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The last time I spoke to my grandmother was early 2000, just after my Chinese mother officially cut her off. Our relationship was comprised of birthday cards, infrequent holiday visits and reluctant phone calls, forced out of a polite obligation. ...Raised in the Chinese "way," I learned that achievement meant acceptance. And acceptance meant love. And so I did everything I could to get it.