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There are lots of options when it comes to sippy cups. Credit: Getty Images

Sippy cups can be a sanity-saving bridge between the bottle and a cup, and they can give your child a bit of independence at a tender age.

Sometime before their first birthday, typically when they are around 9 months old, children may be able to hold a sippy cup and drink from it, says Ying Tarantino, marketing manager for Chandler Ariz.-based Boon Inc.

"Sippy cups are a great transition from bottle to cup," Tarantino tells Parentdish. "It's a great item until they are ready to take on a cup."

When babies can hold a cup up to their lips and drink from it, they are ready to use a sippy cup. Some things to think about include whether the cup is made using bisphenol A, or BPA, a chemical used to harden plastics and prevent bacterial growth that some sippy cup makers have moved away from. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends parents look for ways to avoid the chemical with infants and young children.

Most manufacturers recommend washing the cups in the top rack of the dishwasher and discarding them at any sign of wear. Based on your child's preferences, you can choose from models with handles, no handles, thermal, stainless, soft lip, firm lip and, of course, a variety of colors and designs.

Once children are around 3 or 4 years old, they may be ready for a traditional cup and a new transition starts. But, until then, you don't have to worry about wiping up any spilled milk.

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]]>bpaevergreensippy cupsippy-cups-bpatoddler-cupstoddlersEllen Rooney MartinWed, 09 Feb 2011 10:00:00 ESTToddler Beds: How to Choose the Right One for Your Childhttp://www.parentdish.com/2011/02/04/toddler-beds/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/02/04/toddler-beds/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/02/04/toddler-beds/#commentsFiled under: , ,

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Consider adding rails when setting up your child's toddler bed. Credit: Getty Images

Finding the right time to move your child out of the confines of a crib and into a toddler bed depends on a variety of factors, but if you do it right, everyone will get a good night's sleep.

The big move often happens when baby number two is on the way, says Dr. Paul Horowitz. That might be OK, as long as your child is 18 months old or older, and can safely get into and out of the new bed on his or her own, says the Valencia, Calif.-based pediatrician with Discovery Pediatrics.

A key issue in determining whether your child is ready for a big bed is the height of the new bed. The closer to the ground, the better, Horowitz says.

It also helps to make bedtime a regular routine with the goal of getting your child to sleep. Beds should be for sleeping, not playing, and a child needs to know to remain in bed unless they have to use the bathroom.

"A lot of families try to make beds or bedtime more entertaining than it should be," Horowitz cautions.

Other experts recommend waiting until the child is much older to transition to a toddler bed. Jodi Mindell, author of "Sleeping Through the Night," (Harper Collins, 2005) tells ParentDish she strongly recommends waiting until as close to age 3 as possible.


"It takes a lot of behavioral control to stay within those imaginary boundaries," she says. "There also has to be a cognitive understanding of the boundaries."

Even with a new baby on the way, Mindell says there's no immediate need to move the older child to a big bed. For several months at least, newborns can sleep in a bassinet and don't need a crib. Consider borrowing a crib if your child is not ready to make the move.

There are a variety of toddler bed options available, and finding the right one depends on a number of factors. Some parents may chose a toddler bed that uses the same mattress as the crib -- familiar crib sheets can provide comfort during the transition for your child. Some of these beds are closer to the ground than a traditional bed.

Parents who are moving their child to a traditional twin bed should consider not using a bed frame until the child is older, or should use removable railings for any child under 5, because they can easily fall out of bed.

"You need railings no matter what, because kids fracture their collar bone falling out of bed," Mindell says. Even if you think your child never moves while sleeping, put up railings anyway, she says.

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]]>bedtimebedtime-routinesevergreensleeptoddler bedtoddler bedsEllen Rooney MartinFri, 04 Feb 2011 15:00:00 ESTBaby's First Haircut: What You Need to Knowhttp://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/05/babys-first-haircut-what-you-need-to-know/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/05/babys-first-haircut-what-you-need-to-know/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/05/babys-first-haircut-what-you-need-to-know/#commentsFiled under: ,

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Is it time for your kid to get a trim? Credit: Getty Images

That first haircut is a major milestone in a child's life. Just like first steps and first words, it's a moment a parent never forgets.

However, unlike walking and talking, getting a haircut can be a little scary for some kids. And who can blame them? Sitting in a tall, swivel chair, wrapped in a smock with a stranger coming at you with scissors is a completely new and bewildering experience. Here's how to make it less traumatic and more enjoyable for everyone involved.

When to go: There is no right age to get that first haircut. As a parent, you will know when the length of your child's hair becomes too long. Remember: Cutting off those curls often means they won't grow back the same. Be prepared for a child who looks less like a baby and more like a toddler after that first trim.

Prepare: If you're concerned that your child is going to react badly to the experience, prepare him first. Avoid using the word "cut" when describing what will happen, as that can conjure up scary images for a child. To introduce him to the strange sights, smells and sounds of the salon or barber shop, bring him in before the big day just to observe.

Where to go: There are many salons that cater just to children. These often have fun and safe chairs for kids to sit in, toys and movies to keep them occupied and staff who are specially trained to deal with first timers.

