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<generator>Blogsmith http://www.blogsmith.com/</generator><item><title>What To Do When Your Child 'Comes Out'</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/teens/" rel="tag">Teens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/gay-parenting/" rel="tag">Gay Parenting</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/sex/" rel="tag">Sex</a></p><div class="classy">
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Pam Bowers was devastated when her 21-year-old daughter told her she was gay.</strong><br />
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"I didn't know anything about gay people," the Salem, Ore. resident tells ParentDish.<br />
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Although her daughter's announcement came as a surprise to her, there were signs along the way that something was wrong.<br />
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"She had gotten really distant; I couldn't say anything without her snapping back," she says.<br />
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Bowers cried for two days.<br />
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"You have a picture in your head of who you think your child is going to be and it is shattered like a broken mirror."<br />
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So she sought out parents in similar situations, and eventually helped to form the Salem branch of <a target="_blank" href="http://community.pflag.org/Page.aspx?pid=194&amp;srcid=-2">Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays</a> (PFLAG). Being around parents going through the same thing allowed Bowers to accept and support her daughter and her sexuality.<br type="_moz" /><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/" rel="bookmark">Continue reading <em>What To Do When Your Child 'Comes Out'</em></a></p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19443523/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/06/01/what-to-do-when-your-child-comes-out/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>Gay Straight Alliance Closet Parents Kids Teens</category><category>GayStraightAllianceClosetParentsKidsTeens</category><dc:creator>Omie Drawhorn</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 16:00:00 EST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>