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You plan your work schedules, your vacations, your children's playdates, your weekend entertainment and pretty much every other event in your life, so why should it come as a surprise that you want you want to schedule your baby's delivery, too?<br />
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The problem, <a href="http://m.npr.org/news/front/138473097?singlePage=true" target="_blank">NPR reports</a>, is women are scheduling C-sections or being induced sometimes a few weeks before their baby's due date for reasons ranging from wanting their baby born on a specific date to just being sick and tired of being pregnant.<br />
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That's just not cool, experts tell the news source, pointing to studies that show infants who arrive before 39 weeks face a greater risk for health problems.<br />
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"It's now really well-documented in national studies that the risk of the baby having to require intensive care in a neonatal intensive care unit - even the risk of infant death - is increased when the baby is born as little as two weeks before the due date," Ed Donovan, a pediatrician at Cincinnati Children's Hospital, tells NPR.<br />
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A woman's projected due date is can be two weeks off, according to the news source, meaning a baby born at 37 weeks may really only be 35 weeks along. Also, Donovan tells NPR, not all babies develop at the same rate.<br />
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"Just because the lungs are mature doesn't mean that the other organ systems are mature," he tells NPR. "A baby born three weeks early with mature lungs may not be ready to eat because the brain's not fully developed."<br />
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So the message here? As a current March of Dimes campaign states, "Healthy babies are worth the wait."<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/22/wait-it-out-babies-born-before-39-weeks-face-health-risks-expe/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19998040/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/22/wait-it-out-babies-born-before-39-weeks-face-health-risks-expe/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>c-sections</category><category>induced labor</category><category>labor and delivery</category><category>planned birth</category><category>pregnancy</category><category>pregnancy health</category><category>scheduled birth</category><dc:creator>Lesley Kennedy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 13:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Really, Really Big Baby Weighs in at 16 Pounds</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/11/really-big-baby-weighs-in-at-16-pounds/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/11/really-big-baby-weighs-in-at-16-pounds/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/11/really-big-baby-weighs-in-at-16-pounds/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><object classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=10,0,0,0" height="387" id="msnbc6cb09" width="585"><param name="movie" value="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32545640" /><param name="FlashVars" value="launch=43710550&amp;width=585&amp;height=387" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><embed allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" flashvars="launch=43710550&amp;width=585&amp;height=387" height="387" name="msnbc6cb09" pluginspage="http://www.adobe.com/shockwave/download/download.cgi?P1_Prod_Version=ShockwaveFlash" src="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/32545640" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="585" wmode="transparent"></embed></object><br />
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There are big babies. And then there are really big babies. And then there's JaMichael Brown.<br />
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Born July 8 at Good Shepherd Hospital in Longview, Texas, the boy weighed a whopping 16 pounds, one ounce at birth, <a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/43710550#43710550" target="_blank">"Today" reports</a>.<br />
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Setting a hospital record, JaMichael was born via cesarean section and measures two-feet tall, according to the news show.<br />
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"They (the doctors) think he's going to be fine," his mother, Janet Johnson, who had gestational diabetes during her pregnancy, tells "Today."<br />
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They boy's father, Michael Brown, who is six-feet, six-inches tall, himself, tells "Today" JaMichael may have a future in basketball.<br />
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"I was just amazed when he came out -- I mean, how big he was," Brown tells the news show.<br />
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<a href="http://www.cbs19.tv/story/15049056/16-pound-baby-born-at-good-shepherd-said-to-be-hospitals-biggest-ever" target="_blank">KYTX, the local CBS affiliate</a>, reports the boy was predicted to weigh 12 or 13 pounds.<br />
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According to the station, hospital staff is unsure whether JaMichael's weight earns a state record, but they have yet to find documentation of a baby who weighed more in Texas. The world record, KYTX says, is 23 pounds, 12 ounces.<br />
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So much for the cute baby clothes the couple received at JaMichael's baby shower.<br />
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"A lot of the stuff that we bought him is too little, so we're gonna have to exchange a lot of stuff," Johnson tells "Today."<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/11/really-big-baby-weighs-in-at-16-pounds/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19988042/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/07/11/really-big-baby-weighs-in-at-16-pounds/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>16 pound baby</category><category>big baby</category><category>jamichael brown</category><category>record baby</category><dc:creator>Lesley Kennedy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2011 11:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Investing in More Midwives Could Help Save Lives, UN Study Finds</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/20/midwives-could-help-save-lives/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/20/midwives-could-help-save-lives/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/20/midwives-could-help-save-lives/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/research-reveals-babies/" rel="tag">Research Reveals: Babies</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/pregnancy-health/" rel="tag">Pregnancy Health</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/research-reveals-pregnancy/" rel="tag">Research Reveals</a></p><div class="classy">
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Midwives don't only deliver babies, they can deliver health services to women, as well, something that could affect newborn and maternal deaths worldwide, the Associated Press reports.<br />
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According to the news service, a United Nations Population Fund study of 58 countries<br />
identified as "suffering from a crisis in human resources for health," shows <a href="http://www.sacbee.com/2011/06/20/3713170/un-calls-for-more-better-trained.html" target="_blank">midwives should be respected</a> and invested in by governments and donors.<br />
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"We have now realized that there is a huge potential in the hands of the midwives that was not being exploited," Dr. Vincent Fauveau, who coordinated the study, tells AP, adding that midwives can assist women with birth control services.<br />
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Some of the study's findings, according to the news service, include:<br />
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Fauveau tells AP investing in more clinics is also essential and that war, poverty and hunger serve as other dangers for women and kids.<br />
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"The revolution will not take place in a few months or a few years," he tells the news service. "It's a long-term strategy."<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/20/midwives-could-help-save-lives/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19971587/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/20/midwives-could-help-save-lives/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>maternal mortality</category><category>midwives</category><category>newborn deaths</category><category>population fund study</category><category>united nations</category><dc:creator>Lesley Kennedy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 14:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Even 'Full-Term' Babies Born at  37 Weeks Face Health Risks, Study Finds</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/31/full-term-pregnancy/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/31/full-term-pregnancy/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/31/full-term-pregnancy/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/pregnancy-health/" rel="tag">Pregnancy Health</a></p><div class="classy">
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Trust us, we know how excruciating that last month of pregnancy can be. We waddled on long walks, bounced on exercise balls and ate plenty of spicy food in hopes of coaxing that baby out early.<br />
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But a new study shows waiting to deliver as long as possible significantly decreases risks for your newborn, <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/31/health/research/31childbirth.html?_r=1" target="_blank">The New York Times</a> reports.<br />
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Typically, when a pregnancy lasts 37 weeks, it's considered full-term, according to the newspaper, but a report from the National Institutes of Health, the Food and Drug Administration and the March of Dimes shows a baby born in the 37th or 38th week has a higher risk of dying in his or her first year than a baby born after 39 weeks.<br />
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Published last week in <a href="http://journals.lww.com/greenjournal/pages/default.aspx" target="_blank">Obstetrics &amp; Gynecology</a>, the study looked at more than 46 million babies born between 1995 and 2006 in the United States, The Times reports. In 2006, children born at 37 weeks had double the death rate in the first year of life (3.9 deaths per 1,000 births) than babies born at 40 weeks (1.9 deaths per 1,000 births).<br />
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Additionally, researchers report the number of babies born during that time period before 39 weeks rose from about one in three births to more than one in five births, according to the newspaper.<br />
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"Women need to know that all 'term' pregnancies are not alike," Dr. Uma M. Reddy, lead author of the study, tells The Times. "If the pregnancy is uncomplicated, babies should not be delivered before 39 weeks."<br />
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You totally planned getting pregnant. You mapped out the nursery months in advance. You've already lined up interviews with preschools. So, why shouldn't you get that baby's delivery scheduled on the books, too?<br />
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There's no denying, <a href="http://moms.today.com/_news/2011/05/23/6700320-too-posh-to-push-c-sections-rise-with-social-status" target="_blank">elective C-sections</a> are gaining in popularity -- especially among affluent women "Today" reports. In fact, the procedure is the most common major surgery in the United States, according to the news show, and about one-third of American babies are delivered via C-section.<br />
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The World Health Organization, however, finds that number concerning, saying just 5 to 15 percent of deliveries should require the surgery. So, "Today" reports, researchers looked at the social classes of moms of babies born via C-section in Scotland over 20 years, and found that while elective C-sections were provided for mostly lower-class women in the early '80s, in the early 2000s, it was upper-class moms who opted to schedule their deliveries.<br />
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Not all experts say it's a bad thing, though.<br />
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"It might be that women who are from more affluent areas might also have more education and they're asking their doctors more pointed questions that make an elective C-section the right thing for a particular patient," Dr. Shari Lawson, an obstetrician with Johns Hopkins Bayview Hospital, tells "Today."<br />