What to bring: A favorite toy can go a long way to calming a nervous child. Give her something she cherishes to hold on to while she's getting her trim. If you want to take pictures (and what parent doesn't?), be sure to bring along a friend or family member to act as photographer. This way, you can focus on your child while your partner captures the moment.

In case of meltdown: If your child has a tantrum, it's best to stop and reschedule for another day. A bad experience with a first haircut can set a negative tone for future visits to the salon. Likewise, if your child wakes up on the wrong side of the bed on the big day, go ahead and reschedule. Better to wait a few days than needlessly traumatize your child.

Saving a lock of hair: Along with capturing the moment on film, many parents like to save a lock of hair from the first haircut. If there is enough hair, ask the barber to wrap a little bit in a small elastic before cutting.

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]]>childrens hairevergreenfirst haircuthaircutlock of hairSandy MapleWed, 05 Jan 2011 13:00:00 ESTHealthy Snacks: Tasty Ideas for Kidshttp://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/04/healthy-snacks/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/04/healthy-snacks/http://www.parentdish.com/2011/01/04/healthy-snacks/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , ,

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Healthy snacks are an important part of a kid's diet. Credit: Getty Images

As any plastic baggie-toting parent knows, healthy snacks are an important part of a child's diet.

Not only do snacks ensure that kids have enough energy to get through the day, but they also help kids get their daily nutritional requirements. That's why snacks should be as healthy as possible, says Mary Trotter, a dietitian with Nemours Health & Prevention Services in Newark, Del.

She encourages parents to prepare healthy snacks and serve them at the kitchen table.

"Snacks really should not be offered in front of the TV," she says. "It really is another meal -- a time to visit with parents or siblings."

If your children are reluctant to eat healthy snacks, tell them it will make a difference when they are playing soccer, tennis, baseball or whatever their interest is, says Elisa Zied, past spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association.

"Don't talk about it terms of health," says Zied, author of "Nutrition at Your Fingertips." "Tell them filling your body with a lot of foods that have beneficial things can help you perform better."

If your children have been in the habit of eating junk food, try offering them a similar -- but healthier -- alternative, says Trotter.

Substitute:
  • Granola bars for donuts
  • Popcorn for potato chips
  • Sorbet for ice cream
  • Dried cherries or mangos for Fruit Roll-Ups
  • Seltzer with a splash of juice for soda

Other healthy snacks ideas:
  • Fruit: Don't forget about canned, frozen and dried fruits with no added sugars. Try freezing grapes or buy frozen blueberries, strawberries, peaches, mangoes and melon. But be careful when offering fruit leather or snacks because some brands of fruit snacks are more like candy than fruit. You can also get kids to help make a fruit salad and use a variety of colored fruits to add to the appeal.
  • Vegetables: Serve with low-fat salad dressings, store-bought light dips, bean dips, guacamole, hummus, salsa or peanut butter. Also, try to make a salad or set out veggies like a salad bar and let the kids build their own salads.
  • Soy: Edamame are fun to eat and easy to serve. Heat frozen edamame in the microwave for about 2-3 minutes.
  • Healthy grains: Though most kids eat plenty of grain products, too many of those grains are cookies, snack cakes, sugary cereals and other refined grains that are high in sugars or fat. Serving mostly whole grains is a good idea. It provides more fiber, vitamins, and minerals than refined grains.

Correction, January 5, 2011: The original article incorrectly stated that Eliza Zied is the spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association. She is a past spokeswoman.

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]]>healthy snackhealthy snack foodhealthy snack ideashealthy snackinghealthy snackshealthy snacks for k...healthy snacks for kidsHealthySnackHealthySnackFoodHealthySnackIdeasHealthySnackingHealthySnacksHealthySnacksForK...HealthySnacksForKidsMelissa Kossler DuttonTue, 04 Jan 2011 13:30:00 ESTSanta Banned From Classroom When Muslim Family Complainshttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/30/santa-banned-from-classroom-when-muslim-family-complains/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/30/santa-banned-from-classroom-when-muslim-family-complains/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/30/santa-banned-from-classroom-when-muslim-family-complains/#commentsFiled under: , ,

For the past four years, Santa Claus has visited the children of St. Peter, Minnesota's Head Start Program. Santa, in this case, is a gentleman by the name of Dennis Jackson, who donates his time and the candy he gives out to spread Christmas cheer to the little ones who attend this program for low-income families.

But this year, Mr. Jackson (I mean Santa) was told by Head Start's administrator not to come. Why? Because, according to the regional coordinator for the Minnesota Valley Action Council, Chris Marben, at least one Muslim family complained of his visit.

When asked about banishing Santa, Marben said, "We have Somali families in the program. We're respecting the wishes of families in the program." She added, "Part of our challenge in Head Start is providing an environment where young children from many different cultures can all feel comfortable."

Hogwash! Mrs. Marben's decision has nothing to do with making the children feel comfortable. What child wouldn't be thrilled to see jolly old St. Nick and get some free candy?

This decision was all about the grown ups -- their politics, ideology, their fears of lawsuits and their intolerance.

