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Imagine being a quadriplegic teenager confined to a wheelchair and tethered to a respirator. Think of all the childhood experiences that would be denied of you.<br />
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You could never play sports, dance at the prom, join the cheerleading squad, go to summer camp ...<br />
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Wait a minute.<br />
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Actually, you might <a href="http://www.pennlive.com/bodyandmind/index.ssf/2011/06/the_possibilities_are_limitles.html" target="_blank">be able to to go summer camp</a>, after all. There's a camp in Millville, Pa. (about two hours northwest of Philadelpha), called PA Vent Camp. It's designed especially for kids dependent on ventilation, continuous airway pressure or bilevel continuous airway pressure for all or part of the day.<br />
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Katrina Thomas is quadriplegic as the result of a spinal cord injury from a car accident in 2001, yet she tells PennLive.com she can ride down a zip line, sing in the camp talent show and dance with all her friends.<br />
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It's kind of nice for her and her similarly disabled friends to have place all their own, she tells the website.<br />
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"What happens at Vent Camp stays at Vent Camp," the 13-year-old grins. "To me, camp is like a great getaway to see all the other campers and have a great time."<br />
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Kids at the camp finally have the chance to just be kids.<br />
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"We do this camp so that these kids can see that they're not the only kid in the world like this," Michael Dettorre, the camp's medical director, tells PennLive. "They come here and bond and share stories and have fun. And it shows their family what they are capable of doing, that they don't have to sit in front of a computer or the TV all day long."<br />
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The kids, depending on their abilities, can swim, climb rocks and all the other summer camp activities.<br />
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"You've never seen anything until you see a vent-dependent kid with their ventilator and portable oxygen and a wound vac hanging off them as they go down a zip line," Tonya Miller, the activities director, tells PennLive.<br />
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"Our motto is that it's all possible. You just have to figure out how to modify it! We don't put any limits on anything. That's how we've always operated."<br />
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The camp began with 14 campers and now welcomes 42 campers and more than 120 volunteers every June. PennLive reports many of the volunteers are medical professionals who take a vacation from their jobs.<br />
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According to the website, the camp costs about $55,000 to operate and is funded largely by the Children's Miracle Network, donations and fundraisers<br />
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"It gives me great joy to be able to provide this opportunity for the kids," Kelly York, a volunteer nurse at the camp and team leader of medical care in a cabin of campers, tells PennLive. "These kids get the best experience of their lives out of it."<br />
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<p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href=http://www.pennlive.com/bodyandmind/index.ssf/2011/06/the_possibilities_are_limitles.html>Read</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/13/vent-camp/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19965575/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/13/vent-camp/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>disablities</category><category>handicapped kids</category><category>special needs</category><category>summer camp</category><dc:creator>Tom Henderson</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 16:00:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>How to Prevent and Treat Poison Ivy</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/13/how-to-prevent-and-treat-poison-ivy/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/13/how-to-prevent-and-treat-poison-ivy/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/06/13/how-to-prevent-and-treat-poison-ivy/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/medical-conditions/" rel="tag">Medical Conditions</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/health-and-safety-toddlers-preschoolers/" rel="tag">Health &amp; Safety: Toddlers &amp; Preschoolers</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/health-and-safety-big-kids/" rel="tag">Health &amp; Safety: Big Kids</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/health-and-safety-tweens/" rel="tag">Health &amp; Safety: Tweens</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/health-and-safety-teens/" rel="tag">Health &amp; Safety: Teens</a></p>There's nothing more irritating than a skin rash to set your summer activities back. Poison Ivy is among the most common skin rashes to get while playing outside during the summer. Watch this video on how to get rid of the plants in your yard and how to treat the rash so you can get back to your summer fun!<br />
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Give kids access to mental health services, and they still <a href="http://blogs.wsj.com/health/2011/06/01/access-to-mental-health-care-no-guarantee-kids-wont-visit-the-e-r/" target="_blank">bring their psychological problems to the emergency room</a>.<br />
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The Wall Street Journal reports researchers at Johns Hopkins Children's Center thought that was weird.<br />
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They looked into it, and, sure enough, at least 71 percent of the kids who came to the E.R. with psychological problems already had their own mental health provider. Among repeat customers, that percentage jumped to 85 percent.<br />
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And the emergency room gets a lot of repeat business. According to the Journal, of some 2,903 young patients who visited the E.R. for mental health reasons, 338 were back within six months.<br />
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This is a little discouraging for folks who thought community-based mental health services might cut down on emergency room visits more than that.<br />
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Emily Frosch, the lead researcher and a pediatric psychiatrist at John Hopkins, tells the newspaper such hopes don't account for certain factors.<br />
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Mental health providers might tell their patients to go to the E.R. for after-hours problems, she says. It could also be that parents feel they'll get a quicker response in the emergency room, she adds.<br />
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"We need to better understand how the ER is meeting their needs," Frosch tells the Journal.<br />
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Parents can be stressful. They're really annoying and they go about saying stupid and embarrassing things. Now research suggests kids are even more stressed out <a href="http://www.dnaindia.com/health/report_children-of-bipolar-parents-more-susceptible-to-stress-  study_1540675" target="_blank">when their parents are bipolar.</a><br />
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No, they're not. Yes, they are. No, they're not. Yes! No! <em>YES!</em><br />
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You see the problem.<br />
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Imagine dealing with the vacillations and contradictions of someone else's bipolar disorder when you're a kid -- especially when the someone else is your parent.<br />
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So the study by researchers at the Concordia University in Montreal linking parents' bipolar disorders to their children's stress may seem like something of a no-brainer.<br />
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But according to a press release posted on EurekAlert.com,researchers measured and quantified that stress scientifically. What they found is that cortisol, a stress hormone, shoots up in kids when their parents are bipolar.<br />
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"Previous research has shown that children of parents with bipolar disorder are four times as likely to develop mood disorders as those from parents without the condition," senior researcher Mark Ellenbogen, Canada research chair in developmental psychopathology at Concordia, says in the press release.<br />
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"The goal of our study was to determine how this is happening," he adds.<br />
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Researchers previously measured cortisol levels in kids. In this study, they followed up with the same kids now that that they are in their late teens and early adulthoods.<br />
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Their cortisol levels were still elevated. This could mean they'll have emotional problems.<br />