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The news show adds women giving birth at an older age, obesity and high blood pressure may factor into the decision to have an elective C-section.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/24/is-the-global-rise-in-elective-c-sections-tied-to-social-class/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19948708/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/24/is-the-global-rise-in-elective-c-sections-tied-to-social-class/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>c-section</category><category>delivery</category><category>elective c-section</category><category>pregnancy</category><dc:creator>Lesley Kennedy</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 11:15:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Number of Home Births Increasing in the U.S.</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/23/home-births-increasing/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/23/home-births-increasing/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/05/23/home-births-increasing/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><div class="classy">
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More and more babies are being born at home for reasons ranging from the philosophical to the financial.<br />
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"Women may prefer <a href="http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2011/05/20/home-births-at-highest-level-since-1990/?hpt=Sbin" target="_blank">a home over a hospital birth</a> for a variety of reasons including a desire for a low intervention birth in a familiar environment surrounded by family and friends," Marian MacDorman, of the National Center for Health Statistics at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, tells CNN. "Cultural or religious concerns, lack of transportation in rural areas and cost factors may also play a role as total costs for home births are about a third those for a hospital birth."<br />
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MacDorman tells the network home births in the United States are at their highest level since 1990.<br />
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She led a study that found the number of home births shot up 20 percent between 2004 and 2008. That's mostly due to a 94 percent increase in home births among white women.<br />
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MacDorman tells CNN the risks that go along with home births have also decreased in recent years.<br />
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"It might mean home birth midwives and practitioners are doing a better job of selecting low-risk women for home births," she tells the network.<br />
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Nonetheless, she adds, some women still need to go to hospitals -- especially when they are older than 40, heavier than 300 pounds or have high blood pressure or diabetes<br />
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CNN reports the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists issued a statement in January that says the risks of planned home births are low, but home births are still two-to-three times more likely than hospital births to result in dead newborns.<br />
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"As physicians, we have an obligation to provide families with information about the risks, benefits, limitations and advantages concerning the different maternity care providers and birth settings," association President Richard Waldman tells CNN. "It's important to remember that home births don't always go well, and the risk is higher if they are attended by inadequately trained attendants or in poorly selected patients with serious high-risk medical conditions such as hypertension, breech presentation, or prior cesarean deliveries."<br />
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Stillborn births are one of those hush-hush tragedies families often don't talk about. Now, adding to the trauma and pain, researchers have discovered that more than half of stillbirths worldwide could be avoided with proper medical care.<br />
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Calling it "a global health issue," researchers say more than 2.6 million pregnancies end in stillbirths each year -- more deaths worldwide than AIDS and malaria combined, <a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/04/13/us-stillbirth-idUSTRE73C85120110413" target="_blank">Reuters</a> reports.<br />
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Every day, more than 7,200 babies are stillborn, and 98 percent of them occur in low- and middle-income countries, according to a <a href="http://www.who.int/en/" target="_blank">release</a> from the World Health Organization, which co-sponsored the study. High-income countries are not immune, either, with one in 320 babies stillborn -- a rate that has changed little in the past decade.<br />
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"It's a scandal there are so many stillbirths that can be prevented," Joy Lawn, director of global evidence and policy at <a href="http://www.savethechildren.net/alliance/where_we_work/AS/mapSF.html" target="_blank">Save the Children in South Africa</a> who led the <a href="http://www.thelancet.com/" target="_blank">Lancet</a> study, tells <a href="http://yourlife.usatoday.com/parenting-family/pregnancy/story/2011/04/Study-2-million-babies-stillborn-every-year/46073888/1" target="_blank">USA Today</a>. Politics surrounding public health have pushed stillborns to the back burner, sidelined by maternal and child health programs, she adds.<br />
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The stillbirth rate varies sharply by country, from the lowest rates of 2 per 1,000 births in Finland and Singapore and 2.2 per 1,000 births in Denmark and Norway, to highs of 47 in Pakistan and 42 in Nigeria, 36 in Bangladesh, and 34 in Djibouti and Senegal, according to the World Health release. Rates also vary widely within countries. In India, for example, rates range from 20 to 66 per 1,000 births in different states.<br />
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Researchers hope the findings will lead to sweeping health care policies surrounding stillborn births, Flavia Bustreo, of the World Health Organization, tells USA Today.<br />
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"Stillbirth is a heartbreaking loss for women and families," she tells the newspaper. "We need to acknowledge these losses and do everything we can to prevent them."<br />
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		Home Birth? Here's Why You're Wrong to Choose One</h4>
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	<strong>by Tom Henderson</strong><br />
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	First of all, ladies, let it be known I have no dog in this fight. As a male, I will never personally experience (thank you, Lord) the miracle that is childbirth.<br />
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	Plus, returning to the dog metaphor, my previous owner had me neutered.<br />
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	Thus, my familiarity with the birthing process begins and ends with the remake of "The Exorcist" my ex-wife performed when she was in labor with our son. I will never go through that again, so far be it from me to tell you how to bring forth new life.<br />
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	Instead, I will merely ask a a couple of simple questions. First, do you want to give birth at home? And if so, are you feather-plucking insane?!<br />
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	I know women have many reasons for opting for home births. I used to serve on the board of a clinic that included midwifery services. The at-home midwives and doulas were great people for whom I have tremendous respect. I just don't understand why anyone would use their services -- at least at home.<br />
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	So I did some research. Here are <a href="http://www.care2.com/greenliving/35-reasons-to-choose-a-home-birth.html#ixzz1EofJjubU" target="_blank">some of the reasons</a> to choose a home birth. Let's examine a few of them, shall we?<br />
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	<strong>1. Your home is cleaner than a hospital.</strong><br />
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	This is supposedly because hospitals are full of yucky germs and sick people. Your house is clean and sparkly. <em>Riiight</em> -- if you're an obsessive-compulsive neat freak who sterilizes her kitchen utensils in an autoclave.<br />
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	Hospitals are a lot cleaner than your house. Trust me. This is why the authorities get a little testy if you perform brain surgery in your kitchen.<br />
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	<strong>2. Your chances of getting a C-section are reduced with a home birth.</strong><br />
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	Your doctor isn't going to perform a C-section because she really wants to try out her new Swiss Army Knife. If she says you need a C-section, trust her. The situation is serious. This is not the time for a wait-and-see attitude. You need to be cut open, and the best place to be cut open is a hospital.<br />
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		<strong>Why I Chose to Stay at Home and Have My Baby</strong></h4>
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	<strong>by Denise Cortes of <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/" target="_blank">BabyCenter</a><br />
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	When I was about to give birth to my first child, I remember my OB walking into the delivery room, crossing her arms over her chest magnanimously and announcing, "OK. I'm here. Now you can have this baby!" Then she stretched out her arms so the nurse could slip on her gown and tie the mask to her face like she was <a href="http://www.hulu.com/watch/97800/saturday-night-live-james-browns-celebrity-hot-tub-party" target="_blank">James <em>freaking</em> Brown</a> or something. All she needed was a nurse to dab her sweat.<br />
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	Meanwhile, I was laying there spread-eagled, my feet up in the stirrups with a baby practically dangling from my lady parts. Not the most dignified of positions.<br />
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	I told myself I would <em>never</em> allow that to happen again. But it did, 15 months later. This time, the nurse peeked under the sheet to see what all the fuss was about after she heard me panting like a wild boar.<br />
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	"Oh!"<br />
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	"I have to push, <em>now!</em>"<br />
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	"Honey, you have to wait until the doctor gets here. Don't make me deliver this baby!"<br />
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	So we spent the next 15 minutes or so with me doing my wild boar impersonation and the nurse holding my baby's head between my legs until the doctor walked in and my baby shot out like a rocket.<br />
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	That is when I started researching home birth.<br />
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	I didn't have movies like "<a href="http://www.thebusinessofbeingborn.com/" target="_blank">The Business of Being Born</a>" to help me form my opinion, or to educate me with statistics about how safe home birth was, and how harmful unnecessary medical intervention was. It was little old <em>me</em>, the library, various search engines, <a href="http://www.waterbirth.org/mc/page.do?sitePageId=38540" target="_blank">Barbara Harper's</a> "<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Gentle-Birth-Choices-Barbara-Harper/dp/1594770670" target="_blank">Gentle Birth Choices</a>," my raggedy copies of "<a href="http://www.compleatmother.com/" target="_blank">The Compleat Mother</a>," my heartfelt convictions and my dreams of a natural childbirth (preferably in the water). <em>Where were you </em><a href="http://blogs.babycenter.com/author/rlake1/" target="_blank"><em>Ricki Lake</em></a><em>, back in 2000?</em> People just didn't have home births. And if you did, you were on the fringes of society. People thought I was crazy.<br />
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	But I wasn't crazy. <em>I was finally making sense.</em><br />
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	<a href="http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/smackdown-would-you-choose-a-home-birth/" target="_blank">Click here to read the rest of the SmackDown on BabyCenter</a>.<br />
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	Related: <em><a href="http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/silent-birth-holy-crap-2/" target="_blank">Silent childbirth? Holy crap!</a></em><br />
	Related: <em><a href="http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/whos-afraid-of-childbirth/" target="_blank">When women fear childbirth</a></em><br />
