The author's sons, Alex and Nicolas, in simpler days. Credit: Jessica Barksdale InclanWhen my older son Alex was a child, he did everything bef...Alex is an anarchist. Nicolas aspires to be a police officer. They used to fight about it constantly. Now, they just don't speak at all. One mother's tale on how she copes.
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