Instead of taking Santa away from all the other kids, why couldn't objecting parents keep their child home that day, or simply request to have their child removed from the classroom at the time of this (supposedly ghastly) visit? But more importantly, Santa-tizing our schools from any religious symbols or references doesn't teach our children to be tolerant or sensitive to other people's religions or cultures. It does quite the opposite.

Moreover, it does the child of a Somali immigrant no good to shield him or her from a symbol that is so universally beloved by Americans. As the daughter of an immigrant myself, I can assure you that knowledge and understanding of the society the child's family has chosen to live in, is key to the child's success and assimilation.

No, none of this is about the children. It's too bad because Christmas is a time when we all think about ways to bring joy to children -- all children -- including those of the Muslim faith.

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]]>muslim family bans santaMuslimFamilyBansSantasanta banned from headstartSantaBannedFromHeadstartRachel Campos-DuffyThu, 30 Dec 2010 16:00:00 ESTTeaching Kids Good Manners: 5 Tips for Parentshttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/teaching-kids-good-manners-five-tips-for-parents/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/teaching-kids-good-manners-five-tips-for-parents/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/28/teaching-kids-good-manners-five-tips-for-parents/#commentsFiled under: , , ,

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Teaching kids proper manners starts at home. Credit: Philip Lim, AFP/Getty Images

We all want our kids to be polite people who treat others well, but young children are a fairly self-focused bunch, more interested in what they want than in saying thanks. How do we teach young kids the tangible skills and intangible instincts that make up good manners in our culture?

Child development experts Nurit Sheinberg and Lorraine Breffni, from the Early Childhood Studies Institute at Nova Southeastern University, say it begins with "realistic expectations and patience." Things such as good behavior in restaurants will come with practice and time, as kids gain self-control.

Preschoolers won't remember to say "please" or "thank you" after just a few reminders, Breffni says.

"From an operational standpoint, they're just not ready," she says.

But remind them enough, and eventually the lessons will stick. It helps to reward kids with positive words when they do the right thing. If a child shares a toy with a friend, point out how happy the friend looks.

"Make those connections between actions and reactions," Sheinberg says.

If a child is in daycare or preschool, find out how manners are approached there. Do teachers sit and talk with children at mealtime?

"Children should have multiple opportunities and contexts in which to see these skills demonstrated," Breffni says. Interaction with adults outside the family helps kids see and practice polite social behavior.

In addition, young kids watch and internalize, copying a parent's moves. Ramp up the politeness in your own behavior, and, over time, your kids will do the same.

Top five examples parents should set:

1. Share. Let another driver merge into your lane, hold the door for a stranger.

2. Don't interrupt. In the hustle of daily life, we may cut our kids off mid-sentence. Try not to sacrifice politeness for efficiency.

3. Pick up after yourself. Overbooked as parents are, making the bed is a luxury we don't always have time for. But children will learn from your examples.

4. Offer random acts of kindness. Watch a neighbor's kids or bake an unexpected treat for your coworkers. Your kids will notice.

5. Don't allow toys at the dinner table. This may be the toughest of all. Leave the BlackBerry and iPhone elsewhere, putting your focus on the food and the mealtime conversation.

Want more resources? Check out TV shows such as "Arthur" and "Cyberchase," which offer frequent lessons on patience, sharing and teamwork. Both Emily Post and Miss Manners have weighed in with books on good manners for kids, and a slew of children's storybooks explore politeness and courtesy.

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]]>developmentetiquetteevergreenmannerspolitenessMelissa RayworthTue, 28 Dec 2010 12:00:00 ESTBody Piercing: Is Your Child Ready?http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/08/body-piercing/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/08/body-piercing/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/12/08/body-piercing/#commentsFiled under: , , , ,

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Does your teen want a navel piercing? Credit: Corbis

It might be hard to imagine your perfect child with a pierced ear, much less a pierced tongue or navel. But in the event they ask you before they pierce, doctors say the same health rules apply for babies, teenagers and adults.

Some parents want their infant's ears pierced, but most doctors suggest waiting until they are at least a few months old.

"I prefer to wait until the child is old enough to care for the piercing on her own," Dr. Tanya Remer Altmann tells ParentDish. The California-based pediatrician will pierce an infant's ears if the parents request it and the baby has had both 2- and 4-month vaccines.

Toddlers are hard to deal with because of the squirm factor and they may have dirty fingers and play with the earrings, which can lead to infections.

"Wait until your daughter asks for it or has demonstrated that she is responsible enough to care for them on her own," Altmann says.

Whether you are piercing an ear or a navel, it's important that the instruments used are sterile to prevent infections. Same for the skin -- it needs to be prepped by cleaning before piercing.

Teenagers are trickier, of course. It's important to communicate, and, if you're lucky, you may be able to compromise, particularly with a younger teen. Altmann suggests using incentives like a second hole in one ear in exchange for keeping grades up.

While the chances of infection are lower if piercings are done in a doctor's office, it's just as likely that your son will show up one day with a pierced eyebrow performed by a friend. Chances are, nothing was sterile.