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"Our study demonstrates that affected children are biologically more sensitive to the experience of stress in their natural and normal environment compared to their peers," says Ellenbogen in the release. "This higher reactivity to stress might be one explanation of why these offspring end up developing disorders and is a clear risk factor to becoming ill later on.<br />
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"We think we might be beginning to understand where we can intervene to actually prevent this increased sensitivity from developing," he adds.<br />
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"We believe this sensitivity develops during childhood and our suspicion is that if you could teach both parents and their offspring on how to cope with stress, how to deal with problems before they turn into larger significant stressors and difficulties, this would have a profound impact."<br />
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	<a href="http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/04/18/qa-autism-dr-manny/" target="_blank">As a doctor and a parent of a child with autism</a>, I get a lot of questions in my practice (and in my email inbox) from other parents of children who have been diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder. I wanted to take this opportunity to let you all know that I have been reading and giving careful thought to each of your concerns. Here are a few of the latest questions that have been sent to me.<br />
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	<strong>Q: I have twins and one is standing on his own and the other one stands, but not on his own. How would I know if that's the first sign of autism? You said on the news you saw your son was acting different. What did he do or not do? When do these signs start? What should I look for? -Amber</strong><br />
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	A: Amber, I understand your concern. However, just on the basis of your description that one of your twins is having some delay in standing, it does not appear he meets the criteria for autistic disorders. Many infants at the age of 8 months have variable delays in walking, and that work up should be followed with your pediatrician in regards to his motor strength.<br />
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	Autism, on the other hand, relates more in delay of speech, attention to surroundings and interaction within the family. I welcome you to check out the rest of the Fox News Health section for more information. I am glad that you're asking questions so early on in your child's life because I do believe that parents are the first ones to sense that there may be something wrong with their children -- and the earlier you intervene -- the better the outcome will be.<br />
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	<strong>Q: Dear Doc, I am a police detective here in New Jersey, and I have a son with autism. We have been in early intervention for about a year now, but he turns 3 this June so as you know he is headed to my local district's pre-school program. My son sounds a lot like how you described your son. He has a lot of eye contact with us and a few tics but the worst part is he doesn't talk. I love my son so much, and I just don't know if we are making the right choices for him. It drives this tough detective to tears many nights. I just feel lost in the sea of information. Any insight would be greatly appreciated. -Clint</strong><br />
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	A: Clint, I empathize with you. But you know, I always try to look at the glass half full. Early intervention is important, and home tutoring is vital. I don't know exactly where you live in New Jersey, but the Valley Program in Bergen County is one of the best. This program is run in many towns in Bergen County and as a resident of Jersey you have the right to have your child in the best program that fits his needs, even if your own school district offers similar services.<br />
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	<strong> Q: Hi Dr. Manny, I live in Australia and have four boys. My second son, now 27 years old, has autism and an intellectual handicap. Danny lives with us at home and will do so until I can no longer care for him. He is affectionate to me but has self-injurious behavior quite often, and this totally determines the course of his life and limits his horizons. We've tried various medications including antidepressants and Risperidone, but he actually does much better med-free and has been so for several years now. Please let me know if you come across any techniques or methods to control or decrease his self-injurious behavior. - Mandy</strong><br />
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	A: Mandy, thanks for your question. I hope and pray that your son finds the peace he needs. I know that you have tried Risperidone; however, I prefer Abilify because it controls the hyperactive phase of psychological irritability much better. I advise you to consult with your family doctor for more information on Abilify to decide whether or not it's the right choice for you.<br />
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	<strong>Q: Last Saturday my brother-in-law came to talk to me about how good you are and that you have an Autistic son just like mine. My son Lucas was diagnosed with autism last year, and I wanted to ask you what your opinion is on ABA therapy versus the Son-Rise method. Thank you so much, and like always, you are the best! - Marta</strong><br />
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	A: Marta, thank you for your kind words. I have to say that I believe ABA therapy has had the best success in treating autistic children, especially very early on. ABA, short for applied behavior analysis, encourages and improves social behaviors by using experimentation to identify variables that will cause changes in behavior. In a 2007 report, the American Academy of Pediatrics said the benefit of ABA-based interventions in autism spectrum disorders has been well documented and that "children who receive early intensive behavioral treatment have been shown to make substantial, sustained gains in IQ, language, academic performance, and adaptive behavior as well as some measures of social behavior." Overall, I believe the data on ABA is quite strong, and the majority of doctors around the country who work with autistic children are more experienced with ABA therapy.<br />
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	The Son-Rise method, for those who are interested, is more focused on relationships and creating a calming, accepting environment for autistic children, where parents mirror the child's repetitive behaviors such as rocking, spinning or hand-flapping.<br />
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	For more <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/04/18/qa-autism-dr-manny/#ixzz1Kv4W2LvQ" target="_blank">answers</a> to your health-related questions, please email drmanny@foxnews.com.<br />
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Epilepsy and autism. Either condition, by itself, is a raw deal. Together, however, they can be deadly.<br />
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BusinessWeek reports people with both conditions face <a href="http://www.businessweek.com/lifestyle/content/healthday/651985.html" target="_blank">an 800 percent higher chance of dying</a> than people who have just one or the other.<br />
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Researchers reached this grim assessment after studying brain tissue donated to the Autism Speaks Autism Tissue Program. According to BusinessWeek, they found that 39 percent of the donors with autism also had epilepsy. That's a lot higher than the estimated rate of epilepsy among most people with autism.<br />
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Taking data from the California State Department of Developmental Services, researchers found the prognosis for people with both conditions is usually tragic.<br />
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"This study highlights the importance of early identification of epilepsy in children with autism and of autism in children with epilepsy," Roberto Tuchman, a pediatric neurologist at Miami Children's Hospital and member of the Autism Speaks Scientific Advisory Council, tells BusinessWeek.<br />
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"The findings of this study should motivate the autism and epilepsy communities to increase their understanding of the risk factors and common mechanisms that can lead to epilepsy, autism or both epilepsy and autism. Understanding these early determinants will allow for the development of effective interventions and preventive measures and ultimately better outcomes for children with autism and epilepsy," Tuchman adds.<br />
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Clara Lajonchere, vice president of clinical programs at Autism Speaks, tells BusinessWeek that sudden, unexpected or unexplained death in autism is often, but not always related to epilepsy.<br />
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"We need to use caution when interpreting these data," Lajonchere adds. "These findings are important for understanding risk factors that may contribute to early death in individuals with autism and further underscore the need for more accurate and accessible records on cause of death in this population."<br />