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New parents who think their infant has the cutest little baby face -- and are eager to post in on <a href="http://www.youtube.com" target="_blank">YouTube</a> for the world to see seconds after delivery -- may be forced to delay their baby's stardom, as a growing number of hospitals are pulling the plug on videotaping in the birthing room.<br />
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Blame it on malpractice lawyers, but hospitals across the country are facing the tough decision of whether or not to ban cameras that can track every nuance of the delivery (and provide detailed evidence of any possible wrong-doing), <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/03/us/03birth.html" target="_blank">The New York Times</a> reports.<br />
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In a 2007 case, for example, the <a href="http://www.uillinoismedcenter.org/Find_a_Doctor.html " target="_blank">University of Illinois Medical Center</a> was forced to pay $2.3 million after a video showed a nurse using excessive force, according to The Times.<br />
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A growing number of hospitals have begun banning the practice of videotaping, citing the distractions it causes in the delivery room, not to mention the fact that physicians and nurses aren't too keen about popping up on YouTube or <a href="http://www.facebook.com" target="_blank">Facebook</a>, the newspaper says, reporting that one physician likened the experience to "a media circus."<br />
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But hospitals report they are getting push back from parents who claim it is their parental right to capture the moment on tape.<br />
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"It's my child," Laurie Shifler tells The Times. "Who can tell me I can take a picture or not take a picture of my own flesh and blood?"<br />
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Expecting her eighth child, Shifler says tells the newspaper she was so upset about her hospital's policy to ban videotaping that she started an online petition, getting hundreds of signatures from supporters.<br />
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Physicians, however, say the issue is not about rights, but rather the health and safety of the baby and mother, along with protecting the privacy of the medical staff.<br />
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"Deliveries are complicated. I'm not a baseball catcher with a mitt, just catching a baby," Dr. William C. Hamilton, chairman of obstetrics at <a href="http://www.meritushealth.com/" target="_blank">Meritus Medical Center</a>, which bars photos at birth, tells The Times.<br />
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The Hagerstown, Md. hospital bars all pictures and videos, plus cell phones must be turned off during the births, the newspaper reports. Photo shoots must wait until the baby has been delivered safely, as declared by the medical team.<br />
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Mike Matray, editor of <a href="http://www.medicalliabilitymonitor.com" target="_blank">the Medical Liability Monitor</a>, a newsletter based in Chicago, tells The Times the issue is heating up at hospitals.<br />
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"I have certainly heard this issue discussed more often than I ever have previously," he says. "And it's certainly true that some risk managers in hospitals are advising doctors to stop allowing video in the delivery room."<br />
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But many other hospitals are taking the opposite approach and accommodating families (except during cesarean sections or if complications arise). <a href="http://www.stlukesonline.org/boise/" target="_blank">St. Luke's Boise Medical Center</a> in Idaho, which serves a large military population, even uses <a href="http://www.Skype.com" target="_blank">Skype</a> to connect mothers with soldier-fathers overseas.<br />
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		Although most healthcare providers recommend that <a href="http://www.acog.org/from_home/publications/press_releases/nr09-21-09.cfm" target="_blank">pregnant women stop traveling</a> between 36 and 38 weeks, it's worth asking your caregiver if you're interested in <a href="http://wwwnc.cdc.gov/travel/yellowbook/2010/chapter-8/traveling-while-pregnant.aspx" target="_blank">taking a trip</a> when you're in your third trimester.</div>
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	Most practitioners will make a decision based on an individual's health and pregnancy, says Dr. Melissa Goist, an obstetrician and assistant professor at <a href="http://www.osu.edu/" target="_blank">The Ohio State University</a> in Columbus, Ohio.<br />
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	"Flying or long (car) trips are not significant health risks," she says.<br />
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	The real risk of traveling late in pregnancy is being away from your caregiver, says Leslie Ludka, a nurse-midwife and director of the <a href="http://www.cha.harvard.edu/ob_gyn/birth_center_midwives.shtml" target="_blank">Cambridge Birth Center</a> in Massachusetts.<br />
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	"There's a chance of not being in the place where they want to deliver," she says. "That's the biggest risk."<br />
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	The concern is greater if a patient is taking a cruise, because she may be at sea for long periods of time and because many ships visit developing countries, Goist says. Most cruises stop pregnant women from traveling after their 24th week of pregnancy, she says.<br />
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	If you do plan to take a cruise, find out what kind of medical care the ship offers, Ludka advises.<br />
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	As for car or plane trip in your third trimester, it's important not to stay too sedentary, both experts say. Whether riding in a car or sitting on a plane, move around as much as possible. Staying active is easier by car because you can stop somewhere and take a short walk. If you're on a plane, try walking in the aisles or flex your legs, Goist suggests. She also recommends wearing support hose to prevent any circulation issues or blood clots.<br />
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	It's also important to drink plenty of fluids while traveling, Goist says. She recommends drinking water and juice because it will hydrate you better than coffee or soda.<br />
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	Before leaving for a trip, determine where you would go for medical care if your labor should start while you're away from home. It's also a good idea to ask your doctor or midwife to provide you with a copy of your medical chart or other relevant medical information. The information will be useful to a practitioner if labor begins while you're gone, or if you need medical assistance.<br />
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	Throughout her pregnancy, Andrea Page set aside time each day to visualize her upcoming birth and delivery and practice relaxed breathing techniques.<br />
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	"I visualized my cervix opening like a flower and the baby easily passing through," the 31-year-old Edmonton, Alberta radiation therapist tells ParentDish. "I was determined to let go of all fears surrounding labor and pain so that this was a blissful and wonderful experience."<br />
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	An avid yoga and daily meditation practitioner, Page wanted the birth of her first child to be as natural and trauma-free as possible. So last October 11, after several hours of focusing on hypnosis techniques from a CD and book, which she had religiously practiced throughout her pregnancy, she gave birth to a 9 lb. 2 oz. baby boy, Taio.<br />
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	"The contractions were so intense and the urge to push very strong, but I focused on the hypnosis throughout the entire process," she tells ParentDish. "Taio came out gently and non-traumatically and then fed for nearly an hour. He is a calm baby, sensitive, loving and affectionate. I fully believe the birth experience (and obviously the pregnancy) pave the way for the child's development. "<br />
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	Page is one of a growing number of moms-to-be who are opting for one of the newest trends to hit the birthing education front: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/09/hypnobirthing/">Hypnobirthing</a>.<br />
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	The practice incorporates hypnosis, and breathing and relaxation exercises into childbirth and is designed to help moms relax on demand and avoid dwelling on the pain during labor and delivery, Cindy Fahey, executive director for with the California-based <a href="http://paclac.org/" target="_blank">Perinatal Advisory Council </a>(PAC/LAC), tells ParentDish.<br />
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	Fahey and other experts say that hypnosis during childbirth allows women to consider other alternatives to pain medication and epidurals.<!--START POLL CODE--><br />
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	"The greatest challenge in childbirth education is overcoming the assumption that an epidural is the only and best approach," says Fahey. "Rather, this empowers women to educate themselves in the birth process and investigate natural pain management."<br />
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	The concept is simple and a lot like hypnosis for smoking, weight loss and breaking other bad habits, Fahey adds. Costs for the courses range from about $140 for home kits and CDs to $500 for the growing classes, she says.<br />
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	Early in her pregnancy, Page says she was ecstatic when she heard about the option of hypnosis during the labor and delivery of her first child.<br />
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	"As a mother I wanted to give my son the best possible opportunity for love and balance from the beginning, Page, who writes the blog <a href="http://ourzenfamily.com/ " target="_blank">Our Zen Family</a>, tells ParentDish.<br />
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	"I didn't have a specific mantra per se, in words anyway," says Page. "My mantra was focused more on letting my body do as it so cleverly knew how. I rode the waves of contractions, each time visualizing the baby moving farther down in my pelvis. I silently sent words of praise and love to the unborn child."<br />
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	Practitioners say that a hypnotic state is not necessarily a trance and that there are different levels of being hypnotized and ways to achieve a hypnotic state. Some women bring in hypnotists to the birth, others have practiced hypnosis with their partners, who then serve as coaches during the labor and delivery, says Fahey.<br />
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	"Clinton, my partner, said many words of encouragement throughout the delivery, so I was able to achieve a self-hypnotic state quickly and calmly," says Page. "Breathing was a huge part of the process and entirely relaxing my mind and body."<br />
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	Clinton, who operates an outdoor fitness company, jokes that hypnobirthing makes childbirth "damn easy," Page tells ParentDish. "Seriously, he says it was an incredible experience made easier because of the hypnosis," Page says. And, she adds: "The midwives praised us (mostly me!) for how calm and relaxed we were throughout labor and delivery. "<br />
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	Increasingly, medical practitioners are welcoming hypnobirthing in their delivery rooms, says Fahey.<br />
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	"Many women under-prepare for childbirth, so most nurses are happy to see that preparation of any sort (including hypnobirthing) has taken place," says Fahey.<br />
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	The concept of <a href="http://hypnobirthing.com/" target="_blank">HypnoBirthing LLC </a>was started in Chichester, N.H., in the early 1990s by Marie Mongan, a former college counselor trained in hypnotherapy and author of the book "<a href="http://www.amazon.com/HypnoBirthing-natural-approach-comfortable-birthing/dp/0757302661/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1294743290&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank">HypnoBirthing</a>," according to the organization's website.<br />
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	Today, more than 1,300 certified "Mongan Method" instructors guide couples through visualization sequences like "opening rose" and "rainbow relaxation," to be used during delivery, the Mongan website reports.<br />
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	Fahey, also a nurse, says a semi-hypnosis state naturally happens in most natural childbirths. "Hypnobirthing's greatest asset is the opportunity to get the women in touch with her body, which typically allows for a smoother delivery," Fahey tells ParentDish.<br />