"In teens, I've treated infected piercings not only in their earlobes, but other pierced body parts," Altmann says.

Serious infections can result from unsterile piercings, Dr. Amy Derrick tells ParentDish. She emphasizes that it's important to keep the area that is pierced clean.

"Children tend to think of piercings as temporary, but there can be permanent complications from piercings," says Derrick, a dermatologist in Barrington, Ill.

Chipped and broken teeth are common with lip, tongue and mouth piercings, she says. Make sure your children know about the possibility of infection, scarring and broken teeth before they head to the piercing parlor.

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]]>evergreennavel-piercingpiercedpierced-earspiercingsEllen Rooney MartinWed, 08 Dec 2010 15:00:00 ESTParentDish's 20 Top Educational Toys for Toddlershttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/26/parentdishs-20-top-educational-toys-for-toddlers/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/26/parentdishs-20-top-educational-toys-for-toddlers/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/11/26/parentdishs-20-top-educational-toys-for-toddlers/#commentsFiled under: ,

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Zoolino Maxi Building Blocks by HABA. Credit: HABA

Toys are fun, but sometimes we want fun to be a little more productive. Educational toys might seem like an oxymoron to some, but many toys that seem like they are "just fun" are very educational, and many educational toys are a lot of fun. Here's a list of ParentDish's 20 Top Educational Toys for Toddlers.

1. The Farmer Says (Fisher-Price, $12.99, at Amazon.com): Here's an oldie but goodie. Pull the string, watch the arrow move, and when it lands on an animal, you hear the sound along with a helpful explanation. You know you remember it -- "The Cow Says ..." C'mon, you know the answer.

2. Chatter Telephone (Fisher-Price, $10.99, at Amazon.com): This classic from Fisher-Price was introduced in 1962. Although most of our phones don't have dials anymore (Remember dials? Or are we too old?), children will still enjoy playing with this charming little pull toy, and might even learn their numbers while they do so.

3. Mr. Potato Head Silly Suitcase (Playskool, $19.94, at Amazon.com): Ah, Mr. Potato Head. Originally this toy was a collection of plastic body parts -- eyes, nose and so on -- that were meant to be inserted into an actual potato. Eventually, a plastic potato body was added -- which is good, since real potatoes are messy and start to stink after awhile.

4. Zoolino Maxi Building Blocks (HABA, $35.99, at Amazon.com): We're choosing these blocks, but any blocks will do. Zoolinos are colorful and different from what most kids have. The thing to remember is that kids love blocks, and all that stacking and making of structures helps develop fine motor skills and creativity. Plus, it's fun.

5. Infantino Jumbo Shape Sorter (Infantino, $13.23, at Amazon.com): Again, it doesn't have to be this shape sorter. We picked this one because it's shaped like an elephant and is cute. Amazon.com has dozens to choose from; so take a look and see which sorter of shapes catches your eye.

6. Play-Doh 24 Pack of Colors (Play-Doh, $13.97, at Amazon.com): Sometimes kids just need to play with something squishy. Play-Doh can fill that need. This pack will get them started, costs just under 10 bucks and should be enough to last at least a couple of weeks.

7. Hi Ho Cherry-O (Hasbro, $9.01, at Amazon.com): This simple board game from Hasbro helps kids get an early start on counting before they learn to read. If that isn't enough to persuade you, it's a refreshing change from Candy Land.

8. Learning Resources -- Smart Snacks Piece-A-Pizza Fractions (Learning Resources, $14.08, at Amazon.com): All kids love pizza. And they also love fractions! OK, one out of two ain't bad. But seriously folks, this slice-and-dice toy is perfect for budding chefs and mathematicians alike.

9. Gearation Refrigerator Magnets (Tomy, $11.99, at Amazon.com): These may look more "toy" than they do "educational," but put them on the fridge and watch your toddler work on putting them together. Then watch her get excited because the gears actually MOVE. As a bonus, they don't play music.

10. Classic Embossed Alphabet Blocks ABC (Lindenwood, $29.95, at Amazon.com): Again, we need to be clear that we mean ABC blocks, not necessarily these specific ABC blocks, though this set is nice. The main thing, from an educational standpoint, is that kids benefit from seeing letters. They also like to stack things and watch them fall over. Why not have them learn their letters while they're at it?

11. LeapFrog Fridge Farm Magnetic Animal Set (LeapFrog, $15.99, at Amazon.com): More fun stuff to stick on the fridge! Warning: This one does make noise and may start to drive you a little bit nuts. But it will all be worth it when your toddler starts preschool and already knows her animals. At least that's what we tell ourselves.

12. Fisher-Price Rock-A-Stack (Fisher-Price, $8.01, at Amazon.com): It's possible that this stacking toy is in more homes than cable TV. And why not? Kids like to stack stuff, it's good for their hand-eye coordination and the pieces are too big to swallow. Just wipe the rings down with Purell before passing it on to a younger sibling.

13. LeapFrog Learn & Groove[TM] Musical Table (LeapFrog, $35.54, at Amazon.com): This toy has lots of enriching music-related activities to keep your toddler entertained for hours. Earplugs (for parents) not included.