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Moms of kids with <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/new-news-autism-treatments-what-works-what-doesnt/6-a-338180#comments" target="_blank">autism</a> usually try everything under the sun -- from <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/truth-about-vaccines-and-autism-1/6-b-141741" target="_blank">medications to diets</a> to behavioral therapies -- to help their kids. But there's new guidance in the world of autism treatment: A report in the most recent issue of <a href="http://www.aap.org/advocacy/releases/apr411studies.htm#autisminterventions" target="_blank">Pediatrics</a> says that while medications can be a mixed bag, behavioral interventions can help -- a lot.<br />
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Researchers at Vanderbilt University reviewed the evidence behind drugs, injections of the hormone secretin, and behavioral therapies. What they found: Antidepressants (such as Prozac) and stimulants (such as Ritalin) don't help autistic children and neither does secretin. And while the anti-psychotic drugs risperidone and aripiprazole decreased kids' hyperactivity and irritability, they also caused serious side effects, such as weight gain and sedation.<br />
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On the other hand, children who received intense behavioral intervention -- working one-on-one with a therapist at least 25 hours a week -- made moderate to huge improvements in their IQ, language, and social skills. Since kids on the autism spectrum vary widely in their abilities, there's hardly a one-size-fits-all approach and the report looked at studies of several methods. Experts generally agree, however, that the earlier a child can get therapy, the better.<br />
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Children who suffer certain types of migraine headaches may have a common congenital heart defect.<br />
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According to U.S. News &amp; World Report, researchers at the Primary Children's Medical Center in Salt Lake City may have <a href="http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/brain-and-behavior/articles/2011/03/31/common-birth-defect-may-be-linked-  to-migraine-with-aura" target="_blank">found a link between migraines and a heart defect</a> in the wall between the heart's two upper chambers.<br />
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Known as patent foramen ovale (PFO), the defect is common -- affecting about one in four people in the United States. It can, is some cases, allow unfiltered blood to bypass the lungs and circulate through the body.<br />
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The magazine reports researchers studied 109 children aged 6 to 18 who were diagnosed with migraines between 2008 and 2009.<br />
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They found that 50 percent of the children who had migraines with aura had a PFO. A migraine with aura means the headache came with additional symptoms, mostly commonly visual distortions. The percentage of young migraine sufferers with a PFO is nearly double that of the general population, according to the magazine.<br />
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Dr. Rachel McCandless of the Primary Children's Medical Center tells U.S. News &amp; World Report that only a fourth of the children with migraines <em>without</em> aura had a PFO.<br />
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Officials for a Florida school district are saying that parents protesting efforts to protect one student from a <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/03/11/peanut-allergies/">peanut allergy</a> is -- in a nutshell -- all a big misunderstanding.<br />
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A student at Edgewater Elementary School, part of the Volusia County School District in DeLand, Fla., has such a severe food allergy that her first-grade classmates are asked to wash their hands before entering their classrooms in the morning and again at lunch.<br />
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They also were required to rinse their mouths after lunch, but district spokeswoman Nancy Wait tells ParentDish that requirement was recently changed to simply wiping their faces with a wet cloth -- a change made even <em>before</em> parents decided to protest the district's efforts to keep the unnamed female student safe.<br />
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"The same procedures were in place last year, and they have been in place all of this year," Wait says. "This is really a misunderstanding by some parents."<br />
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Some parents are saying the hand-washing is taking away from the children's instructional time, FoxNews.com reports, and some <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/03/15/amid-protest-florida-school-stands-tough-new-peanut-allergy-regulations/?test=faces" target="_blank">picketed the school last week</a>, carrying signs that read, "Our Kids Have Rights Too."<br />
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"On average, it's probably taking a good 30 minutes out of the day. That's my child's education. Thirty minutes could be a whole subject," Carrie Starkey tells FoxNews.com. "We understand that they need to protect this girl, but these measures are just extreme. Procedures need to be set in place, but not procedures that will take away from our children's education."<br />
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But Wait says that simply isn't the case, adding that while she understands parents' concerns over the loss of instructional time, in general "washing hands is a good thing."<br />
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"It does take a little bit of time and there is a legitimate concern about cutting down instructional time," she tells ParentDish.<br />
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The teachers in the two classrooms affected have the process down to a science, Wait adds. Girls and boys line up at separate sinks and wash their hands and faces as efficiently as possible.<br />
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Parents also believed that peanut butter was banned from the school and that outside food was no longer welcome at holiday parties, all in service of one child's needs.<br />
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"Some people seem to believe that there aren't any peanut butter and jelly sandwiches being served in the cafeteria, but that isn't true," Wait says.<br />
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As for the parties, Wait tells ParentDish that it was a decision made by the teachers to focus the holiday celebrations around crafts instead of food, for general health and wellness reasons.<br />
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She adds that there was additional confusion over the fact that the first-graders are no longer being served a morning snack -- and that some parents even believed that teachers were washing their children's hands and faces with Clorox wipes.<br />
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Instead, Wait says, desks are wiped down with the cleaning cloths and snack time was nixed for scheduling reasons.<br />
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"There is no snack this year at the first-grade level, and some parents thought that was because of the peanut allergy," she tells ParentDish. "But it's because of where their lunch time falls. There's just no time to eat a snack beforehand."<br />
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Wait says district officials are taking one-on-one meetings with the upset parents to explain the rationale behind the preventative measures, and that there are four children at Edgewater Elementary who are sensitive to peanuts.<br />
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The little girl who sparked the controversy is the only student whose allergy is life-threatening -- and, under the Americans With Disabilities Act, the district is legally obliged to accommodate her medical needs.<br />
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Each student who falls under the purview of the ADA has a medical plan, developed in conjunction with his or her physicians, on file with the school. Wait says the school is required to comply with that plan.<br />
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This particular pupil's medical plan also called for a peanut-sniffing dog to search the school, looking for traces of the nut. Wait says that did, indeed, take place last week, while the students were on spring break.<br />
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The bottom line, Wait tells ParentDish, is that the district does whatever it can to balance the needs of one against the needs of many.<br />
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"We have moved so far beyond isolating children with disabilities," she says. "We are required to provide her with an education and to make accommodations for her disability."<br />
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David Bailey, the father of the unnamed student, could not be reached for comment. He did, however, tell FoxNews.com that he kept his daughter home on the day of the protests.<br />
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"They are against her," Bailey tells FoxNews.com. "This is all against her."<br />