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	Fahey says the practice is especially popular with runners and other athletes who are used to training their bodies to prepare for an athletic event, and take the same approach to childbirth.<br />
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	"They recognize the opportunity to prepare for childbirth in a focused manner and are more likely to seek programs and classes such as hypnobirthing, Lamaze and the Bradley method," says Fahey.<br />
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	"My hope is that, in time, women will realize that they can be more in control of their childbirth, and that an epidural is not the only pain management option."<br />
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	And, it's not just something prospective moms are doing to prepare for baby.<br />
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	Ben Broner, a recently retired Birmingham, AL-based physician tells Parent Dish he drew dads-to-be-into the hypnobirthing training sessions, much like dads are involved in Lamaze.<br />
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	"I would have the husband attend the second and third sessions so that he could learn the technique to use during labor," says Broner.<br />
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	Bev Flaxington tells ParentDish that hypnobirthing was her lifeline during a tense birth experience with one of her three children.<br />
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	"My son was born at home 10.4 lbs. and stuck under my hip bone," says Flaxington. "I was cut and sewn with no drugs thanks to hypnobirthing."<br />
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	But <a href="http://www.TheHealthyAdvocate.com " target="_blank">Brandon May</a>, a hypnotist, cautions that hypnosis during childbirth is not for everyone.<br />
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	"There was one woman I know who went through a hypnobirth without any drugs and didn't seem to flinch when she was asked to push," says May. But this is not recommended for everyone. Some people may be unresponsive to the hypnosis session if they are not fully engaged in the hypnosis process."</div><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/11/hypnobirthing/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19790668/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/11/hypnobirthing/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>epidural</category><category>hypnobirthing</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 08:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Hospitals Push for Full-Term Deliveries to Improve Baby's Health</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/10/hospitals-push-for-full-term-deliveries-to-improve-babys-health/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/10/hospitals-push-for-full-term-deliveries-to-improve-babys-health/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/10/hospitals-push-for-full-term-deliveries-to-improve-babys-health/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><div class="classy">
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			Experts say delivering at full-term can help prevent complications for Mom and baby. Credit: Sam Yeh, AFP/Getty Images</p>
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Considering an early delivery for scheduling or other non-medical purposes? It may be best to wait.<br />
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According to the <a href="http://www.marchofdimes.com/pregnancy/csection_lastweeks.html" target="_blank">March of Dimes</a>, a nonprofit that focuses on preventing birth defects and infant mortality, experts are discovering that early births scheduled for non-medical reasons can cause problems for both the mother and the baby.<br />
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That's why the organization is conducting a pilot program at hospitals around the United States, including six Illinois medical centers, working to put an end to elective deliveries before 39 weeks of pregnancy, the <a href="http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/3192046-418/hospital-edward-medical-weeks-baby.html" target="_blank">Chicago Sun Times</a> reports.<br />
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The March of Dimes says being pregnant for 39 weeks gives a baby's body all the time it needs to grow so that:<br />
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		Vision or hearing problems after birth are less likely.</li>
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		The baby will gain more weight before birth and therefore have an easier time staying warm than a baby who is born too small.</li>
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		The baby can suck and swallow and stay awake long enough to eat after birth, which babies born early sometimes can't do.</li>
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In addition, full-term births help keep medical costs down, as the typical hospital bill goes up tenfold when a baby is in the newborn intensive care unit, according to the Sun Times.<br />
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<a href="http://www.edward.org/default.cfm" target="_blank">Edward Hospital</a> in Naperville, Ill., and the <a href="http://uillinoismedcenter.org/" target="_blank">University of Illinois Medical Center</a> in Chicago are two of the medical centers chosen to participate in the March of Dimes pilot program, the newspaper reports.<br />
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About 3,500 babies are delivered each year at Edward, with 28 percent taking place before 39 weeks of gestation. Half of those births are elective, Pat Bradley, the hospital's obstetrics director, tells the Sun Times.<br />
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"The longer the baby can stay in, the better it is, as long as there is no medical reason to do otherwise," Bradley tells the newspaper.<br />
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An early delivery may be requested for various reasons, such as a father leaving town or being deployed by the military, or a mom may want to use a particular doctor for delivery or put an end to pregnancy-related discomfort. Others may have to juggle child care or other family responsibilities, the Sun Times reports.<br />
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Dennis Crouse, director of the neonatal intensive care unit at the University of Illinois Medical Center and chairman of the committee that oversees the March of Dimes project, tells the Sun Times that while the medical community previously thought it was OK to deliver a baby a few weeks early, recent research indicates otherwise.<br />
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"These infants have a much higher risk of being admitted to the intensive care unit," Crouse tells the newspaper. "They have a much higher risk of having respiratory disease. Their hospital stays are usually much longer. It interferes with breast-feeding. And there is evidence long-term these infants may have an increased risk of some neurological issues."<br />
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The Edward program makes use of a March of Dimes kit with educational materials that help ensure inductions and C-sections are performed at the right time and for the right reasons. Hospital staff have incorporated these materials into prenatal classes and have posted them on the Edward website, and physicians are making them available in their offices, the Sun Times reports.<br />
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Dr. Peter Weeks, medical director of obstetrics and gynecology at Edward, tells the newspaper that since the introduction of the March of Dimes educational materials, doctors have been changing their behaviors and informing patients about the benefits of staying pregnant longer.<br />
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Based on data from these hospitals, participants in the 2011 March of Dimes project can expect to reduce pre-term births and admissions to a neonatal intensive care unit by 15 percent to 20 percent, Crouse tells the Sun Times.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/10/hospitals-push-for-full-term-deliveries-to-improve-babys-health/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19794775/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/10/hospitals-push-for-full-term-deliveries-to-improve-babys-health/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>birth</category><category>c-section</category><category>delivery</category><category>marchofdimes</category><category>pregnancy</category><category>premature babies</category><category>PrematureBabies</category><dc:creator>Honey Berk</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2011 13:45:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Guess Who Shouldn't Be Coming for Dinner: Etiquette Tips for New Baby Visits</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/guess-who-shouldnt-be-coming-for-dinner-etiquette-tips-for-new/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/guess-who-shouldnt-be-coming-for-dinner-etiquette-tips-for-new/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/guess-who-shouldnt-be-coming-for-dinner-etiquette-tips-for-new/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/expert-advice-family-time/" rel="tag">Expert Advice: Family Time</a></p><div class="classy">
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			Make sure a new mom wants visitors before you head to the hospital. Credit: Getty</p>
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An offer from friends to deliver dinner following the birth of her now 4-year-old daughter sounded fabulous, Jaimie Franchi recalls. But the enticing promise quickly morphed into a culinary disaster, not to mention a major Ms. Manners faux pas.<br />
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The "chefs" showed up at her front door sans piping hot meal and promptly headed to Franchi's kitchen, raiding her cabinets for pots and pans and turning what she had envisioned as a simple hot casserole doorstep delivery into a two-hour meal preparation, leaving her sink filled with a giant pasta sauce mess.<br />
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"It was a nightmare," Franchi, a Montreal <a href="http://twochicksandahen.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">writer</a> and single mother of two, tells ParentDish. "At 9:30 p.m., after sitting down to eat what they cooked, they got up and said, 'OK, since we did all the cooking, we'll leave the cleaning for you.' I sat there with my newborn, exhausted beyond belief, watching these people walk out the door and thinking what a massive inconvenience their 'help' was to me."<br />
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Welcome to the front lines of "New Baby Meets the Invasion of Clueless Visitors."<br />
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Think "<a href="http://www.moviefone.com/movie/national-lampoons-christmas-vacation/17543/main" target="_blank">National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation</a>," when Cousin Eddie and his wife pull up in an old clunker of an RV with their children Rocky and Ruby Sue and Snots, the family dog. Only worse, it's your mother-in-law, the entire clan and some random neighbors with infectious diseases who feel compelled to race to the hospital nursery when the first tweet announces your contractions are five minutes apart.<br />
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Or, they camp out in your living room for the duration of the postpartum experience "helping" you by sneezing all over your infant and raiding your refrigerator, sleep time and patience.<br />
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Just ask Rebeca Simpson Holloway. She vividly recalls when, less than 12 hours after her son was born, all of her in-laws "descended on my tiny hospital room all at once," she tells ParentDish.<br />
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The roster included her mother-in-law, her second husband and his 3-year-old grandson, her father-in-law and his second wife and her husband's cousin and <em>her</em> husband -- all arriving for an impromptu bedside visit.<br />
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"I was less than thrilled," says Holloway, an Indianapolis mom of two boys, ages 3 and 3 months, who runs the website <a href="http://AverageParent.com" target="_blank">The Average Parent</a>.<br />
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"The trend," of unannounced arrivals seemed to continue for weeks, she says. "Considering that I was recovering from a C-section, I was a bit peeved by their lack of consideration."<br />
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Holloway says it would have been helpful if "they came with meals or stopped by the house to help fold laundry or something. But, essentially, all they did was sit and occupy precious time that could have been spent sleeping."<br />
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To help make new baby visits less dysfunctional and allow for more precious moments, ParentDish asked new parents and experts for some advice.<br />
