Mail. Sarah Burge is known the world over as the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.reallifebarbie.com/">Human Barbie</a>, thanks to the myriad plastic surgery procedures she has undergone in her quest to resemble the iconic doll.<br />
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Hannah has had two more treatments since her visit to Spain, both of which were administered by her mom. The schoolgirl says all the kids are doing the "B" and that she wants to thwart the wrinkles she already has. Yes, you read that right -- this 16-year-old says she has wrinkles.</div>
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Family income, cultural customs and beliefs are all factors that put minority kids at risk for obesity -- before they even leave the womb.<br />
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According to the Associated Press, researchers looked at more than a dozen circumstances that can increase the chance of obesity and found that almost every one was <a target="_blank" href="http://customwire.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_MED_KIDS_AND_OBESITY?SITE=KTVK&amp;SECTION=HOME&amp;TEMPLATE=DEFAULT&amp;CTIME=2010-03-01-03-17-03">more prevalent among black and Hispanic children</a> than in their white peers. <br />
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Contributing factors besides income and culture include: sleep habits in infants, moms who smoked while pregnant, unusual and rapid weight gain in babies, starting solid food before the age of 4 months, letting very young children have fast food, sugar-laden beverages and/or a TV in their bedrooms.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/02/minority-kids-at-risk-for-obesity-even-before-birth-study-says/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Minority Kids at Risk for Obesity Even Before Birth, Study Says</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://customwire.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_MED_KIDS_AND_OBESITY?SITE=KTVK&amp;SECTION=HOME&amp;TEMPLATE=DEFAULT&amp;CTIME=2010-03-01-03-17-03>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/02/minority-kids-at-risk-for-obesity-even-before-birth-study-says/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19377950/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/02/minority-kids-at-risk-for-obesity-even-before-birth-study-says/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>kids</category><category>michelle obama</category><category>MichelleObama</category><category>minorities</category><category>obese</category><category>obesity</category><category>obesity epidemic</category><category>ObesityEpidemic</category><category>study</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Mom at 14? Novelist Says It's the Right Age to Have a Baby</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/extreme-childhood/" rel="tag">Extreme Childhood</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/sex/" rel="tag">Sex</a></p><div class="classy">
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<strong>Your 14-year-old is ready to have a baby. So says award-winning British novelist Hilary Mantel, who caused a ruckus when she said the age at which women have children is dictated by men.</strong><br />
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The London Telegraph reports that <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/women_shealth/7332066/Novelist-says-girls-are-ready-to-have-babies-at-14.html" target="_blank">the hubbub erupted</a> after an interview in Stella, the newspaper's weekend style magazine, in which Mantel, 57, discusses the natural instincts that drive procreation and says she was competent enough at age 14 to run a household.<br />
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"Having sex and having babies is what young women are about, and their instincts are suppressed in the interests of society's timetable," she tells Stella. "I think it is that men's lives have set the timetable. Men reach a sort of sexual peak when you are 20, a social peak when you are 40. There is this breed of women for whom society's timetable is completely wrong."<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Mom at 14? Novelist Says It's the Right Age to Have a Baby</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/women_shealth/7332066/Novelist-says-girls-are-ready-to-have-babies-at-14.html>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19377919/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/03/01/mom-at-14-novelist-says-its-the-right-age-to-have-a-baby/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>Hilary Mantel</category><category>HilaryMantel</category><category>pregnancy</category><category>Stella magazine</category><category>StellaMagazine</category><category>teen pregnancy</category><category>teen sex</category><category>teen sexuality</category><category>TeenPregnancy</category><category>TeenSex</category><category>TeenSexuality</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Opinion: ChatRoulette Is A Disaster In The Making</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/media/" rel="tag">Media</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/extreme-childhood/" rel="tag">Extreme Childhood</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/bullying/" rel="tag">Bullying</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/opinions/" rel="tag">Opinions</a></p><br />
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There's nothing quite like clicking a button on your laptop screen at 6:30 in the morning and calling up a random, live image of a naked, middle-age man doing the dirty solo.<br />
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That's what happened to me when I signed on to <a href="http://www.chatroulette.com">ChatRoulette</a>, a new Web site designed to randomly connect users one-on-one by Web cam. Created by Moscow 17-year-old Andrey Ternovskiy, the site is generating buzz -- some good and some bad -- all over the media.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Opinion: ChatRoulette Is A Disaster In The Making</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19374806/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/26/opinion-chatroulette-is-a-disaster-in-the-making/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>ChatRoulette</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>School Calls Foul, Suspends Students Over Farmer Flap</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/weird-but-true/" rel="tag">Weird But True</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/bullying/" rel="tag">Bullying</a></p><br />
<strong>Apparently, agricultural workers all over the country should be offended: Nine Pennsylvania high school students were suspended after taunting the opposing team at a girls basketball game by dressing in farm clothes and sporting hats emblazoned with the John Deere logo.</strong><br />