14. Fisher-Price Laugh and Learn Say Please Tea Set (Fisher-Price, $16.54, at Amazon.com): Tea sets are a great way to inspire hours of pretend-play. This one adds some technological tricks, including songs, sounds (like pouring) and -- this is the best part -- the teaching of manners, like "please" and "thank you." Woo-hoo!

15. Thomas & Friends Wooden Railway (Learning Curve, $41.99, at Amazon.com): Train sets are always a hit, as is Thomas the Tank Engine. Since most toddlers aren't quite ready for real model trains, this is a great alternative. The cars stick together with magnets, which means that even the youngest train fans can have some fun.

16. Pretend and Play Calculator Cash Register (Learning Resources, $31.84, at Amazon.com): Money makes the world go 'round, right? Even if you live on a commune and have eschewed most of the world's material trappings, it's still a good idea for your child to learn to make change. The register has big buttons with big numbers on them -- perfect for little hands.

17. LEGO Duplo My First Set (LEGO, $15.88, at Amazon.com): Duplo is where LEGO fun begins. This set comes in a big tub that stores all of those colorful plastic bricks. Because you have to -- c'mon, sing it with us, you know the words -- "clean up, clean up, everybody, everywhere ..."

18. Melissa & Doug Cutting Food Box (Melissa & Doug, $14.16, at Amazon.com): Wooden apples! Wooden watermelon! Wooden bread! And it all fits together with Velcro. "Cut" the food into pieces with the wooden "knife," then put it back together and start all over again.

19. Melissa & Doug Deluxe Basic Skills Board (Melissa & Doug, $12.74, at Amazon.com): "Zip, buckle, lace, snap and more" -- skills that all kids need to learn. The board is so much fun, they won't realize that they're learning something useful until they notice that they've just tied their own shoes.

20. Alphabet Train Floor Puzzle (Melissa & Doug, $10.41, at Amazon.com): Again with the letters? Well, yes, letters are important. And this 10-foot-long puzzle -- yes, it really is that big -- is a great way to learn them.

(Note: Prices are accurate at the time of publication; Internet retailers change their prices frequently.)

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]]>educational toysevergreentoddler-toystoddlerstoysBrett SingerFri, 26 Nov 2010 08:00:00 ESTDealing With Separation Issues at Daycare Drop-Offhttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/11/dealing-with-separation-issues-at-daycare-drop-off/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/11/dealing-with-separation-issues-at-daycare-drop-off/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/11/dealing-with-separation-issues-at-daycare-drop-off/#commentsFiled under: , ,

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Be strong when your child starts crying. Credit: Getty Images

You're out of the house on time, with the whole family fed and dressed for the day. Now comes the hard part: Saying goodbye at daycare as a tearful toddler begs you not to go.

"It's pretty typical for children under the age of 2 to have separation issues during drop-off," says Erin Boyd-Soisson, associate professor of family science at Pennsylvania's Messiah College. But that actually can be "a good sign that they have a good attachment with their parents," she says.

Kids are usually fine within minutes of a parent's departure, but the experience can still be horribly guilt-inducing. Here's advice on minimizing the pain from Boyd-Soisson and Diane Strangis, child development specialist and assistant professor at Meredith College in North Carolina:

Create a routine. Kids are comforted by ritual, so plan a routine for your goodbye and stick to it. Maybe you'll read one short book, then hug goodbye. Or hug goodbye, then have the child wave from a window as you leave the building. "In some cases, a child walks the parent to the door and pushes them out, not shoving them, but patting them on the back, and gives them a little wave," Boyd-Soisson says. "It gives them control."

Don't rush, but don't linger. Some days, you're running late and drop-off is unavoidably rushed. When possible, take five minutes to let your ritual play out calmly. But there's a tipping point: Leave within 10 minutes.

Don't go back. It's tempting. But once you've said goodbye, returning reinforces the idea that crying brings you back. And don't sneak out: Strangis says the child may believe you're hiding and spend the morning anxiously searching for you.

Use familiar objects. Strangis suggests bringing something from home (family photos, a recording of a parent's voice). If the child is moving to a new room, try having an item on hand from her previous room at the daycare center. Bringing a favorite toy from home can work, but be sure to bring it home each night to avoid tears at bedtime.

Ease into transitions. If your child is starting at a new school or moving to a new room within his old school, visit the new space with him more than once. If he can spend time in the new room with you, he may feel more comfortable.

Separation issues may subside, then surface again periodically through age 4 or even 5, especially when stress pops up (sick grandparents, a parent out of town, etc.). With time, they'll subside permanently.

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]]>cryingdaycareDaycareWoesdrop-offevergreenpreschoolseparation-anxietyMelissa RayworthMon, 11 Oct 2010 17:03:00 ESTHow to Childproof Your Windowshttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/08/how-to-childproof/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/08/how-to-childproof/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/08/how-to-childproof/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,



Do you have a minute (OK, a minute and eight seconds?) Good. Now watch this video on window safety from the Consumer Product Safety Commission, and then walk around your house and do what you need to do to childproof your windows. Got it? Great. Glad we had this talk.