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<strong>1. "Wait to be invited,"</strong> etiquette coach <a href="http://www.LearnSocialGraces.com" target="_blank">Constance Hoffman</a> tells ParentDish. And, "don't ask personal questions regarding the birthing experience."<br />
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This is the Golden Rule, Richie Frieman, the <a href="http://www.QuickAndDirtyTips.com" target="_blank">Modern Manners Guy</a>, tells ParentDish.<br />
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"Do not do the old drop-in by landing on their doorstep and saying 'Hey, I was just in the area and thought I'd stop by.' Not only are drop-ins improper, but when it comes to the chaos of dealing with a new baby, timing is key. Plus, you do not want to be the one that rings the doorbell and wakes the baby up."<br />
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<strong>2. "Make visits short and sweet</strong>, knowing ahead of time that you will stay no more than an hour," Franchi says.<br />
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<strong>3. Know stuff happens.</strong> "Expect the unexpected -- body functions that is," Frieman says. "Don't think that the baby won't throw up, spit up, sneeze or mess their diaper when you are holding them. If you can't handle some spit up, you might be better off Skyping."<br />
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<strong>4. Offer a hand.</strong> "When you have had less than two hours of sleep in the past week, you'll need help, and having a friend or family member willing to lend a hand by making a meal, bringing something in or just running to pick up their dry cleaning, will make you a real champion in their eyes," Frieman says.<br />
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Lisa Mirza Grotts, an etiquette <a href="http://www.HuffingtonPost.com/lisa-mirza-grotts" target="_blank">columnist</a> for The Huffington Post, says getting lunch on the table or just being present to be a good listener is worth a lot.<br />
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"When my sister had her twins, I would go to her house and watch them while she was home just so she could take a bath, or do her nails, and have a little free time," she tells ParentDish.<br />
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<strong>5. Seal your lips. </strong>"Keep unsolicited advice to yourself," Franchi says. "Please, just don't do it."<br />
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Finally, it's up to the new parents to make rules and enforce them, experts agree.<br />
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When Holloway's second son was born, she armed herself with a list of regulations for visitors.<br />
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"I made a rule that nobody was allowed to visit until we returned home, and they had to call before coming," she says.<br />
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Looking back, she says she also would have included the following rules: Don't smoke on your way over, or right before seeing the baby. Volunteer to occupy the older child. And, "for God's sake, leave an empty chair for the woman who just has major surgery."<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/guess-who-shouldnt-be-coming-for-dinner-etiquette-tips-for-new/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19778490/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/guess-who-shouldnt-be-coming-for-dinner-etiquette-tips-for-new/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>family visits</category><category>FamilyVisits</category><category>new baby</category><category>NewBaby</category><category>newborns</category><category>visiting babies</category><category>VisitingBabies</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 28 Dec 2010 16:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Epidural-Related Deaths in Childbirth on the Rise, but Still Rare</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/27/epidural-related-deaths-in-childbirth-on-the-rise/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/27/epidural-related-deaths-in-childbirth-on-the-rise/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/27/epidural-related-deaths-in-childbirth-on-the-rise/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/research-reveals-pregnancy/" rel="tag">Research Reveals</a></p><div class="classy">
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Whatever happened to spending nine months in a state of bliss, anticipating your baby's arrival?<br />
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These days, it seems every hour a new stress bomb explodes in the world of expectant moms preparing to give birth. The latest complication to worry about? A new study finds childbirth deaths from spinal anesthesia are rising, <a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE6BN2B820101224" target="_blank">Reuters</a> reports.<br />
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Though deaths related to general anesthesia fell, the number of U.S. women who died from complications from epidurals and spinal blocks during childbirth has risen since the mid-1990s, the study finds.<br />
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Dr. Joy L. Hawkins, principal investigator for the study, stresses that such deaths remain rare, but says there is a need for researchers to continue to explore ways that anesthesia can be made safer for women, according to Reuters.<br />
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"It is concerning," Hawkins, of the University of Colorado School of Medicine in Aurora, tells the news service.<br />
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The results, published in the January 2011 issue of <a href="http://journals.lww.com/greenjournal/Abstract/2011/01000/Anesthesia_Related_Maternal_Mortality_in_the.11.aspx" target="_blank">Obstetrics and Gynecology</a>, feature a research study, which examines anesthesia-related deaths for the past 12 years, and compares them with anesthesia-related deaths for the 12 years prior to that.<br />
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In the new study, researchers found that between 1979 and 2002, childbirth deaths related to any anesthesia complication dropped by 59 percent among U.S. women, Reuters reports.<br />
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There were three such deaths for every million live births between 1979 and 1990, compared with just more than one death per million births between 1991 and 2002 -- the most recent years for which data was available.<!--START POLL CODE--><br />
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But, while deaths related to general anesthesia kept falling in the 1990s, those related to regional anesthesia rose slightly, from 2.5 deaths for every million cesarean sections between 1991 and 1996 to 3.8 per million between 1997 and 2002, according to Reuters.<br />
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Researchers say they believe deaths related to general anesthetics declined due to improvements in monitoring of patients receiving anesthesia, safer anesthetics and improved understanding of how the body responds to anesthesia, the news service says.<br />
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But although regional anesthesia is considered quite safe, in rare cases patients can have a severe allergic reaction to the anesthetic, or the drug can cause breathing or heart problems, Hawkins tells Reuters.<br />
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She stresses that women should remember that anesthesia-related deaths during childbirth are a rare event, but women should make sure they take every precaution to treat chronic health conditions such as high blood pressure and diabetes, which make them more vulnerable to childbirth complications.<br />
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"I think the main thing is to get good prenatal care, and keep any medical conditions you have under control during pregnancy," Hawkins tells Reuters.<br />
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Hawkins also suggests women make sure their anesthesiologist knows about any health conditions they have or medications they have been taking.<br />
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		Americans had fewer babies in 2008, but more of them were delivered by cesarean section -- up to nearly a third, and more of them were born to older women, according to an annual survey to be published in <a href="http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/" target="_blank">Pediatrics</a>.</div>
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That marks the 12th year in a row that C-section rates have risen, the survey finds. <a href="http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/papbyrecent.dtl" target="_blank">The Annual Summary of Vital Statistics: 2008</a> is compiled by the <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/" target="_blank">National Center for Health Statistics</a> and the <a href="http://www.jhsph.edu/" target="_blank">Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health</a>.<br />
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In 2008, 4.3 million babies were born in the United States, a two percent drop from 2007, the year of the most births in recorded United States history, according to the survey. <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/01/28/abstinence-education-to-blame-for-rise-in-teen-pregnancy-rates/">Teenage mothers giving birth</a> also dropped by 2 percent; a reversal over the trend of the previous two years, when it had gone up.<br />
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And so much for the prime childbearing years: Women between the ages of 20 and 39 had fewer babies -- the first drop for 35-to 39-year-olds since 1978 -- but the number of women between 40 and 49 having babies went up, the report shows. Wedlock also seems to be falling out of favor a bit with new moms; 40.6 percent of the babies born in 2008 were the children of unmarried women, up from 39.7 percent the prior year. The rate of twin and triplet births was unchanged.<br />
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Their mothers may be getting older, but babies seem to be faring better: The number of infants born prematurely was 3 percent lower than in 2007, and the rate of babies born with low birth weights was unchanged, according to the survey.<br />
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And there's more good news: The report showed a drop in death rates for children between the ages of 1 and 18.<br />
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But there was also cause for concern. Nearly a third of all deliveries were done by C-section in 2008, a whopping 56 percent rise over 1996 rates, the survey shows. And homicide was the second leading cause of death for children 19 years old or younger, after unintentional injuries, which accounted for almost 39 percent of all deaths; together the two causes accounted for a bit more than half of all child and adolescent deaths.<br />
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Babies born in 2008 can expect to live an average of 77.8 years, the report says.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/20/teen-birth-rate/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19768135/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/20/teen-birth-rate/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>annual survey of vital statistics</category><category>AnnualSurveyOfVitalStatistics</category><category>birth rates</category><category>BirthRates</category><category>child mortality</category><category>ChildMortality</category><category>older mothers</category><category>OlderMothers</category><category>preterm births</category><category>PretermBirths</category><category>teen birth</category><category>TeenBirth</category><dc:creator>Monique El-Faizy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2010 00:01:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Do Birth Plans Help or Hurt Women?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/15/birth-plan/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/15/birth-plan/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/15/birth-plan/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/breast-feeding/" rel="tag">Breast-Feeding</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><br />
Paint the nursery. Buy the onesies. Write the birth plan. These days, women are encouraged to create birth plans as part of their preparation for having a baby. In them, the mom-to-be describes what she does or does not want to have happen during childbirth and in the hospital afterward. Birth plans are meant to empower women, but are they a good idea for every mother-to-be?<br />