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The students at <span><span><span>Our Lady of Lourdes Regional High School in Coal Township, Pa. <a href="http://www.dailyitem.com/0100_news/local_story_055234055.html" target="_blank">allegedly donned the getups</a> as an insult to students and players from </span></span></span><span><span><span>Tri-Valley High School in Hegins Township</span></span></span>. Supposedly, the teens were intimating that their opponents are just a bunch of farmers, the Daily Item reports.<span><span><span> Hegins Township has a population of 3,519, about one-third that of Coal Township, according to the Sunbury, Pa., newspaper.</span></span></span><br />
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<span><span><span>School administrator Sister Margaret McCullough tells the Item the students were not suspended for displaying their school spirit, but instead for flouting her orders.</span></span></span><span><span><span> </span></span></span><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>School Calls Foul, Suspends Students Over Farmer Flap</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.dailyitem.com/0100_news/local_story_055234055.html>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19373513/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/school-calls-foul-suspends-students-over-farmer-flap/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>basketball</category><category>Coal Township</category><category>CoalTownship</category><category>Farmers</category><category>pennsylvania</category><category>sports</category><category>suspended</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 16:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Sleep on This: Smarter Babies Take Naps, Study Shows</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/babies/" rel="tag">Babies</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/toddlers/" rel="tag">Toddlers</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/development/" rel="tag">Development</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a></p><div class="classy">
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<strong>Parents around the world rejoice -- you have yet another reason to love nap time. A new study shows that kids who sleep during the day develop advanced learning skills faster than their non-napping peers.<br />
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According to BusinessWeek, a study out of the University of Arizona reveals that <a target="_blank" href="http://www.businessweek.com/lifestyle/content/healthday/636280.html">babies who nap tend to exhibit an advanced learning skill</a> called "abstraction" -- or the ability to detect general patterns contained in new information.<br />
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Researchers played the same phrase from a made-up language to 48 15-month-olds until the kids were familiar with it. Follow-up testing showed that toddlers who slept within four to eight hours of hearing the phrases displayed evidence of abstract learning. The same did not hold true for babies who didn't take a nap within the same time frame.<br /><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Sleep on This: Smarter Babies Take Naps, Study Shows</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.businessweek.com/lifestyle/content/healthday/636280.html>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19373333/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/25/sleep-on-this-smarter-babies-take-naps-study-shows/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>babies sleep</category><category>BabiesSleep</category><category>nap time</category><category>naps</category><category>NapTime</category><category>research</category><category>sleeping</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>How Much Does It Cost to Raise a Child?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/kids-5-7/" rel="tag">Kids 5-7</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/kids-8-11/" rel="tag">Kids 8-11</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/money-and-work/" rel="tag">Money &amp; Work</a></p><div class="classy">
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<p>Child care costs can top $200,000 over a lifetime. Credit: <a target="_blank" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ejchang/3249416768/">sleepyneko</a>, Flickr</p>
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Before you forge ahead with your family planning, you might want to take note that the U.S. Department of Agriculture estimates the lifetime cost of raising a child is well over $200,000 -- and that doesn't even include the cost of a college education.<br />
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The agency offers an <a target="_blank" href="http://www.cnpp.usda.gov/calculatorintro.htm">online calculator to help couples plan for the cost</a> of having children. According to finance expert Eleanor K.H. Blayney, the annual cost of child-rearing for a married individual living in the Northeast is estimated to be approximately $27,000.<br />
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Blayney, a certified <a target="_blank" href="http://www.hokensongroup.com/board/eleanor_kh_blayney/">financial planner</a> with 20 years of experience, says it's important to note that the costs are estimated for a child up to the age of 17, so they do not include the price of a post-secondary education. <br />
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"The [Department of Agriculture] also estimates that for middle-income Americans, at 3 percent inflation, it costs $291,000 to raise a child from infancy through age 17," she says.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>How Much Does It Cost to Raise a Child?</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19233926/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>budget</category><category>evergreen</category><category>finances</category><category>financial-planning</category><category>money-</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 16:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>U.S. Secretary of Education Lauds Decision to Fire Entire School Staff</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens-and-tweens/" rel="tag">Teens &amp; Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a></p><br />
Superintendent Frances Gallo followed through on her <a target="_blank" href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/17/superintendent-to-teachers-youre-all-fired/">controversial plan to fire all the teachers</a> at Central Falls High School in Rhode Island Feb. 23,<strong> </strong>after the district and the teachers union failed to come to an agreement about how to fix the failing school -- and U.S. <span class="vitstorybody"><span class="vitstorybody">Education Secretary Arne Duncan lauded the decision.</span></span><br />
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The Central Falls school board backed Gallo up and <a target="_blank" href="http://www.projo.com/news/content/central_falls_trustees_vote_02-24-10_EOHI83C_v59.3c21342.html">voted 5 to 2 in favor of her plan to clean house</a>, the Providence Journal reports. Effective at the end of this school year, all 93 Central Falls staff members will be terminated, including c<span class="vitstorybody"><span class="vitstorybody">lassroom teachers, reading specialists, guidance counselors, physical education teachers, the school psychologist, the principal and three assistant principals.</span></span><br />