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<a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/42119444/ns/health-allergies_and_asthma/" target="_blank">Kids with asthma</a> may have to spend less quality time with their inhalers next fall if Omalizumab delivers.<br />
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That's not an alien overlord from a new video game. Omalizumab is a powerful asthma medication for teenagers and adults who don't respond to other treatments. Although normally reserved for severe cases, the drug now shows promise among young children with only moderate symptoms.<br />
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MSNBC reports researchers found the drug decreased the number of days inner-city kids experienced asthma attacks and reduced the need for other meds.<br />
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The study "raises the possibility that (the drug) could be used for short periods of time just before and during the fall asthma epidemic season," study researcher Suzanne Steinbach, an associate professor of pediatrics at Boston University School of Medicine, tells MSNBC.<br />
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During the fall season, the amount of pollen and mold in the air changes. Temperatures dip. And every chapter of the International Association of Yucky Germs wants to hold its convention in your respiratory system.<br />
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Study researcher Dr. William Busse, an allergy and immunology researcher at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, tells MSNBC researchers will conduct another study next year to see if Omalizumab lessens asthma symptoms when given once a month.<br />
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Participants in the first study had <a href="http://www.aolhealth.com/health-concern/asthma-in-teens-and-adults/references" target="_blank">allergic asthma</a>. This is the most common form of asthma, afflicting more than half of the 20 million Americans with the condition. It's triggered by dust, pollen and other allergens. Sufferers cough, wheeze and have trouble breathing as their airways become inflamed.<br />
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MSNBC reports inner-city kids live an environment rife with asthma triggers. And those suckers have legs. Aside from the usual dust and pollen, you got your dust mites, cockroaches and rodents.<br />
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Researchers looked at 419 children and teens from eight cities with moderate to severe allergic asthma. Participants were injected with Omalizumab or a placebo every two to four weeks for 60 weeks.<br />
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MSNBC reports those who took the drug saw a 25 percent reduction in the number of days they experienced symptoms compared to those who took the placebo. They also had 30 percent fewer asthma attacks and experienced a 75 percent reduction in hospitalizations, Steinbach tells the network.<br />
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Wanda Phipatanakul, an allergy and immunology researcher at Children's Hospital Boston who was not involved in the study, tells MSNBC the findings are good news.<br />
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"Anything that can help such a chronic debilitating disease, particularly as we know is a big problem in inner-city children, is exciting," Phipatanakul tells the network.<br />
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Let's say you have a child with disabilities who has cognitive delays, and when people jokingly uses the word "retard" to call someone stupid, it bothers you.<br />
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Let's say that in honor of <a href="http://www.r-word.org/" target="_blank">Spread The Word To End The Word Day</a>, which was this week, you decide to do a little project: For a few days you will message people on Twitter who use the word "retard" and let them know the r-word is derogatory to <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/special-needs/">people with disabilities</a>.<br />
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You don't actually expect the word to disappear anytime soon or that people will instantly chop it out of their vocabularies. But maybe, just maybe, you can raise a little awareness. You will set up alerts for tweets that contain "retard."<br />
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And you will find that there are so many mentions of the word -- thousands a day -- this could be your full-time job. People in the U.S., England, Germany, the Netherlands, and Kuwait say the word. Men, women, teens (lots and lots of teens), people of all races and all spelling abilities.<br />
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You will not fault people for their use of the r-word, because the term has become slang. They don't <i>mean</i> to malign people with disabilities. Heck, you used to call annoying situations "retarded" before you understood.<br />
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You have no problem with the words "stupid" or "dumb" or worse. Sure, call your friends names if you'd like, it's your conversation. But maybe you don't have to toss around the word "retard." Or say even worse things:<br />
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When you're sending a message limited to 140 characters, you'd expect that some people won't get what's so wrong. You can't get into explanations of how equating people doing stupid or blockheaded stuff ("I'm a retard for forgetting my wallet!") with people who have intellectual disabilities insults them, and how it perpetuates stereotypes. You'd expect most people to ignore you, which they do.<br />
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You'd expect some to be defensive, as the very act of tweeting at them is confrontational, even though you try to keep your tweets even-handed: Hi. Mom of kids with disabilities here. The word "retard" is demeaning. But still, you will be surprised by how people dig in their heels:<br />
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And when you go on Urban Dictionary, look up "photo wrecker" and read the description -- "A retarded or disabled person" -- you will sob. Because you're furious and you're dejected.<br />
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And because for the first time in your life, you fear how people may one day treat your son when you are not around to protect him. You will feel sorry you started this project. But you will not be able to stop. Those alerts for "retard" will keep popping up. Forty six alerts, 373 alerts, 1,452 when you wake up one morning.<br />
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... and some will laugh at you.<br />
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And you will get a few apologies and acknowledgments, and hope your message sticks.
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And then, you will read yet another tweet: Don't worry, I won't hold your incredible stupidity against you. Still love you bro. #retard. You will tweet him and point out that the word is demeaning to people with disabilities. And he will tweet:<br />
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And you will feel a little bit of hope. The day you are done, you will get an email from one Lars who tells you that last week his organization launched <a href="http://thesocialchallenge.org/" target="_blank">The Social Challenge</a>.<br />
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Through that site, you can anonymously "challenge" Twitter r-word users. But then, you will feel proud that you did this on your own. For all the times you felt sick to your stomach to see a string of smiling faces jokingly calling people "retard," for all the nasty responses you got and for all the non-responses, you will know that even if you've changed a few people's minds, your efforts will have been worth it.<br />
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<em><em>Ellen Seidman is a freelance editor and writer who blogs about raising kids with special needs at</em> <a href="http://www.lovethatmax.com/" target="_blank">Love That Max</a>, where this post originally appeared.</em><br />
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With the current organ donation system, there is a list. When an organ, such as a <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/02/10/wake-forest-baseball-coach-donates-kidney-to-player/">kidney</a>, becomes available, it's first-come, first-served. But some think that's not fair to younger patients.<br />
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According to published reports, the way the list is handled is being studied by the United Network for Organ Sharing.<br />
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The proposal, which is now available for public comment, is more specific than simply giving the youngest person on the list the donated organ. "Under one scenario, for 80 percent of kidneys, patients 15 years older or younger than the donor would get higher priority," the <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2011/02/23/AR2011022306875.html" target="_blank">Washington Post</a> reports. "The remaining 20 percent of organs -- those deemed to have the best chance of lasting the longest based on the age and health of the donor and other factors -- would be given to recipients with the best chances of living the longest based on criteria such as their age, how long they've been on dialysis and whether they have diabetes."<br />