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]]>childproofingthe editors at ParentDishFri, 08 Oct 2010 12:42:00 ESTHandy Device Lets You 'Go' Whenever or Whereverhttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/06/handy-device-lets-you-go-whenever-or-wherever/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/06/handy-device-lets-you-go-whenever-or-wherever/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/10/06/handy-device-lets-you-go-whenever-or-wherever/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , ,

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When you gotta go, you gotta go. Credit: GoGirl


Let's face it ... the world is not a pee-friendly place if you're female.

Enter the GoGirl female urination device, a clever little thing made from flexible, medical grade silicone that can be a lifesaver whether you're hiking, camping, traveling or just find yourself somewhere without access to a clean restroom.

Because, odds are, you and your daughters will have to resort to squatting or trying to pee standing up at some point in time -- which, as you know, is not as easy as it sounds and often results in splashing or dribbling.

Easy-to-use, GoGirl fits snugly against your body, forming a seal that lets you simply aim and pee -- just like the guys. And it's washable, reusable and folds up into its own little tube for great portability -- so you can use it again and again, and stop counting the miles to the next clean restroom.

Available at GoGirl for $9.99.

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]]>bathroomcampinggirlshikingoutdoorspottypublic restroomsPublicRestroomsrestroomwomenHoney BerkWed, 06 Oct 2010 14:00:00 ESTWarning: Stop Using Infant Sleep Positioners Immediately or Risk Suffocation Deathshttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/29/warning-stop-using-infant-sleep-positioners-immediately-or-risk/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/29/warning-stop-using-infant-sleep-positioners-immediately-or-risk/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/29/warning-stop-using-infant-sleep-positioners-immediately-or-risk/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Parents are warned to stop using infant sleep positioners immediately. Credit: U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission


The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) and U.S. Food and Drug Administration issued a consumer alert today to warn parents to stop using infant sleep positioners, citing reports of 12 infants -- ages 1 month to 4 months -- who suffocated to death after being placed in the devices.

Most of the infants suffocated after rolling from a side to a stomach position; some of the infants suffocated on the device itself, while others succumbed after being trapped between a sleep positioner and the side of a crib or bassinet, according to CPSC Chairman Inez Tenenbaum.

In addition to the reported deaths, the CPSC has also received dozens of reports of infants who were placed on their back or sides in sleep positioners, only to be found later in potentially hazardous positions within or next to the devices.

"The deaths and dangerous situations resulting from the use of infant sleep positioners are a serious concern to CPSC," Tenenbaum said. "We urge parents and caregivers to take our warning seriously and stop using these sleep positioners, so that children can have a safer sleep."

The two main types of infant sleep positioners are flat mats with side bolsters or inclined (wedge) mats with side bolsters (see above).

Both types of sleep positioners typically claim to help keep infants on their backs, thereby reducing the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). There is, however, no evidence to support this claim, according to Dr. Rachel Moon, Chair of the American Academy of Pediatrics' Sudden Infant Death Syndrome Task Force.

"The American Academy of Pediatrics doesn't recommend any of the products that claim to protect against SIDS," Moon says, "Because, to our knowledge, none of these do actually protect against SIDS; there is no scientific evidence supporting these claims."

In addition, the FDA has never cleared an infant sleep positioner to prevent or reduce the risk of SIDS. Over the years, the FDA has approved 18 sleep positioner devices -- all of which had made claims of helping to reduce gastroesophageal reflux disease symptoms and/or preventing plagiocephaly -- also known as "flat head syndrome."

At this point, however, it has become clear that the risks of using infant sleep positioners outweigh the benefits, says Moon, so consumers are warned to immediately stop using the devices.

The FDA, which has jurisdiction over consumer products making medical claims, has contacted the manufacturers of the 18 approved infant sleep positioners and asked them to stop making these devices; the agency will also be contacting retailers to ask them to stop selling the devices, according to Dr. Joshua Sharfstein, FDA Principal Deputy Commissioner.

Sharfstein advised that today's public health message is seen as the quickest way to get the warning out the consumers, so that they immediately stop buying the fatality-causing products. However, in the future, the FDA may issue for products that have not voluntarily been removed from the market; the agency will also be investigating reports of other, unapproved sleep positioning devices, as well as any other devices out there that claim to prevent or reduce the risk of SIDS.

The CPSC, FDA and AAP warn parents to:
  • Stop using sleep positioners. Using a positioner to hold an infant on his or her back or side for sleep is dangerous and unnecessary.
  • Never put pillows, infant sleep positioners, comforters, or quilts under a baby or in a crib.
  • Always place an infant on his or her back at night and during nap time. To reduce the risk of SIDS, the AAP recommends placing infants to sleep on their backs and not their sides.
Visit the CPSC's website for information about the agency's Safe Sleep initiative, which advises parents on how to help their kids sleep safely.