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According to the Journal, somewhere between 600 and 700 people -- many of them staunch union members -- came out to support the teachers, but to no avail. According to the Journal, George Nee, <span class="vitstorybody">president of the Rhode Island AFL-CIO,</span> told the rally crowd: <span class="vitstorybody"> "This is immoral, illegal, unjust, irresponsible, disgraceful and disrespectful. What is happening here tonight is the wrong thing ... and we're not going to put up with it." <br />
</span><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>U.S. Secretary of Education Lauds Decision to Fire Entire School Staff</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.projo.com/news/content/central_falls_trustees_vote_02-24-10_EOHI83C_v59.3c21342.html>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19371899/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/24/u-s-secretary-of-education-lauds-decision-to-fire-entire-school/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>Central Falls High School</category><category>CentralFallsHighSchool</category><category>frances gallo</category><category>FrancesGallo</category><category>Rhode Island</category><category>RhodeIsland</category><category>superintendent fires</category><category>SuperintendentFires</category><category>teachers</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 14:03:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>More Muslims Turn to Home Schooling</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/schools/" rel="tag">Education</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/religion-and-spirituality/" rel="tag">Religion &amp; Spirituality</a></p><strong><br />
More Muslim parents are turning to home-schooling for their children, in part because of issues their kids face in school as non-Christians.</strong><br />
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The Washington Post reports that while they may not outnumber the two million America Christians who home school, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/02/20/AR2010022001235.html?sid=ST2010022003283">more and more Muslims are embracing the option</a>. Parents including Maqsood and Zakia Khan say home schooling gives them the ability to incorporate their ethnic and religious traditions into their children's curriculum. <br />
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It also helps them avoid any uncomfortable moments in what would be a largely Western and Christian environment in their local public school. The Khans tell the Post they chose home schooling after an incident in which their son, then in kindergarten, was told by a teacher that he could not refuse school food over the Islamic-sanctioned school lunch he brought form home. <br />
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The Kahns, whose children are 15, 14 and 9, tell the Post that is just one of many issues Muslim kids face when they are the minority in the school environment. Christmas, Halloween, birthday parties, fasting during Ramadan and even not eating pork are all potential pitfalls for <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/01/muslim-parents-scrap-agreement-on-runaway-daughter/">Muslim</a> students, they say.<p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>More Muslims Turn to Home Schooling</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/02/20/AR2010022001235_2.html?sid=ST2010022003283>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19367975/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/more-muslims-turn-to-home-schooling/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>elementary school</category><category>ElementarySchool</category><category>faith</category><category>high schoo</category><category>HighSchoo</category><category>homeschool</category><category>HomeSchooled</category><category>homeschooling</category><category>middle schoo</category><category>MiddleSchoo</category><category>muslims</category><category>teens</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 13:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Mega-Fan Mom Rocks Her Labor At AC/DC Concert</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/newborns/" rel="tag">Newborns</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/pregnancy-and-birth/" rel="tag">Pregnancy &amp; Birth</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/weird-but-true/" rel="tag">Weird But True</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/extreme-childhood/" rel="tag">Extreme Childhood</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/amazing-parents/" rel="tag">Amazing Parents</a></p><br />
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<p>Brian Johnson and Angus Young of AC/DC perform on March 13, 2009 in Rotterdam, Netherlands. Credit: Rob Verhorst, Redferns / Getty Images</p>
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<strong> Nothing was going to stop Australian mom Samantha Williamson from rocking all night long at an AC/DC concert in Melbourne -- not even labor.</strong><br />
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Williamson is such a fan of the iconic heavy-metal group that <a target="_blank" href="http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/baby-angus-shook-me-all-night-long/story-e6frf7jo-1225830683512">she refused to leave the Feb. 6 show</a> at Etihad Stadium despite the fact that, well into her ninth month of pregnancy, she began having contractions in the middle of the performance when her impending bundle of joy apparently mistook the head-banging music for a lullabye.<br />
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But Williamson wasn't going to let anything stop her from rocking all night long with boyfriend Jason Mitchell.<br />
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"[The contractions] got really bad halfway through the show, during "Thunderstruck" and "Hells Bells," Mitchell tells the Sun. But this first-time mom rode the wave, refusing to leave the concert. She hung on until the last dance and then hopped in the car for a speedy 59-mile drive to her local hospital. <br /><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>Mega-Fan Mom Rocks Her Labor At AC/DC Concert</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/baby-angus-shook-me-all-night-long/story-e6frf7jo-1225830683512>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19365516/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/02/22/mega-fan-mom-rocks-her-labor-at-ac-dc-concert/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>ACDC</category><category>concert</category><category>melbourne</category><category>mom in labor</category><category>MomInLabor</category><dc:creator>Amy Hatch</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 09:00:00 EST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>