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On the surface, this seems fair. A younger person has a better shot at living a longer life, right? But try telling that to someone who has been on the list for years and gets bumped just because someone is younger.<br />
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It's a complicated issue. But what do you think? Should children get organ donations first? Or should the system remain the way it is?<br />
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Across the country, parents of children with <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/tag/autism/">autism</a> regularly battle local school districts to secure the best possible education for their child. But in New Jersey, a proposed state initiative and some innovative approaches to special education look to improve both the quality and quantity of special education these children receive.<br />
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At Woodrow Wilson Middle School in Edison, N.J., children with autism or multiple learning disabilities step out of the classroom and into the business world on Friday mornings. Setting up in the home economics room, 12 students in a special education class run a coffee shop, selling coffee, tea, doughnuts, cookies and cupcakes to the school's staff -- even delivering to classrooms on request, the <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/02/19/education/19autism.html?_r=1&amp;nl=nyregion&amp;emc=ura3" target="_blank">New York Times</a> reports.<br />
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Since October, the children have rung up more than $1,000 in sales at the shop, which was developed by teacher Thomas Macchiaverna to help encourage social skills, instill business acumen and impart life lessons.<br />
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The students -- all boys between 11 and 13 years old -- take turns doing the various jobs, like cashiering or delivering orders, which helps bolster a range of different skills. But Macchiaverna tells The Times that, above all else, the students get to practice people skills at the shop, where the customers can sometimes be demanding.<br />
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"The overall goal here is to make these kids functional members of society," Macchiaverna tells The Times. "It's a different avenue than the standard educational curriculum. It's outside the box, which you have to be with this kind of program."<br />
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As diagnoses for autism spectrum disorders have risen in New Jersey, the number of special education students in public schools has increased 3.5 percent to 199,207 since 2008, The Times reports. In Edison, where 80 of the 850 students receive special education services, the coffee shop is an example of the way schools across the state are trying to expand their special education programs to better meet the needs of students with autism and severe learning disabilities.<br />
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In Northern Burlington Regional High Schools in Columbus, N.J., special education students run an auto-detailing shop at the school, cleaning cars for parents and school staff. And at Southern Regional High School in Manahawkin, N.J., autistic students started their own ice cream business and a gardening center where they grow and sell plants and vegetables, The Times reports.<br />
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Yet, there are but a handful of successful programs like these in the state. To address this issue, New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie recently proposed the creation of more public schools devoted to children with autism. For school districts, this would help lessen the financial burden of special education, while providing students with a more consistent level of instruction.<br />
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Although the coffee shop met with some early challenges in the fall, the students have settled into a comfortable routine and the teachers love it.<br />
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"It's not about the coffee or the cookies," school Principal Patricia Cotoia tells The Times. "It's about the interaction and seeing how capable the kids are."<br />
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<em>Dear AdviceMama,<br />
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My ADHD son has impulse problems. He is 13 years old and his behavior drives other children away. His teachers are beyond frustrated. Any advice on what to do?</em><br />
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<em>Signed,<br />
Frustrated Mom</em><br />
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Dear Frustrated,<br />
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The pre-frontal cortex (PFC) is the part of the brain behind the forehead that governs the inhibitory response in human beings. It creates a pause between having an impulse, and acting on it.<br />
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In the ADD-ish children and teens I've worked with, I almost always see up to a 30 percent developmental lag between a child's actual age and their PFC developmental function. In other words, while your child may officially be 13 years old, (and might be quite mature in some respects) he may be more like an 8 or 9-year-old when it comes to controlling his impulsive behavior.<br />
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Given how frequently he frustrates friends and teachers, he's probably highly sensitive to feeling scolded or reined in by those who try to force him to "act his age." Any effort you make to teach him how to behave more appropriately will have to come across as helpful rather than critical or shaming.<br />
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Here's my advice:<br />
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o. Make sure your child sees you as his ally and champion, rather than a source of non-stop criticism. The more he feels safe to confide in you, the more receptive he'll be to asking for better strategies when he gets into trouble or alienates a new friend.<br />
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o. Give your son plenty of opportunity to participate in activities he loves that come easily to him and fuel his self-confidence (other than video games or TV). Many impulsive children feel they're constantly failing or disappointing others, which keeps them in a state of stress that fuels their misbehavior.<br />
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o. Make sure your teen is getting plenty of sleep, good nutrition, fish oils, and lots of time out in nature. All these elements have been proven to help ADD-ish children function better and are especially important when you fold adolescent hormones into the mix!<br />
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o. Role play alternative approaches he can take when he's feeling restless in class and tempted to become disruptive, or when he becomes impatient with a friend and feels like saying something mean. Repeated practice -- in small doses -- often helps impulsive children stretch out that pause between wanting to do something and deciding it's not a good idea.<br />
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As frustrating as it is to have to deal with your son's mishaps, the more you accept him as is -- rather than comparing him to what I call your ideal, "snapshot child" -- the better able you'll be to gradually help him try new ways of interacting with friends more patiently, or holding his tongue in class when he feels the urge to blurt something out.<br />
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Yours in parenting support,<br />
AdviceMama<br />
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	If your child has been identified as having an <a href="http://www.aolhealth.com/2010/04/20/questions-about-autism/" target="_blank">autism spectrum disorder</a>, you're likely well aware of the range of medical, mental health and case management services available to help meet your family's needs.<br />
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	However, the use of these autism support services by young adults with spectrum disorders appears to decline after high school, according to a report published today in the <a href="http://archpedi.ama-assn.org/" target="_blank">Archives of Pediatrics &amp; Adolescent Medicine</a>.<br />
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	The number of young adults in the U.S. with an autism spectrum disorder is <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/13/on-ramp-to-autism-do-freeways-trigger-autism/">rapidly increasing</a> as ever-larger groups of children diagnosed with the condition are now getting older and passing through adolescence, according to background information cited by the authors.<br />
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	The authors note this trend is especially visible in special education enrollment figures, where the number of students aged 12 to 17 years classified in the autism eligibility category increased dramatically from 15,480 in 1998 to 99,893 in 2007.<br />
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	Though it is unclear whether this surge in numbers reflects an actual increase in children afflicted with autism spectrum disorder or an improvement in diagnostic practices, the authors say the distinction need not be addressed in the current study.<br />