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Jenny Lawson, also known as The Bloggess, <a href="http://thestir.cafemom.com/pregnancy/113451/lesson_seven_your_birth_plan?next=1" target="_blank">wrote about birth plans last week</a> in a tongue-in-cheek post on Cafe Mom's The Stir. In her piece, entitled "Your Birth Plan. Good Luck With That," she humorously described birth plans as decisions on such details as "... how you want to deal with the pain, where to have your baby, what part of your body you want your baby to come out of, and a host of other things that all basically sound like various degrees of unpleasantness and horror." She went on to share all the ways in which birth plans can fall apart when childbirth doesn't go exactly as planned, which seems to be more often than not. Her conclusion? "If you're lucky enough to end up with a baby, you win. "<br />
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Lawson's post engendered a surprising debate. Some thought the piece was hilarious. Others felt she was "belittling" women who want more involvement in the decision-making process while having a baby. Gina, from the blog The Feminist Breeder, commented, "There is NOTHING funny about keeping women uneducated. A birth plan isn't designed to script out your birth. It's designed to let you know what kind of birth experience you're hoping to achieve, and whether or not you're with the provider who's going to respect that. If you want an unmedicated birth, you MUST train for that, and you MUST have a provider that doesn't have a 98% epidural rate. THEIR practices determine your birth far more than chance. If you don't know your options, then you frankly don't have any, and THAT will determine your birth... not circumstance."<br />
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I see Gina's point. I agree with those who believe birth plans are a good tool. Women should have more say in what happens to them. They should be prepared ahead of time for the kinds of decisions they will be asked to make, so that they aren't forced to make one in the heat of battle, so to speak. At the same time, I fully agree with Jenny. I thought she took a funny look at the amount of uncertainty involved in birth. So much can happen that is outside of your control. Some women never make it to the hospital in time. Some women need emergency C-sections. Some babies have prolapsed cords. I don't want those new moms to be more traumatized than they already are because nothing in their birth plan came to fruition.<br />
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One comment in particular stood out to me, from someone identifying herself as "swistle." She wrote, " I don't think ANYTHING contributes more to post-birth Dissatisfaction With Life than a birth plan. It gives the absolutely false illusion that if you PLAN it, you can HAVE it." Depending on the person, I believe there is a lot of truth to that.<br />
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I had a plan. My birth plan, which was duly delivered to every official hospital-staff-looking person I came across, covered everything from whether I wanted an epidural (abso-farking-lutely!) to whether I wanted to breast-feed (I would give it the old college try) to how I felt about induction (no thanks).<br />
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I didn't mention in my plan what I wanted to have happen if my water broke, which it did, thus requiring induction. I got the epidural I wanted, but wasn't prepared for it only to work on one side of my body. I didn't plan to be asked to push for four hours to try and get out my beautiful but watermelon-headed baby, and then have to deliver via forceps because I just couldn't push out said watermelon head on my own. I didn't plan for my son to have jaundice and for nurses to give him bottles in the nursery without telling me because they were worried he wasn't getting enough fluids. He later refused the breast because he just loved those bottles. There went breast-feeding.<br />
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I did excellent research and had a well-written but not over-the-top birth plan, yet pretty much none of it panned out. Why does this matter? For me, it was the beginning of feeling out of control, out of sorts and full of anxiety. It was a contributing factor to my postpartum OCD. Not the key factor, mind you, or perhaps even among the most important -- my perfectionist personality, my family history of mental illness and my until then undiagnosed OCD played major roles. I do think, for some women, not being able to fulfill a birth plan can feel like the first failure of motherhood. I'm not saying we <em>should</em> feel that way, but some of us do.<br />
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As "swistle" was saying, a birth plan can lull some women into the false belief that they have more control than they really do. If those are people already at risk for postpartum depression or anxiety, that could be a problem.<br />
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I loved <a href="http://www.blogher.com/what-expect-unexpected?wrap=blogher-topics/pregnancy&amp;crumb=32402" target="_blank">this post on BlogHer</a> from Joella Critter of the blog Fine and Fair, who ended up having a C-section and being unable to experience many of the things she had asked for in her birth plan. She wrote a beautiful letter to her daughter about that birth:<br />
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		"Throughout that experience, I learned one of the most important lessons there is to learn about parenthood. There is no 'What to Expect'. There is no perfect plan. We must expect the unexpected, and plan for the un-planned. It's good to know what our preferences are, it's good to have goals, it's good to have a vision of how we want life to go. However, the more we cling to those things, the more we expect them, the harder it is when things don't go according to plan. Life is full of curve balls, and you, my dear, have proven to be the sharpest curve ball of them yet!"</div>
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If creating a birth plan is about thinking through options and stating preferences, that's great. If it's about getting to know whether your obstetrician is the right person for you, that's even better. But if the woman creating the birth plan is fixated on the ideal birth, or striving for perfection, or trying to control what is sometimes uncontrollable? Not so much. While birth plans can be empowering for many, for others they may be painfully misleading.<br />
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The newest trend to hit the birthing education front is <a target="_blank" href="http://www.hypnobirthing.com/">hypnobirthing</a>, a technique that incorporates hypnosis into labor, <a target="_blank" href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703493504576007512674579874.html?mod=WSJ_hpp_sections_health ">the Wall Street Journal</a> reports. <br />
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The concept is a lot like using hypnosis for smoking, weight loss and breaking other bad habits. Expectant moms are trained to relax on demand and avoid dwelling on pain, which can lead to a natural and relatively pain-free labor, the newspaper says. Costs for the courses range from about $140 for home kits and CDs to $500 for the growing number of classes, the Journal adds.<br />
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So, how does the hypnosis work during delivery? Hypnosis is a state of deep relaxation, where a person is particularly susceptible to the power of suggestion, <a target="_blank" href="http://stresshealthcenter.stanford.edu/ ">David Spiegel</a>, psychiatry professor at Stanford University, tells the Journal. Successfully used for weight loss, smoking cessation and pain management, when people are hypnotized, their brains are better able to alter perception of different senses, including feeling less pain, he adds.<br />
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<!--START POLL CODE--> <iframe scrolling="no" height="250" frameborder="0" width="200" src="http://webcenter.polls.aol.com/modular.jsp?template=1772&amp;view=190264&amp;pollId=190556&amp;channel=A+Demo+Poll+Group" style="border: 1px solid rgb(153, 153, 153); padding: 7px; display: block; margin-bottom: 7px; margin-left: 7px; float: right;"></iframe> <!--END POLL CODE--> Critics worry such programs may set up a pain-free birthing ideal that sets prospective birthing moms up for unreal expectations in a process that can be fraught with possible complications, <a target="_blank" href="http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/profiles/dr-md-reports/dr-nancy-chescheir-md-5f563904 ">Nancy Chescheir</a>, professor of obstetrics and gynecology at the University of North Carolina, tells the Journal. She says it's important to be flexible and open to medical interventions if necessary. <br />
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"You can't predict how your labor is going to go," Chescheir tells the newspaper. "The childbirth education experience should be about 'How can I partner with my provider?' "<br />
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Cassie Friesen of Broomfield, Colo., tells the Journal she imagined she was inside a bubble and repeated the word "peace" with each contraction when she gave birth to her daughter last July. <br />
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"It's so corny-sounding," she tells the newspaper, "and yet it worked."<br />
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HypnoBirthing LLC was started in Chichester, N.H., in the early 1990s by Marie Mongan, a former college counselor trained in hypnotherapy and author of the book "<a target="_blank" href="http://www.amazon.com/HypnoBirthing-natural-approach-comfortable-birthing/dp/0757302661">HypnoBirthing</a>," the Journal reports. <br />
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Today, more than 1,300 certified "Mongan Method" instructors guide couples through visualization sequences such as "opening rose" and "rainbow relaxation," to be used during delivery, according to the newspaper. <br />
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<a target="_blank" href="http://www.hypnobabies.com/">Hypnobabies LLC</a>, in Stanton, Calif., began in a community center and now sells classes and self-study kits to some 20,000 women a year, founder Kerry Tuschhoff tells the Journal. Her method promotes "eyes-open childbirth hypnosis," in which women are said to remain in deep hypnosis even as they walk, talk and move around the room during labor. <br />
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"Many Hypnobabies' moms have pain-free and fear-free births," Tuschhoff tells the newspaper, adding that the pain of childbirth is transformed into "comfortable feelings."<br type="_moz" /><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/09/hypnobirthing/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19753628/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/09/hypnobirthing/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>hypnobirthing</category><category>hypnosis</category><category>labor and delivery</category><category>LaborAndDelivery</category><category>pregnancy</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Dec 2010 12:30:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Scientology's Silent Birth: One Mother's Story</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/01/silent-scientology-birth/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/01/silent-scientology-birth/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/01/silent-scientology-birth/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/celeb-parents/" rel="tag">Celeb Parents</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><div class="classy">
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On Dec. 6, Ethan Bristol will celebrate his first birthday with a calm, low-key gathering of his parents, grandparents and family friends who have little ones, too. <br />
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But no matter how mellow it may be, the event, marking an important milestone for the tot and his parents, Jamie and Tom Bristol of Montrose, Calif., certainly won't be as chatter-free as the boy's silent birth.<br />
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Almost a year ago, Ethan entered the world two weeks late at 12:17 a.m., weighing 8 pounds, 9 ounces, through a silent birth. The practice has been making headlines recently with the birth of Benjamin Travolta on Nov. 23. Actor parents Kelly Preston and John Travolta, both Scientologists, announced that they planned to use the childbirth method practiced by the <a href="http://www.scientology.org/" target="_blank">Church of Scientology</a>. <br />
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Though not a word was uttered through the labor and delivery of Ethan, the alert and wide-eyed newborn made his debut, "looked around the room and let out a little yelp," Jamie Bristol 31, tells ParentDish.<br />
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"It was so precious, like he was saying 'Yay,' " she recalls.<br />
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Except for Ethan's whimper, there was no chatter, no commentary, no "push, push," urgings from <a href="http://www.healthgrades.com/directory_search/physician/profiles/dr-md-reports/dr-ronald-wu-md-c25c8e0f" target="_blank">Dr. Ronald Wu</a>. There were only "looks of support" from husband, Tom, 29, a midwife and the medical team throughout the four-hour labor, Bristol says.<br />