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]]>aapalertcpscfdarecallsidsSudden Infant Death SyndromeSuddenInfantDeathSyndromeHoney BerkWed, 29 Sep 2010 15:46:00 ESTBeehives Wooden Toy a Buzzworthy Pick for Preschoolershttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/28/beehives-wooden-toy-a-buzzworthy-pick-for-preschoolers/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/28/beehives-wooden-toy-a-buzzworthy-pick-for-preschoolers/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/28/beehives-wooden-toy-a-buzzworthy-pick-for-preschoolers/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , ,

Beehives wooden toy

A real honey of a toy. Credit: Moolka


Inspired by real bees and their natural habitats, the colorful and adorable Beehives from Plan Toys entertains children while helping them develop fine motor skills, coordination and concentration.

Beehives challenges preschoolers to return each bee to its color-coordinated home, using the included wooden pincers. The toy is designed using a modular system concept which allows for play using various configurations and at different levels.

Beehives also provides parents with a great opportunity to teach their children about the wondrous bee and its role as nature's hardest worker.

It's made of natural, chemical-free recycled rubberwood and finished with natural latex glue and non-toxic water-based paint.

Available at Moolka for $29.99.

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]]>beehivebeesplan toysPlanToyspreschoolersshoppingtoyswooden toysWoodenToysHoney BerkTue, 28 Sep 2010 14:00:00 ESTPlay Garden Lets Toddlers Grow Their Own Adventureshttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/17/play-garden-lets-toddlers-grow-their-own-adventures/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/17/play-garden-lets-toddlers-grow-their-own-adventures/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/17/play-garden-lets-toddlers-grow-their-own-adventures/#commentsFiled under: , , , , ,

play garden for kids really grows

No watering required. Credit: Glamma Toys


Mary, Mary quite contrary, how does your garden grow?

With magnets, of course, in the Zolo Play Garden.

Your tots can build a fanciful garden using their imaginations and the 11 magnetic creatures and plant pieces included in this activity set. The window box is magnetic, as well, so all the pieces stick and stack in lots of different configurations.

And when playtime is done, the window box doubles as a zippered carrying case, so everything stows away neatly for next time.

Available at Glamma Toys for $73.95.

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]]>gardeningshoppingtoysHoney BerkFri, 17 Sep 2010 14:00:00 ESTInnovative Bugaboo Convertible Stroller to Hit Stores Next Springhttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/16/innovative-bugaboo-convertible-stroller-to-hit-stores-next-sprin/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/16/innovative-bugaboo-convertible-stroller-to-hit-stores-next-sprin/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/16/innovative-bugaboo-convertible-stroller-to-hit-stores-next-sprin/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , ,

Bugaboo Convertible Stroller

This Donkey is quite a workhorse. Credit: Bugaboo


In a highly-anticipated announcement, the folks at Bugaboo have unveiled a new stroller that could very well revolutionize on-the-go parenting.

The Bugaboo Donkey is being introduced as the first mono-duo-mono convertible stroller for transporting kids and all the stuff they need when you're out and about. In just three clicks, this amazing stroller can be converted from a full-sized mono to a full-sized, side-by-side duo and back again to a mono stroller.

What that means, in practical terms, is that you can use it for your first child, your second child, or both -- or for twins. It also offers a good amount of flexible storage space, and is pretty compact even in the full duo position.

Though the company has not yet announced the price of the Bugaboo Donkey, existing strollers range from $600 for the Bugaboo Bee to $880 for the Bugaboo Cameleon.

Available in spring 2011 at Bugaboo.

Related: Stroller Review: Bugaboo Bee

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]]>bugaboobugaboo donkeyBugabooDonkeyshoppingstrollerstrollersHoney BerkThu, 16 Sep 2010 10:30:00 ESTHappy 95th Birthday, Raggedy Ann!http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/07/happy-95th-birthday-raggedy-ann/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/07/happy-95th-birthday-raggedy-ann/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/09/07/happy-95th-birthday-raggedy-ann/#commentsFiled under: , , , ,

Raggedy Ann

95 years, later, Raggedy Ann still makes a great BFF for little ones. Credit: Amazon


Help celebrate lovable, red-headed Raggedy Ann's 95th birthday today with a new edition of exclusive, vintage-inspired Raggedy Ann and Andy Anniversary dolls created by Applause by Russ.

Unlike more contemporary versions, these Anniversary dolls bring to mind illustrations of the original characters from the earliest Raggedy Ann books by author Johnny Gruelle, who created the character for his daughter, Marcella, in 1915.

But fear not -- though she may look a little differently than she did when we were young, Raggedy Ann still rocks those features we love most about her: Button eyes, yarn hair, triangle nose, rosy cheeks and -- most importantly -- a heart that says "I Love You" embroidered onto her chest.

Available at Amazon for $24.17.

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]]>dollsshoppingtoytoysHoney BerkTue, 07 Sep 2010 14:30:00 ESTCircumcision: Is It Right for Your Baby Boy?http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/31/circumcision-is-it-right-for-your-baby-boy/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/31/circumcision-is-it-right-for-your-baby-boy/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/31/circumcision-is-it-right-for-your-baby-boy/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

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The decision to circumcise is up to parents. Credit: Nicole Hill, Getty Images


The debate over circumcision heated up when the Centers for Disease Control announced it may recommend circumcising all baby boys, but experts say the decision still rests with parents.