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	"Regardless of the root cause, the facts remain that treated prevalence is increasing and that the implications of this trend for service systems are poorly understood," the authors write.<br />
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	The data was taken from a nationwide telephone survey of parents and guardians of young adults, aged 19 to 23 years, who have an autism spectrum disorder; the survey was conducted from April 2007 to February 2008.<br />
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	The report revealed the rates of service use ranged from 9.1 percent for speech therapy to 41.9 percent for case management. Other services utilized by survey participants included medical services (23.5 percent) and mental health services (35 percent). Strikingly, over 39 percent of youths in the survey had not received any of these surveys.<br />
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	The rates reported for the young adults included in the survey are lower than figures gathered six years earlier, when all the patients polled were still in high school. At that time, 46.2 percent received mental health services, 46.9 percent received medical services, 74.6 percent were getting speech therapy and 63.6 percent reported having a case manager.<br />
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	The authors also found that African American youths were three times less likely than white youth to receive any of the services in question, and families with incomes of $25,000 or less were nearly six times less likely to receive any services when compared with those making $75,000 or more.<br />
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	In addition, those making $25,000 or less were nearly six times less likely to use case management services, compared to those with incomes of $75,000 or greater.<br />
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	"Rates of service disengagement are high after exiting high school. Disparities by race and socioeconomic status indicate a need for targeted outreach and services," the authors conclude. "This study represents an important step in the process of building a foundation of evidence that can help improve services and foster independence and health among youths with autism spectrum disorders."<br />
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			Food allergies could be causing your child's ADHD symptoms. Credit: Achim Sass, Getty</p>
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If your child has been diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), you may want to consider an alternative course of treatment suggested by a new research study.<br />
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The study, published today in <a href="http://www.thelancet.com/" target="_blank">The Lancet</a>, a leading medical journal, suggests that a special restricted diet -- known as the restricted elimination diet -- should be part of the standard of care for all <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/26/what-are-the-signs-my-child-may-have-adhd/">children with ADHD</a>.<br />
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ADHD affects 5 percent of children worldwide, the authors note, and it involves both genetic and environmental factors.<br />
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Currently, ADHD is treated with a combination of <a href="http://www.nami.org/Template.cfm?Section=About_Treatments_and_Supports&amp;template=/ContentManagement/ContentDisplay.cfm&amp;ContentID=9546" target="_blank">psychoeducation</a>, parent training, child behavioral interventions and drugs, but these treatments have been shown to have limited long-term effects, according to the researchers.<br />
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Citing previous research that has looked at adverse reactions to foods on bodily systems -- like eczema, asthma and gastrointestinal problems -- the authors suggest that foods might also affect the brain, causing adverse behavioral effects.<br />
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In other words, the researchers suggest that ADHD might actually be an allergic or nonallergic hypersensitivity in some children that can be triggered by any types of foods that can cause allergic reactions.<br />
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To test this theory, the current study followed two groups of 50 children, aged 4 to 8 years, over the course of five weeks, one group followed an elimination diet while the other was given instructions for a general healthy diet. The children who reacted favorably to the restricted diet during the five weeks were then assigned to a second phase of the study, where two different groups of foods were added to the elimination diet, one after the other.<br />
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One of the groups contained foods that induced high levels of immunoglobulin G (IgG) in their blood while the other group contained low IgG foods. <a href="http://www.aolhealth.com/conditions/immunoglobulin-g-igg-antibodies" target="_blank">Immunoglobulin G</a> antibodies are proteins made by the body's immune system that attack and destroy things that are foreign to the body, such as bacteria and viruses, so are very important in fighting infections.<!--START POLL CODE--><br />
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The purpose of this phase of the study was to find out if igG blood tests are useful in identifying foods that trigger ADHD.<br />
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While previous studies have shown a connection between food and ADHD, the authors note that they were either based on too few subjects or only included children who were known to have allergies, which would prevent their results from being applicable to the general population -- in contrast to the current study.<br />
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"Our study shows comparable effect sizes in patients who are representative of the general ADHD population, supporting the implementation of a dietary intervention in the standard of care for all children with ADHD," the authors write.<br />
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The results suggest that dietary intervention should be considered in all children with ADHD, as long as parents are willing to follow a strict elimination diet for a five-week period under expert supervision, so that parents can be assured their growing child will not suffer from nutritional deficiencies as a result of the restricted diet.<br />
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"Children who react favorably to this diet should be diagnosed with food-induced ADHD and should enter a challenge procedure, to define which foods each child reacts to, and to increase the feasibility and to minimize the burden of the diet," the researchers write.<br />
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However, they conclude that standard treatments such as drugs and behavioral treatments should be pursued for children who do not show behavioral improvements after following the diet.<br />
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If anyone needs proof that children are larger than life, this story should provide it.<br />
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About a month ago, Mary Lamantia was perusing Facebook when she saw a post declaring her son was a hero.<br />
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Walter Wetzel, 17, from a nearby Chicago suburb, had written an emotional tribute to the little boy with the infectious smile who would regularly sashay into his chemo room pretending to be Spider-Man, spinning webs of good cheer.<br />
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His name was Ryan Lamantia. Their paths crossed nearly eight years ago in the waiting room of <a href="http://www.childrensmemorial.org/  " target="_blank">Children's Memorial Hospital</a> in Chicago, when Walter began making silly faces at the little boy sitting across from him, the <a href="http://triblocal.com/huntley/2011/01/10/unlikely-hero-how-a-little-boy-with-cancer-became-a-hero-chicagotribune-com/" target="_blank">Chicago Tribune</a> reports, and the pair quickly became buddies. Ryan was 3 at the time, and had a brain tumor. Walter was 9 and battling leukemia.<br />
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During his hospital stay, Ryan, who loved Spider-Man and the color red, became known as "Spidey," the little kid with so much fight for life who would race around the hospital halls waving to all the doctors and nurses.<br />
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Walter went into remission and the two lost contact. Today, Walter is an Elgin, Ill., teen who loves playing football and snowboarding. Ryan died from a malignant brain tumor on Sept. 8, 2005.<br />
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			Walter Wetzel hugs Sarah Lamantia as her father, Todd, watches on January 5, 2011, in Lake in the Hills, Illinois. Wetzel, who has been in remission from Leukemia for four years, visited the Lamantias to tell them their son Ryan inspired him to battle his illness and survive. Credit: Keri Wiginton, Chicago Tribune / MCT</p>
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But Walter would never forget the little boy, who, he tells the Tribune, inspired him to beat his own cancer.<br />