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"I did make some noises because it is labor after all," she says. "And, if anything would have gone wrong, I would have spoken up. But the silence let me focus, remain calm and respectful to the significance of the moment. The only time someone said something was when it was obvious that I had to move to the hospital. The idea is that no one can talk through contractions. So the midwife was very respectful about that, and then just whispered to me about us having to move."<br />
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A lifelong Scientologist who, along with her sister, was born through a natural, silent birth, Bristol tells ParentDish she had planned to have a home birth for her first child, but, as it turned out, she had to be induced after being in pre-labor for five days (with no sleep) and her water had broken. The couple had a back-up doctor, and so Bristol, her husband and midwife moved -- silently, with no words spoken -- to nearby <a href="http://www.glendaleadventist.com/" target="_blank">Glendale Adventist Medical Center</a> where Ethan was born four hours later. <br />
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When she discovered she was pregnant, Bristol says, she interviewed four physicians and midwives in the Los Angeles area, explaining to all of them what she wanted. <br />
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"Hands down, all four doctors were familiar with silent births, I mean this is L.A., and all felt very comfortable doing this, same with the midwives," she tells ParentDish.<br />
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The idea in the "no words spoken" birthing process is that "the unborn child is feeling, remembering and aware of what is happening around him," Bristol says. "A silent birth is meant to minimize the pain and discomfort for the infant, and minimize the imprinting of stressful words spoken during the moments of birthing, words that could have an adverse effect on him in later life," she says.<br />
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The calmness and serenity are guiding principles Bristol hopes will be mainstays in her parenting, as well. <br />
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For the first six months, the couple, who owns the graphic design firm <a href="http://www.DentistDesign.com" target="_blank">Dentist Design</a>, worked from home so they could be with Ethan. <br />
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"I love that we can spend so much time with him," Bristol says. "He is so much fun to have around. I love waking up to his smiling face every day. I can't wait for him to start talking."<br />
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As the family prepares to celebrate Ethan's first birthday, Bristol says there's been quite a buzz about silent births among her friends, neighbors and colleagues following the Travolta baby's birth last week.<br />
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"People say, 'Is Kelly Preston doing what you did?' and 'What's that like?' " she says. "All I can say is that it's really no big deal. Except that I witnessed a friend giving birth to her baby recently and it was so noisy with so many people chatting away in the delivery room. What I loved the most was that it just helped me focus on the moment and not get caught up in having to make small talk to a bunch of strangers in a room. The quiet was calming."<br />
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Though it is not confirmed that Preston experienced a silent birth with Benjamin, the 48-year-old Scientologist announced prior to the birth that she was planning one in keeping with the Church of Scientology's guidelines, according to the <a href="http://voices.washingtonpost.com/celebritology/2010/11/john_travolta_and_kelly_presto_1.html" target="_blank">Washington Post</a>. In anticipation of the birth, the church released <a href="http://www.scientologynews.org/faq/what-is-silent-birth.html " target="_blank">media alerts</a> about silent births. The birth comes almost two years after the couple's eldest son, Jett Travolta, died in January 2009 from a seizure during a family holiday in the Bahamas.<br />
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Scientology founder L. Ron Hubbard preached the idea of silent birth as a way to shield newborns from supposedly harmful words heard during the traumatic birth process, Church of Scientology spokesperson Karin Pouw tells ParentDish.<br />
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When asked if Preston and baby Benjamin experienced a silent birth, Pouw tells ParentDish: "The Church of Scientology cannot answer questions on behalf of their members."<br />
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So, are silent births medically sound? <br />
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"Babies have heard noise and responded to noise for some time before they are born," Patricia Connor Devine, MD, a maternal-fetal medicine specialist who directs the Labor and Delivery Unit at Columbia University Medical Center, tells <a href="http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/47040243.html" target="_blank">LiveJournal.com</a>. "There's absolutely no scientific evidence that taking that away at the time of delivery will have any effect on outcome for the baby or the mother."<br />
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Pouw tells ParentDish the Church of Scientology does not give medical advice to help a person with a physical situation.<br />
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"But Scientology founder Hubbard did recommend a natural, drug-free birth because it is best for the mother and the child," she says. "It is common knowledge that natural childbirth is best, but that doesn't always work out, and it is up to the mother and her doctor."<br />
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Pouw says a silent birth is labor and delivery done in a calm and loving environment and with no spoken words by anyone attending. <br />
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"Chatty doctors and nurses, shouts to 'push, push' and loud or laughing remarks to 'encourage' are the types of things that are meant to be avoided," she adds. "Mothers naturally want to give their baby the best start in life and thus keep the birth as quiet and peaceful as possible. That being said, a woman's choice for her delivery is completely up to her and her doctor. There is no requirement to adhere to any specific routine. Just like care is taken in all other aspects of labor and birth, a woman and her doctor or midwife and any others present work out how to communicate without words."<br />
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The Church's media release about silent births was meant to help dispel misconceptions about the process, Pouw tells ParentDish. <br />
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"Throughout the last weeks we had received several media inquiries about silent birth, showing that misconceptions about silent birth were spread and so decided to provide a concise advice on the subject broadly to the media," she says.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/01/silent-scientology-birth/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19735319/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/01/silent-scientology-birth/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>birth plan</category><category>BirthPlan</category><category>john travolta</category><category>JohnTravolta</category><category>kelly preston</category><category>KellyPreston</category><category>scientology</category><category>silent births</category><category>SilentBirths</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 13:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Did Kelly Preston Deliver Her Baby Via Silent Birth?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/kelly-preston-baby/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/kelly-preston-baby/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/kelly-preston-baby/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/in-the-news/" rel="tag">In The News</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/celeb-news-and-interviews/" rel="tag">Celeb News &amp; Interviews</a></p><div class="classy">
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<p>Did Kelly Preston deliver baby Benjamin in a silent birth? George Pimentel/WireImage.com</p>
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Before Kelly Preston and John Travolta <a target="_blank" href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/john-travolta-and-kelly-preston-welcome-baby-boy/">welcomed their baby boy Benjamin</a> yesterday, rumors were swirling that the 48-year-old actress was <a target="_blank" href="http://www.popeater.com/2010/11/15/john-travolta-kelly-preston-scientology-silent-birth/">planning a silent birth</a> in keeping with the Church of Scientology's guidelines. What is a silent birth, exactly? <br />
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We didn't know either, so we're posting the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.scientology.org/">Church of Scientology International</a>'s media advisory on the meaning of "quiet" and "silent" births. What do you think? Would you have a silent birth?<br />
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WHAT IS SILENT BIRTH?<br />
Silent birth is all about providing the best possible environment for the birthing mother and her new baby. Its origins can be found in L. Ron Hubbard's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dianetics-Modern-Science-Mental-English/dp/140314446X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1290672999&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank">Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health</a> and are firmly rooted in a fundamental and abiding principle that women, particularly expectant mothers, be given the utmost in care and respect.<br />
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A silent birth is labor and delivery done in a calm and loving environment and with no spoken words by anyone attending. Chatty doctors and nurses, shouts to "PUSH, PUSH" and loud or laughing remarks to "encourage" are the types of things that are meant to be avoided.<br />
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As L. Ron Hubbard wrote: "Everyone must learn to say nothing within the expectant mother's hearing during labor and delivery. Particularly during birth, absolute silence must be maintained and the more gentle the delivery, the better."<br />
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The point of silent birth is NO WORDS. It does not mean a mother cannot make any sound during childbirth. It is doubtful that any woman could give birth without making any noise at all.<br />
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Mothers naturally want to give their baby the best start in life and thus keep the birth as quiet and peaceful as possible. That being said, a woman's choice for her delivery is completely up to her and her doctor. There is no requirement to adhere to any specific routine. Just like care is taken in all other aspects of labor and birth, a woman and her doctor or midwife and any others present work out how to communicate without words.<br />
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Doctors respect the right of a mother to choose her birthing experience. Silent birth is not a medical model but a religious and philosophical approach based on L. Ron Hubbard's research into the mind and spirit.<br />
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The principle behind not speaking during childbirth is delineated in Dianetics and to fully understand why, one should read the book Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health. But to provide a brief explanation, L. Ron Hubbard discovered the hidden source of nightmares, unreasonable fears, upsets, insecurity and psychosomatic illness -- the reactive mind. This part of the mind records all perceptions during times of pain and unconsciousness - which childbirth is for both mother and child. And words, in particular, spoken during these moments, can have an adverse effect on one later in life.<br />
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However, since the research, findings and practice of silent birth were first announced by Mr. Hubbard in the 1951 text entitled Child Dianetics, this method has been corroborated and applied by doctors, nurses and midwives world over.<br />
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The Church has no policy against the use of medicines to help a person with a physical situation and these principles do not preclude a mother from receiving any medical procedure needed to safely deliver the baby, including Caesarean section. These are medical decisions and these, too, are between the mother and her doctor.<br />
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QUESTIONS &amp; ANSWERS<br />
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HOW DOES THIS ACTUALLY WORK?<br />