First of all, just what is circumcision? Dr. Rodolfo Sarmiento, a pediatrician on staff at Advocate Good Samaritan Hospital in Downers Grove, Ill., told ParentDish it's an elective procedure done to boys after birth, usually 24 hours after they are delivered. The prepuce, or overlying skin at the tip of the penis, is removed.

The procedure does cause the child pain, so doctors will administer a pain reliever such as Tylenol. Some physicians, Sarmiento says, prefer to give a newborn sugar or a local, topical anesthetic to help with pain control.

Not all parents choose to have their children circumcised, which is why the CDC's announcement caused such a stir. Officials are considering promoting the procedure in the U.S., according to The New York Times, because it may help reduce the spread of H.I.V., the virus that causes AIDS.

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]]>baby boysBabyBoyscircumcisedcircumcisionevergreenhealthpenisAmy HatchTue, 31 Aug 2010 16:40:00 ESTPotty Training Requires Preparation, Patience and Praisehttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/26/potty-training-requires-preparation-patience-and-praise/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/26/potty-training-requires-preparation-patience-and-praise/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/26/potty-training-requires-preparation-patience-and-praise/#commentsFiled under: ,

Potty Training Requires Preparation, Patience and Praise

Be patient with your child when potty training. Credit: Getty Images

When it's time to potty train, it's all about the three "P" words: preparation, praise and patience.
Prepare your children for toilet training by providing them with books on the topic and the words your family uses to describe bathroom functions.

Introduce children to the potty slowly. Start by setting them fully clothed on a closed toilet seat. Eventually, let them sit on the potty at times when they are likely to go -- early in the morning, after a meal or about 45 minutes after they've had a drink.

"It's best to do some figuring out of the child's patterns in advance of the situation," says Linda Sonna, a psychologist and author of "Early-Start Potty Training."

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]]>accidentsevergreenpotty trainingPottyTrainingToiletTrainingToiletTrainingBoysMelissa Kossler DuttonThu, 26 Aug 2010 06:00:00 ESTOpinion: 'Imagination Playground' Lives Up to Its Namehttp://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/opinion-imagination-playground-lives-up-to-its-name/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/opinion-imagination-playground-lives-up-to-its-name/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/opinion-imagination-playground-lives-up-to-its-name/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , ,


"Imagination Playground" at the South Street Seaport in Manhattan officially opened to the public this summer, with a press conference featuring New York City's Mayor Michael Bloomberg -- and a $7.5 million price tag.

The South Street Seaport has a long history as the city's maritime commerce center, dating back to the early 1800s. In 1983, through a city redevelopment initiative, the Seaport was opened to the public with dozens of shops and restaurants. Since then, it has grown into a major tourist area with a schedule of events and amenities that attract scores of visitors and locals to the area.

Imagination Playground was clearly built to honor and celebrate the area's rich maritime tradition, using design elements such as ship's masts and a crow's nest, and featuring water and sand as the two core play elements. It spans an entire city block, replacing a parking lot that had been used by one of the city agencies, which helped develop the project.

I heard of the plans for the playground about four years ago, when the concept was first announced by the city. Architect David Rockwell is well-respected and pretty well known in these parts, so the fact that he was turning his talents to design a playground for kids was certainly newsworthy.

Yet, when I read about the playground's opening and its hefty price tag, I have to admit I was outraged, as my thoughts turned to the battle of the budget fought this year by New York parents to ensure their kids still receive free transit cards for travel to and from school.

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]]>new yorknew york cityNewYorkNewYorkCityplayplaygroundHoney BerkWed, 25 Aug 2010 17:00:00 ESTMedical Mystery Surrounding Highly-Sensitive Kids ... Solved?http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/medical-mystery-surrounding-highly-sensitive-kids-solved/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/medical-mystery-surrounding-highly-sensitive-kids-solved/http://www.parentdish.com/2010/08/25/medical-mystery-surrounding-highly-sensitive-kids-solved/#commentsFiled under: , , , , , , , , , ,


The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Processing Disorder book

This book could help in diagnosing your child's sensitivities. Courtesy of Sensory World


You have a gut feeling that something's wrong with your child: He's often cranky, confused, overwhelmed, fatigued. At times you suspect a rare illness -- maybe autism or ADD? But his pediatrician gives him a clean bill of health, and his teacher says those other labels don't quite fit. Neurodevelopment expert Roya Ostovar may have the answer.

Her book, "The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Processing Disorder," introduces the little-known developmental condition. Children with the disorder cannot properly process stimuli received through the senses. Because sensory processing disorder is just now gaining wider recognition outside specialized clinical circles, it can be difficult to diagnose and, therefore, treat. Not only does "The Ultimate Guide" thoroughly explain the condition and offer many real case examples, it lists detailed, situation-specific strategies for children and their families that can produce life-changing results.

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]]>autismAutism Spectrum Disorderbehavioral problemsdevelopmental disordermedical conditionoccupational therapyproperioceptive systempsychiatric disordersRoya Ostovarself-esteemsensory integration therapySPDMaureen ShellyWed, 25 Aug 2010 16:00:00 EST