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"Seeing him happy all the time made me happy," he tells the newspaper. "How could I be upset if he had it so much worse than me?"<br />
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In December 2010, Walter and his mom, Erzsi Gemzsi, decided to seek out the little boy who had provided so much inspiration. On Facebook, they learned Ryan had died.<br />
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"I have wanted nothing more than to talk to (Ryan's) parents and tell them (their) son is my hero. ... My trips to (the hospital) were always dreadful, until the day I (met) Ryan," Walter wrote on the Lamantia family's Facebook page, the Tribune reports.<br />
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Lamantia, 37, of Lake in the Hills, Ill., tells ParentDish seeing the note filled her with pride.<br />
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"At first, it took me a while to digest, and then, after I stopped crying, I knew I had to reach out to Walter," she says. "We always knew Ryan was special, but to have someone who was so young battling his own cancer be able to tell you your son was their inspiration to survive their leukemia, there are just no words to describe this feeling. And, for Walter, at 9 years old, to see someone else's struggles were worse than his own? Wow, what an incredible young man."<br />
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It turns out the families live less than 20 miles away from each other in Chicago's Northwest suburbs. The families set up a meeting in December, and Walter had a chance to meet Ryan's sisters -- Alyssa, 8, who wasn't even a year old when her brother was diagnosed, and 16-month-old Sarah Ryann.<br />
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"Walter has brought new hope to our lives," Lamantia tells Parent Dish. "I really believe everyone has a purpose in life and now I finally know what the purpose was of Ryan passing away. Ryan will keep on living through Walter and the inspiration both of them will bring into the lives of other children and families."<br />
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Walter wasn't the only person who recalled Ryan's perpetual effervescence and heart of gold.<br />
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"He was a little superhero," Wendy Stellpflug, a nurse at Children's Memorial Hospital and the brain tumor coordinator, tells the Tribune.<br />
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Lamantia describes to ParentDish a family video of Ryan playing soccer at age 3.<br />
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"All the kids were dribbling the soccer ball to the goal, and a kid fell down. All the other children kept running towards the goal but our son stopped, went back to the little boy and asked him if he was OK," she tells ParentDish.<br />
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During Ryan's initial diagnosis in February of 2003, doctors told his family he had a "sugarcoating" of cancer throughout his brain and down his spine. The first round of chemo landed him in the intensive care unit, nearly killing him.<br />
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At the hospital, Ryan's parents held his hand and tried to ease the pain. The playroom became his haven. He carried a Buzz Lightyear toy around with him, spoke incessantly of the band of crime-fighting turtles and channeled Spider-Man every way he could.<br />
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"I can close my eyes and see him coming down the hall, shooting his spiderweb at me," Dr. Stewart Goldman, medical director of the hospital's neuro-oncology department who treated Ryan, tells the Tribune.<br />
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Lamantia and her husband, Todd, have have been in contact with Walter and his mom on Facebook almost every day, and Walter and his mother will play a major role in organizing an upcoming fundraiser for the <a href="http://ryanlf.org/default.aspx " target="_blank">Ryan Lamantia Foundation</a> planned for April 9 at <a href="http://www.dtpd.org/pages/golf.html " target="_blank">Randall Oaks Golf Club</a> in West Dundee, Ill. The Foundation raises money to restock the toy chests at Children's Memorial.<br />
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"Walter is one of the nicest and kindest teenagers we have ever met," Lamantia tells ParentDish. "He told us we are being modest because if it was not for us, Ryan would not have 'been here.' He makes me cry every time he says something. But it is a good cry."<br />
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Alyssa, who was a baby when her brother was diagnosed, "looks forward to having Walter in her life," Lamantia says. "She sees a part of Ryan in him."<br />
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On his basic information section on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=1297744342 " target="_blank">Facebook</a>, Walter pays special tribute to his friend.<br />
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"Ryan Lamantia, You will always have a place in my heart," he writes. "Rest in peace buddy."<!-- Start Playerseed for video: 326730280 --><br />
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	 </p><p style="clear: both; padding: 8px 0 0 0; height: 2px; font-size: 1px; border: 0; margin: 0; padding: 0;"> </p><p><a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/14/boy-becomes-unexpected-superhero-inspiring-others-after-his-dea/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent link to this entry">Permalink</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/forward/19801622/" title="Send this entry to a friend via email">Email this</a> | <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/14/boy-becomes-unexpected-superhero-inspiring-others-after-his-dea/#comments" title="View reader comments on this entry">Comments</a></p>]]></description><category>amazing kid</category><category>AmazingKid</category><category>cancer</category><category>facebook</category><dc:creator>Mary Beth Sammons</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 13:50:00 EST</pubDate></item><item><title>On Ramp to Autism: Do Freeways Trigger Autism?</title><link>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/13/on-ramp-to-autism-do-freeways-trigger-autism/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/13/on-ramp-to-autism-do-freeways-trigger-autism/</guid><comments>http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/13/on-ramp-to-autism-do-freeways-trigger-autism/#comments</comments><description><![CDATA[<p>Filed under: <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/medical-conditions/" rel="tag">Medical Conditions</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/opinions/" rel="tag">Opinions</a>, <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/category/pregnancy-health/" rel="tag">Pregnancy Health</a></p><p>
	Pregnant women living near freeways were almost twice as likely to have a child later diagnosed with autism, the neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by deficits in social interaction and communication.<br />
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	The freeway hypothesis sounds reasonable: Pollution bad and fetuses fragile, alas, autism.<br />
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	What better place to test it than California, land of abundant freeways, environmental awareness and celebrity autism activist Jenny McCarthy. Our freeway <a href="http://ehp03.niehs.nih.gov/article/info:doi/10.1289/ehp.1002835" target="_blank">study</a> comes from a larger project on the origins of autism, CHARGE -- <a href="http://ehp03.niehs.nih.gov/article/fetchArticle.action?articleURI=info%3Adoi%2F10.1289%2Fehp.8483" target="_blank">The Childhood Autism Risks from Genetics and the Environment Study</a>. The researchers pulled data out for over 500 preschoolers around Los Angeles, Sacramento and San Francisco. Then they calculated how far the mothers lived from a freeway or major roadway at each trimester in pregnancy. The children whose mothers lived the closest to the freeways during the third trimester were 86 percent more likely to be diagnosed with autism.<br />
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	Sounds alarming.<br />
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	But notice <em>third trimester</em>. It wasn't any riskier near highways in utero during the beginning or middle of pregnancy. I bet the researchers checked several other time periods (e.g., before pregnancy, after birth, each month thereafter). This report only includes the trimesters so I suspect the others didn't pan out. Nobody holds back significant results that bolster their case.<br />
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	Now look at <em>closest</em>. These kids were gestated less than one-fifth of a mile from freeways. They were more at risk than those almost a mile away. But here's the weird part. Living near a heavily-traveled road, which might include a freeway, didn't raise the risk. How close? Within 46 yards. That's less than the width of a football field, from say produce to poultry at the supermarket. Apparently sleeping on the shoulder of a major roadway is not any riskier. Freeway pollution from a further distance seems more harmful than major road pollution practically in your bedroom. Doesn't make a lot of sense.<br />