There is no specific routine. Just like care is taken in all other aspects of labor and birth, a woman and her doctor or midwife and others present work out how to communicate without words. Different women have done different things.<br />
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IS IT A CHURCH RULE THAT THEIR MEMBERS MUST ADHERE TO THIS PRACTICE?<br />
Not at all. A woman's delivery is always up to her and her doctor.<br />
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DOES THE CHURCH HAVE RULES AGAINST PAINKILLERS, ANESTHESIA OR OTHER MEDICAL DRUGS?<br />
The Church has no policy against the use of medicines to help a person with a physical situation. This is a matter between the person and their doctor.<br />
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DOESN'T L. RON HUBBARD RECOMMEND/ADVOCATE A NATURAL, DRUG-FREE BIRTH?<br />
Yes, because it is best for the mother and the child. It is common knowledge that natural childbirth is best, but that doesn't always work out, and it is up to the mother and her doctor.<br />
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IT HAS BEEN REPORTED THAT MANY SCIENTOLOGISTS WILL DEMAND A NATURAL CHILDBIRTH WITH NO DRUGS. WHY?<br />
It is the mother's choice. If they don't use drugs it's simply because a mother wants the best for her new baby.<br />
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IS IT TRUE THAT SCIENTOLOGISTS CAN'T TOUCH OR TALK TO THEIR BABY FOR THREE DAYS TO A WEEK? OR ARE THERE SEVEN DAYS OF SILENCE AFTER BIRTH?<br />
Absolutely not, this is a complete fabrication and not a practice of Scientology.<br />
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DO DOCTORS AGREE WITH THESE PROCEDURES?<br />
Of course. It's a personal decision of the mother and doesn't interfere with any medical procedure. Doctors naturally respect the right of a mother to choose her own birth experience.<br />
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ARE C-SECTIONS PERMITTED?<br />
This is a medical decision, nothing to do with Scientology.<br />
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CAN YOU EXPLAIN FURTHER WHAT DIANETICS IS?<br />
L. Ron Hubbard discovered the single source of stress, worry, self-doubt and psychosomatic illness, which is the reactive mind. This part of the mind records all perceptions in times of pain and unconsciousness and in particular, words spoken during these moments can have adverse effects on people later in life.<br />
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Full information on this is available in the book, Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health.<br />
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WHAT DOES SCIENTOLOGY SAY ABOUT THE RAISING OF CHILDREN?<br />
L. Ron Hubbard has written a great deal about raising children. In Scientology, children are respected the way any person should be albeit in a young body. This does not make them any less a person and they should be given all the love and respect granted adults. Scientologists also believe children should be encouraged to contribute to family life and not just be "seen and not heard," as the old saying goes.<br />
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Most children raised in Scientology homes are above average in ability and quickly begin to understand how and why people act as they do. Life thus becomes a lot happier and safer for them.<br />
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WHAT ELSE HAS L. RON HUBBARD WRITTEN ABOUT RAISING CHILDREN?<br />
There is a lot written in Scientology about children. Scientology helps people understand their basic nature and this alone helps parents tremendously.<br />
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Some of the basic principles Scientologists apply to parenting are summed up in the following quotes:<br />
"Today's children will become tomorrow's civilization. Try to be the child's friend. It is certainly true that a child needs friends. Try to find out what a child's problem really is and without crushing their own solutions, try to help solve them. A child factually does not do well without love. Most children have an abundance of it to return." - "The Way to Happiness"<br />
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"The spoiled child is the child whose decisions have been interrupted continuously and who is robbed of his independence." - "Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health"<br />
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"Affection could no more spoil a child than the sun could be put out by a bucket of gasoline." - "Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health"<br />
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"A good, stable adult with love and tolerance in his heart is about the best therapy a child can have." - "Child Dianetics"<br />
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"A human being feels able and competent only so long as he is permitted to contribute as much or more than he has contributed to him." "Child Dianetics"<br />
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DO SCIENTOLOGISTS CONSIDER CHILDREN ADULTS IN A SMALL BODY?<br />
No. Scientologists consider children to be spiritual beings, like all people are but they need to be taken care of as children. L. Ron Hubbard has written quite a lot on the subject, including that "a child needs all of the love and affection it can possibly get" and that "a good stable adult with love and tolerance in his heart is about the best therapy a child can have."<br />
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Children need respect, love, help, and education. They want to help others from a very early age and it is important that adults allow them to do so, within the realms of safety. A child has to know they have a place in life, that they are important and that their contributions are meaningful in a real way.<br />
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Education is an important part of this, as a child needs understanding of the workings of his family and society to be able to contribute to them in meaningful ways and in this he can be greatly assisted by his parents and other family members.<br />
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CAN CHILDREN PARTICIPATE IN SCIENTOLOGY? HOW?<br />
Yes, many children do and there are no age restrictions as to who may participate in Scientology auditing or training. Scientology Churches conduct courses and study programs specifically designed for young people. Children below the age of majority must first obtain written consent from their parents or guardian to participate in Scientology services. Like adherents of other religions, Scientologists are very proud when their children join them in the practice of their religion.<br />
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WHAT IS SCIENTOLOGY?<br />
Developed by L. Ron Hubbard, Scientology is a religion that offers a precise path leading to a complete and certain understanding of one's true spiritual nature and one's relationship to self, family, groups, Mankind, all life forms, the material universe, the spiritual universe and the Supreme Being.<br />
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Scientology addresses the spirit -- not the body or mind -- and believes that Man is far more than a product of his environment, or his genes.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/kelly-preston-baby/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19732121/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/24/kelly-preston-baby/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>church of scientology</category><category>ChurchOfScientology</category><category>John Travolta</category><category>JohnTravolta</category><category>Kelly Preston</category><category>KellyPreston</category><category>silent birth</category><category>SilentBirth</category><dc:creator>the editors at ParentDish</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Nov 2010 09:39:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>Live From the Maternity Ward: Birthing Moms Are Primping for Photos</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/15/live-from-the-maternity-ward-birthing-moms-are-primping-for-pho/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/15/live-from-the-maternity-ward-birthing-moms-are-primping-for-pho/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/15/live-from-the-maternity-ward-birthing-moms-are-primping-for-pho/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/funny-stuff/" rel="tag">Funny Stuff</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/delivery/" rel="tag">Delivery</a></p><div class="classy">
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		When Lyn Zelnis was packing her hospital bag for the birth of her second baby, she made sure to include shower supplies, onesies and perhaps most important -- mascara, styling mousse, lipstick and a bronzer. Plus, she booked a pedicure right before her due date.</div>
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Of course the St. Louis mom of two was focused on the pending miracle of childbirth, but she also learned (the painful way) during her older son's birth, the importance of primping for the big day.<br />
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"Push and smile" has become the mantra of baby mamas, who find their post labor selves splashed across the pages of Facebook or live on YouTube. In this era of instantaneous photo spreads, labor and delivery rooms are being transformed into photography studios, according to an article on <a href="http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/articles/2010/11/11/push____and_smile_more_new_moms_are_primping_on_the_big_day/" target="_blank">Boston.com</a>.<br />
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In 2010, that means lining up a pediatrician, readying the bassinette -- and, for some moms, making a hair appointment, getting a mani-pedi, and buying flattering hospital johnnies, Boston.com reports.<br />
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The attention to every detail -- hair, nails, makeup, oh and of course, mom and baby's home-from-the-hospital attire, underscores a larger trend of scheduled births, including planned caesareans and elective inductions, says <a href="http://www.storknet.com/experts/obgyn/exwc.htm" target="_blank">Dr. William Camann</a>, <span style="display: none;"> </span>director of the obstetric anesthesia service at Brigham and Women's Hospital to Boston.com.<br />
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"It's not just planning the birth,'' Camann, coauthor of "<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Easy-Labor-Womans-Choosing-Childbirth/dp/0345476638/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1289864366&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Easy Labor</a>," tells Boston.com, "but planning everything that goes along with the birth, which includes looking good for the pictures.''<br />
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Abigail Tuller, editor in chief of Pregnancy and Mom magazine, <span style="display: none;"> Pre</span>tells Boston.com the uptick in grooming is part of a societal shift.<br />
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"The boundaries of the birthing room are being expanded,'' she says. "People are Facebooking from the delivery room, they're doing live feeds of their birth, and they're texting during labor. We live in the information age, and everyone wants their information out there. You need to look good.''<br />
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For sure, no baby mama wants a picture of herself sweaty, exhausted and in desperate need of a makeover. Just ask Zelnis.<br />
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"Well Facebook happened a couple years after my first birthing experience," Zelnis tells ParentDish. But right after 26 hours of labor and a C-section during the birth of her son Luke, who is almost 6, Zelnis was being wheeled to her room when cameras lights started flashing.<br />
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"I was exhausted, looked disgusting with my hair sweaty and on top of my head in a ponytail," Zelnis tells ParentDish."I was swollen and had bags under my eyes. As they wheeled me up to my room they informed me that News Channel 5 was waiting to interview me because the hospital nurses went on strike during my surgery.<br />
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"So as I am trying to nurse Luke for the first time, and in walks this famous newscaster for the St. Louis local network with a bright light and a camera in my face. Hello, a little embarrassing! When it came to Carter, (her second son, age 3) I had a pedicure and a little makeup on," Zelnis adds to ParentDish.<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/15/live-from-the-maternity-ward-birthing-moms-are-primping-for-pho/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19714806/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/15/live-from-the-maternity-ward-birthing-moms-are-primping-for-pho/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>childbirth</category><category>makeup</category><category>primping</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 18:44:00 EST</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