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	Maybe it's simply a matter of traffic volume and thus freeways producing more traffic and air pollution.<br />
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	Air pollution.<br />
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	Study didn't measure it. Not around freeways, neighborhoods or wombs. Nor the level of traffic, noise or population density. What do we often find next to interstates around urban areas? Apartment buildings, condos, and housing developments. That's plenty of people per square mile. If lots of folks live near highways we can't be surprised to find more kids with autism too.<br />
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	We need to know more about the origins of autism, but, I'm always wary when data get pulled from larger studies. A wealth of numbers and such means it's easier to find significant results. With each analysis there's an increased chance of a false positive, in other words, a freak significant result. It's an epidemiological grab-bag, a fishing expedition. <em>Oh look, we got one!</em><br />
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	I'm also suspicious because there's only one significant result. Throw in the lack of higher risks nearer the major roads, the missing estimates for air pollution and population density and I'm not convinced this research is on the right path, road or route. It's messier than the 101 at rush-hour.<br />
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	My advice? Don't start packing yet if you live just off the interstate.</p>
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		A columnist in the Philadelphia Daily News <a href="http://www.philly.com/dailynews/features/gossip/20110112_Jenice_Armstrong__Where_are_the_parents_.html" target="_blank">asks</a> the following: "At the risk of sounding harsh, how could the parents of accused shooter <a href="http://www.parentdish.com/tag/jared+loughner/">Jared Lee Loughner</a> have missed so many signs that their son was a major safety threat?"</div>
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<a href="http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/11/parents-of-arizona-shooting-suspect-devastated-neighbor-says/">Loughner's parents released a statement</a> and "they sound as perplexed as the rest of us," according to <a href="http://www.newser.com/story/109517/loughner-parents-we-dont-know-why-this-happened.html" target="_blank">Newser</a>.<br />
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Anyone with a child knows that we can't know exactly why they do what they do. Then again, we're not talking about staying out past curfew here. Shouldn't Loughner's parents have had some idea of what he was capable of?<br />
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As far as I know, this isn't a legal question. Loughner is an adult, and news <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/12/us/12legal.html?ref=jaredleeloughner" target="_blank">coverage</a> of his pending trial has focused on whether or not he will try and use an insanity defense in order to avoid the death penalty. Still, asking whether Loughner's parents are to be blamed at all for what happened is not a completely unfair question (although it is more than a bit harsh).<br />
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So what do you think? Should Jared Loughner's parents share any of the blame for his actions?<br />
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	There was a terrible thing that happened in Arizona last weekend. <a href="http://www.aolnews.com/2011/01/08/congresswoman-gabrielle-giffords-shot-in-arizona/" target="_blank">A terrible thing</a>.<br />
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	The person who caused that terrible thing to happen appears to suffer from some type of serious mental illness. Things this person had written, which were nonsensical and bizarre, spread like wildfire, thanks to their easy accessibility on the Internet. Former friends and classmates shared stories of odd behavior. Then, like clockwork, many in the media began tossing around words like "crazy people" and "nuts" and "lunatic" and "madman."<br />
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	Did they talk about the mental health system? No. Did they share statistics on mental illness and violence? No. Did they think twice about how their words might prevent people from seeking help? No.<em> </em>The media never give a second thought to furthering stigma.<br />
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	They speak as though violence and mental illness are directly correlated. They aren't. As Vaughan Bell explained in <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2280619/" target="_blank">his piece on the Arizona shooting on Slate.com</a>, " ... your chance of being murdered by a stranger with schizophrenia is so vanishingly small that a recent study of four Western countries put the figure at one in 14.3 million. To put it in perspective, statistics show you are about three times more likely to be killed by a lightning strike."<br />
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	<em>I'd add that you are probably more likely to be killed by lightning than hear a reporter correctly report a story on mental illness, but ...</em><br />
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	I've been thinking a lot about what I would write about the terrible thing in Arizona. The murder of innocent people on a sunny day. The death of a promising young girl born just three days after my own son. It became difficult to find the right words, though, with my head swimming with broadcast accusations and finger pointing.<br />
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	Then I read a post from Heather Armstrong at her blog Dooce. Heather put into words EXACTLY what's been going through my own mind. Not political parties. Not even guns. Not anything but sadness, and <a href="http://dooce.com/2011/01/10/dialogue" target="_blank">Heather's words</a>. She writes, "If any good dialogue comes out of this mess, please let part of it be about mental illness and access to treatment." I had been so confused by all the talk of politics and party discourse that I almost lost the idea that the root of this story is mental health. Heather brought it back to me.<br />
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	I don't know exactly what brought Jared Loughner to do the terrible thing and rob the world of so many beautiful lives. It seems mental illness may have played a large part, but other things may have been involved as well. While I know that the overwhelming majority of mentally ill people do no harm, a very small few with severe illnesses can if they're not being helped.<br />
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	I would hope that if people learn anything at all, it's that we have a crappy mental health system in this country, and that's being nice. While pockets of greatness and amazing psychiatric professionals and organizations certainly exist, many people do not have access to them.<br />
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	For those living in rural or poor areas, there aren't enough health care providers of any stripe, much less mental health professionals, nor are there enough services. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/01/11/pima-county-mental-health-services_n_807522.html" target="_blank">The Huffington Post reported</a> that in Pima County, Arizona, where the shooting occurred "... more than 45 percent of its mental health services recipients [were] forced off the public rolls" last year.<br />
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	Some people do not have mental health insurance coverage. If they do have it, it's often limited, with the insurance company -- and not a trained psychiatrist or therapist -- deciding how many mental health visits a person should have. In fact, insurance companies' limitations and controls over mental health have gotten so out of hand that many of the best mental health professionals in our country no longer accept insurance of any kind.<br />
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	On top of that, the stigma that exists -- the stigma that is carried along so willingly by the media -- makes people afraid to seek whatever help they <em>can</em> get. What if someone thinks they're a horrible person for having a mental illness? Could they lose their job? Their friends? What if this is used against them in some way? If they say they are suffering, will it ruin their lives? One has to wonder whether Jared Loughner's family sought help for him, or if these same thoughts crossed their minds as well and prevented them from doing so.<br />
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	As Steve Lopez, Los Angeles Times columnist and author of "The Soloist" (think Robert Downey Jr. in the movie based on the book -- that's Steve), <a href="http://www.latimes.com/health/la-me-0111-lopezcolumn-20110110,0,4005609.column" target="_blank">wrote this week</a>, "What the Arizona tragedy ought to spark is not a hysterical conversation about politics, but an honest conversation on the need for earlier diagnosis and better education about mental illness."<br />
	Not only an honest conversation, but an informed conversation that's not peppered with harmful words and overblown rhetoric. A conversation that recognizes the sorry state our mental health system is in. People need help. With it, most of them can be well.<br /><br /></p>
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